Cool... I am not trying to be a dick my friend..
It's great that she loves you, but if you love her you'll learn to control your emotions, and not be controlled by them.
I appreciate that you are trying to do what you believe to be the right thing. That is admirable.
Love is an amazing and splendid thing, however, it doesn't always put food on the table. It requires a lot of self sacrifice.
1 Timothy 5:8
But if any provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
I know you are a believer, so I thought this might help put things into perspective.
If you're not a believer, ignore the verse. It's not for you