LivinLarger
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Been with this girl for 2 years now, she is 23, I am 30 she lives with me and for the most part we get along fine. Problem is, SHE IS A LYING BITCH, as I have found out most women are.
I have a severe problem with trusting this one, 3 mo's after we started going out we got into a fight about something and she ran off and fucked another guy. Her friends all told me what she had done and she denied it completely even though I could tell she was lying.
Finally I called the guy she nailed and found out the truth, she still denied it and only admitted it as I was walking out the door for the last time.
Despite EVERYONE telling me to get rid of her I decided to trust her and get back together.Things have been decent since then and I told her that she would need to rebuild the trust between us.
We like to party a lot here in GR and have lots of mutual friends and party a good bit. I have always told her if she ever does coke that I would get rid of her because I have had a coke head GF before and it was pathetic. Never had money, sneaking around doing coke behind my back, hanging out with who-ever could get it for her, etc, etc you all know how it goes.
Well this weekend she decides to give it a try, I noticed her eyes were huge and she was bouncing off of the walls, it took me about 3 seconds to know what was up. I confronted her, she of course denied it. Did some investigating because I knew she was lying to me and found out someone I know sold an 8 ball to a friend of hers and they had been "going out to the car".
She still denied it, I rode home with a friend and slept next to her pissed as hell. She was still denying it all so I went to the store while she was still sleeping and bought a drug test. When i got back I woke her up and I told her she could piss in the cup for me now, or in an hour for her parents because that's where I would be heading next.
So with that she finally admitted to doing a line, but who know how much she really did or for how long she has been because she is a liar.
She works in a strip club and most of her friends are into coke so I figured she would fuck up sooner or later.
I constantly turn down other women whenever I go out and getting another girl would not be an issue, but it seems all of the good ones are gone and I am sick of weeding through all of the shitty women out there.
I told her I would help her move her shit out and that it would be best for her because I could never see myself marrying her because she is a liar. She started crying and begging me not to get rid of her, telling me I could test her whenever etc etc.
I have seen coke ruin the lives of a few of my friends and I have NEVER tried it and never will. Virtually all of her GF are hooked on the shit and she has a very addictive personality so I bet she will do it again and again......
I am in idiot if do not get rid of her right?....
Just looking for some feedback, this is a big decision for me and I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
What would you do?
LL
I have a severe problem with trusting this one, 3 mo's after we started going out we got into a fight about something and she ran off and fucked another guy. Her friends all told me what she had done and she denied it completely even though I could tell she was lying.
Finally I called the guy she nailed and found out the truth, she still denied it and only admitted it as I was walking out the door for the last time.
Despite EVERYONE telling me to get rid of her I decided to trust her and get back together.Things have been decent since then and I told her that she would need to rebuild the trust between us.
We like to party a lot here in GR and have lots of mutual friends and party a good bit. I have always told her if she ever does coke that I would get rid of her because I have had a coke head GF before and it was pathetic. Never had money, sneaking around doing coke behind my back, hanging out with who-ever could get it for her, etc, etc you all know how it goes.
Well this weekend she decides to give it a try, I noticed her eyes were huge and she was bouncing off of the walls, it took me about 3 seconds to know what was up. I confronted her, she of course denied it. Did some investigating because I knew she was lying to me and found out someone I know sold an 8 ball to a friend of hers and they had been "going out to the car".
She still denied it, I rode home with a friend and slept next to her pissed as hell. She was still denying it all so I went to the store while she was still sleeping and bought a drug test. When i got back I woke her up and I told her she could piss in the cup for me now, or in an hour for her parents because that's where I would be heading next.
So with that she finally admitted to doing a line, but who know how much she really did or for how long she has been because she is a liar.
She works in a strip club and most of her friends are into coke so I figured she would fuck up sooner or later.
I constantly turn down other women whenever I go out and getting another girl would not be an issue, but it seems all of the good ones are gone and I am sick of weeding through all of the shitty women out there.
I told her I would help her move her shit out and that it would be best for her because I could never see myself marrying her because she is a liar. She started crying and begging me not to get rid of her, telling me I could test her whenever etc etc.
I have seen coke ruin the lives of a few of my friends and I have NEVER tried it and never will. Virtually all of her GF are hooked on the shit and she has a very addictive personality so I bet she will do it again and again......
I am in idiot if do not get rid of her right?....
Just looking for some feedback, this is a big decision for me and I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
What would you do?
LL