My boyfriend is going out of town for the weekend

[blueta2]

Oh great.....I'm going to drown myself in white wine by 3pm ;-)

 

[zwhit]

He's not that good looking. You'll be fine

 

[-SD-]

We don't hang out all week anymore because of his work sched. So we only hang out on weekend, so not stuck at the hip, but yes, worried he will do something he's not suppose to since I've had a bad history of men being aholes!
He's not the cheating type, but he's a good looking dude and has some ex's where he's going.

How do you know, just because he said so? No one whos been cheated on ever thought they were with the cheating type. Not trying to be a dick lol

 

[blueta2]

He's not that good looking. You'll be fine

HAHAH....yes he is! Well at least I think so!
Dude, we were in a restaurant and some girl came up to him (when I was in the bathroom) and handed him her phone number.
This worries me

 

[shirlene29]

How do you know, just because he said so? No one whos been cheated on ever thought they were with the cheating type. Not trying to be a dick lol

since when do you not try to be a dick!!!

 

[blueta2]

How do you know, just because he said so? No one whos been cheated on ever thought they were with the cheating type. Not trying to be a dick lol

I guess like me, he cheated once, it freaked him out and he never did it again. But I guess on some level, it's possible.

So I guess I really don't know. I said my ex was not the cheating type and look what happened there.

I think I will start the wine NOW ;-)

 

[jiggagold]

Is insecurity common place in older couples. I thought that was for young fuckers.

 

[cindylou]

If he cheats on you, he cheats. Don't be afraid of it. If he leaves, he leaves.

 

[blueta2]

Is insecurity common place in older couples. I thought that was for young fuckers.

NO WAY! I was super secure until recently. No matter what happened to me, I always trusted and was secure. This last 2 yrs has put me in a tail spin and I'm jaded and mistrusting.
I never knew what being insecure felt like until a couples years ago!!!

 

[blueta2]

If he cheats on you, he cheats. Don't be afraid of it. If he leaves, he leaves.

I'm not worried he leaves, he won't!
I cannot control the cheating, and if he fucks around,I just worry about him being stupid about it.
My fear is not losing him or him cheating, it's about getting some std. Him and I just did our second round of testing and he was ok (I knew I was).

and I think if I was that insecure, I would not have encouraged him to go. I really wanted him to see his friends, so on some level, I;m really cool with it.

This is just fumes from the past I think....