My boyfriend is getting fat........

[jennifer BFL chick]

youre a materialistic person who doesnt fall in love for the right reasons.If you really loved him then you wouldnt give a shit about his appearnce. I say this because my girl also doesnt work out but i love hell out of her. oh yea and i dont think youre hot at all...maybe pretty but thats it. youre body too isnt perfect no matter what all the horny guys here tell you. Its just the testosterone running through their bodies thats doing the talking.

I figured someone would resort to saying this sooner or later...

But If you had read this thread at all, you would see that its not just his apperence, but the difference in lifestyle thats getting to me. Its for HEALTH reasons as well. I don't date smokers or drinkers or drug users for the same reasons.....

1, its a different lifestlye then I

2, they are most likely going to have health problems sooner or later in life

I don't expect him to get a six pack, but I would like him to be able to go skiing with me without dying of lack of breath.


rudedawg---we don't get "busy" all that much. And when we do, its usually late at night. I see him about 2 times a week usually, because we have different work sceduals.

 

[SonnyBlack]

If he was with you and supportive of you when you were overweight but you'd criticize him when he is, you're the DEVIL.

Then again I don't know if you were ever overweight, so this reply is null and void [/QUO

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[jennifer BFL chick]

If he was with you and supportive of you when you were overweight but you'd criticize him when he is, you're the DEVIL.

Then again I don't know if you were ever overweight, so this reply is null and void [/QUO

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He wasn't supportive when I was overweight......he just ignored the situation. I also hid my weight gain by wearing baggy cloths, and NEVER letting him see me nude in the light.

This is not an issue of weight or "looks". He has never been in shape, and I have always been attracted to him enough to date him obviously. I'm still attracted to him now, but its starting to turn me off----it that makes me vain, so be it. Dosn't mean I care any less for him, just my desire to get freak nasty with him is going down.

 

[rudedawg]

He wasn't supportive when I was overweight......he just ignored the situation. I also hid my weight gain by wearing baggy cloths, and NEVER letting him see me nude in the light.

This is not an issue of weight or "looks". He has never been in shape, and I have always been attracted to him enough to date him obviously. I'm still attracted to him now, but its starting to turn me off----it that makes me vain, so be it. Dosn't mean I care any less for him, just my desire to get freak nasty with him is going down.

I don't see anything wrong with wanting a fit "mate". If that makes me "Shallow Hal" ok. BTW if you haven't seen that movie it is good for some laughs.

 

[PsychoSkitz]

No girls I know like to play football. That doesn't bother me.

Working out isn't a lifestyle IMO, it's a hobby.

If pro sports are "hobbies" and "games," why is working out a lifestyle?

 

[BigPhysicsBastard]

off topic question here.....but are you mormon jen??? Is your boyfriend?? and another thing, you say you and your bf don't have sex.....than you go on to say your desire to get freaky nasty with has gone down. Well....what is it?? are you engaging in sexual activity with him now or in the past??

 

[BanMe]

This thread is funny as hell! Some guy posted this same question about his girlfriend getting fat and the women on this board ripped him a new ass hole for it.

 

[Frackal]

Comments?

Let's have sex.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

off topic question here.....but are you mormon jen??? Is your boyfriend?? and another thing, you say you and your bf don't have sex.....than you go on to say your desire to get freaky nasty with has gone down. Well....what is it?? are you engaging in sexual activity with him now or in the past??

lol----why does everyone ask me this?

No, no, and no----I'm not Mormon, neither is my boyfriend.

There are ALOT of people that live in Utah that are not Mormons.

"freak Nasty" was my term for foreplay. He is a virgin, so no we have never had sex yet. He wants to wait until marriage.

 

[PsychoSkitz]

Two years and no sex? BWAAAAA....

Leave his sorry ass and burn a bible in front of him. He'll appreciate it.

Better yet, one day when he comes home have candles lit, bloody hearts on the floor, a pagan star drawn in blood on the floor, etc and tell him to convert with you. If he does, he loves you.