My boyfriend is getting fat........

[Austin316]

sounds like a friend of mine. Kids put on 50 lbs in the last 2 years, he just doesn't care

 

[captaintude]

Hmmm....I would just come out and tell him that your worried about him and his health, and because you do love him, seeing him being unhealthy turns you off because you have to worry about him and it's not fair to you.

Be upfront and honest, just not brutal......we men have egg thin egos and pride.....(sure I'll get flamed for saying that)

enough of my dear abbie doctor phil wannabee sounding sap..

damn, can't believe I had a sane moment of seriousness....ah well therapy must be working......good ole Doctor Heineken...matter a fact...i'll go for another visit right now.

good luck.

 

[BITCHIZER]

Get him Geared up . . . his whole outlook will change

 

[gotmilk]

Bullshit, tell this fat motherfucker to have some respect and get his bitch ass into shape or hit the door!

To the point.

Hey Jen, ever think you are just changing your tastes? Were you not pushing porker for awhile when you met this guy? Now, you're a hottie thanks to some hard work. Maybe man-boobs are not instyle for you anymore.

Face it.....you've changed in more than one way

 

[WODIN]

It's all about self respect. He has issues that you once shared and you've gone one way, he has gone another. Time to either bring your mutual solutions into alingment or move on.

 

[FreakMonster]

Jen,
I really think you should dump this guy. If he doesn't share the same interests as you and doesn't have the dedication to get in shape then TRUST ME the relationship will not work out in the long run and you will be dissapointed. I know you care alot about him and love him very much but you just have to face the facts and move on. There are plenty of guys out there that share the same lifestyle as you and I suggest you go out a find one that does because your just running into a dead end.

 

[saint808]

Oh, and sex is not a part of our relationship, lol. He wants to wait until he's married. But you still need to be sexually attracted to someone for it to work in the long run thats true, very true.

/B]

I'm a firm believer that you should have sex first... because if it is really bad then it will be really bad for a really long time... i know the idea is sweet, but it's a gamble. i had a friend get married to a guy and they waited they ended up divorced because he had real issues in bed... he was adirty talker in the sack and she was a sweetheart, romantic type...

 

[Gilbyag]

I feel for you.... every night.... where are you.....

 

[jayjay24]

I know what you mean. It feels as if you are working hard to look good for your significant other (and yourself), but they are not trying.

The problem in relationships is that once we settle in, we stop trying to impress the other person.

 

[talonracer]

Oh, and sex is not a part of our relationship, lol. He wants to wait until he's married.

Jen the fat ass is gay, either that or he's getting it somewhere else.