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My boyfriend is getting fat........
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HappyScrappy
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jennifer said:
I don't feel that teasing him is the answer
hmmm, how about mocking?
seriously though, just talk to him about it. if he starts working out, then fantastic, hopefully he sticks with it.
if he doesn't, at least he has had the warning and it won't be a total surprise when you lose interest in him.
jennifer BFL chick
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Ok, I'm going to bring it up this weekend and see what he says.
I'm pretty sure that if he starts working out, even if its just to please me, after a while he will WANT to do it for himself---which is my goal here.
We are to the point in our relationship when either we are going to go all the way, or end it-----its just strange facing the truth.
I'm pretty sure that if he starts working out, even if its just to please me, after a while he will WANT to do it for himself---which is my goal here.
We are to the point in our relationship when either we are going to go all the way, or end it-----its just strange facing the truth.
jennifer said:
Jennifer, you know i respect you and your opinions most of the time (and to be honest your naked glistening body), but that kinda scares me... it's almost like you think you can trick him into something he doesn't want to do... just doesn't sound like you... sounds like you are not happy right now and want change and are trying to create it out of something that isn't there. just be careful hun.
jennifer BFL chick
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saint808 said:
If I am trying to "trick" him, its only for his good in the long run anyhow. At least I'm trying to improve him, not rip him apart.
I'm very happy in the relationship, but I don't think I'm happy enough to go all the way with it-----so I'm trying to make that happen. If theres anything that he wants me to change, and I can see the benefit from it, I would do it.
jennifer BFL chick
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saint808 said:
Then that's when I need to make a decision if I "deal" with it or not.
I just feel like in the long run, it would really cause problems
you could TRY and scare the crap outta him
take his BP, but wear something really low cut and show of your figure. his b.p. will be through the roof! even though it really dont meant that much to have a high b.p. it might be enough 'motivation' to get him in the gym!
i know the mindset he's got. he doesnt 'percieve' himself as fat....maybe a heart to hearts in order
take his BP, but wear something really low cut and show of your figure. his b.p. will be through the roof! even though it really dont meant that much to have a high b.p. it might be enough 'motivation' to get him in the gym!
i know the mindset he's got. he doesnt 'percieve' himself as fat....maybe a heart to hearts in order
strongchick
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what do people do, exactly, after a year of two of consistent working out, while their mate goes the other direction?
This is a heavy question, and the answer isn't as simple as I thought.
I find that I can't even think about dating someone not in the 'lifestyle', but then, I'm sure if I dump my current lover I will be alone for a LONG time if I try to find another fitness nut. I love her, but...
Right now, she won't even listen to me when I advise her on eating right and working out. I can't stand going to work out with her anymore because she puts one or two fucking plates on the machine and calls it working out!
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This is a heavy question, and the answer isn't as simple as I thought.
I find that I can't even think about dating someone not in the 'lifestyle', but then, I'm sure if I dump my current lover I will be alone for a LONG time if I try to find another fitness nut. I love her, but...
Right now, she won't even listen to me when I advise her on eating right and working out. I can't stand going to work out with her anymore because she puts one or two fucking plates on the machine and calls it working out!
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