My bf in Texas dumped me

[gotmilk]

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

uh...is that bad?

 

[Sub-Zero]

Yeah, no kidding. what a butt, though, huh? He broke up with me because I didn't make his bed in the morning? What a loser.

By the way, I was thinking about you guys when I was in Texas, but I had your info here in ef and was on temp self-imposed bannering..lol.

he probably just made shit up so you think hes a tool instead of taking it hard, cause most likely he knows what uv been through lately and how hard being a single mom can be.

he really just hates your personality, and thinks you suck

 

[gotmilk]

I didn't realize Jon was so anal about making the bed.

You should have picked up the quarter and told the guy to call someone who cares.

 

[all the whey]

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

is this true?

 

[redsamurai]

Heather.......couple things......

A) what are you doing dating a guy across the country while you have a kid? Seems you picked out more than a few unattractive personality traits in this guy yet you still were seeing him for sometime. Guys who fly women in from around the country are bad news.........usually.

B) The girls are totally right, mama's boy. But he doesn't hold a candle to my cousins ex husband who was an astronaut. The guy would micro manage her life in a way that defies reality. This prick would time her while she cut vegetables, he made her practice shutting the car door so that she got the force "just right" for optimum longevity of the latch..........and the kicker, they had to analyze her bowel movements every morning to monitor her diet. It was "bad" if it sank to the bottom and likewise if it floating on top. It had to "hover" an inch or so below the water line. I shit you not, when I heard this stuff years later, I couldn't keep a straight face......but at the time it was serious because she was being driven to insanity. Her dad finally went and got her out of the house. Guys like this are mental and need to be institutionalized..........so be glad you got out, cause it probably would have gotten worse. Is that the kind of "man" you wanted to raise Devin?

 

[all the whey]

 

[heatherrae]

he probably just made shit up so you think hes a tool instead of taking it hard, cause most likely he knows what uv been through lately and how hard being a single mom can be.

he really just hates your personality, and thinks you suck

thanks. I feel so much better now.

 

[heatherrae]

Holy hell. I've got to email him that.

 

[heatherrae]

Heather.......couple things......

A) what are you doing dating a guy across the country while you have a kid? Seems you picked out more than a few unattractive personality traits in this guy yet you still were seeing him for sometime. Guys who fly women in from around the country are bad news.........usually.

B) The girls are totally right, mama's boy. But he doesn't hold a candle to my cousins ex husband who was an astronaut. The guy would micro manage her life in a way that defies reality. This prick would time her while she cut vegetables, he made her practice shutting the car door so that she got the force "just right" for optimum longevity of the latch..........and the kicker, they had to analyze her bowel movements every morning to monitor her diet. It was "bad" if it sank to the bottom and likewise if it floating on top. It had to "hover" an inch or so below the water line. I shit you not, when I heard this stuff years later, I couldn't keep a straight face......but at the time it was serious because she was being driven to insanity. Her dad finally went and got her out of the house. Guys like this are mental and need to be institutionalized..........so be glad you got out, cause it probably would have gotten worse. Is that the kind of "man" you wanted to raise Devin?

Good point!

That is weird. He actually said that I shut his door to his car too hard. I may have been dating the same man...lol. He told me I needed to let Devin cry. He told me that I should be working out 4 days on and 1 day off...lol...it was ENDLESS. He was such a NAG. I would try to help him in the kitchen and he would bitch that I put the glasses in the dishwasher instead of hand washing them. For some reason, he accused me on the first day there of getting into the pantry and eating the snacks. I didn't. I'm on a diet, but go figure. He was weird.

 

[heatherrae]

I didn't realize Jon was so anal about making the bed.

You should have picked up the quarter and told the guy to call someone who cares.

lol.