Men & Cheating

[Razorguns]

sweets, I agree. Both ex's cheated on me.........more than once!
It's the most hurtful feeling in the world. It was my karma

You're Canadian. You already got $5/gas and 13% sales tax and surrounded by hippies. So we feel for you already.

r

 

[blueta2]

You're Canadian. You already got $5/gas and 13% sales tax and surrounded by hippies. So we feel for you already.

r

I appreciate that

I live in a large city though, no hippies here

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

My logic is super flawed, being cheated on is a super shitty feeling, so why not impart it on others after you've had it happen to you?

 

[blueta2]

Word.

Like I said earlier (you bozos should be printing out my posts!) - MANY of your female ancestors have been put in hospitals, thrown onto fires by family members, or met the business end of a shotgun by simply CHEATING. You don't fuck with the honor, pride and manlihood of a man. It can drive him to do things he never would normally do. (and courts are aware of that, and award far lighter sentences - sometimes not even charging him).

Why a woman would take such a serious chance - is really beyond me. Hence why I say stupid (then again, I say stupid a lot, so..).

r

I've never feared a man in my life

 

[Bikini Mod]

I've never feared a man in my life

I've feared a coupla few but that ain't hardly why I won't cheat.

It has to do with two things:

1. I would NEVER feed the ego of another man by *letting him have another man's wife* (that would be me).

2. I would NEVER want to be in a position of serfdom. In other words, there is NO FUCKING WAY I would do shit to have my spouse be able to hold shit over MY HEAD.

Yea, I am fucking stubborn and proud like that.

Not to mention that I don't lie/cheat/steal.... EVER.

I am better than that. Always have been. Always will be.

NO MAN wants to have the woman that *any man* or *every man* can have. BUT if a man finds a female appealing - they ALL want *that female* that NO MAN or *ONLY ONE MAN* can have. <--- learn that women.

 

[izap1]

We all cheat. Men and women. It's human nature. Let's just face it.

I'm tired of people making frivolous excuses for their behavior...YES IT'S HUMAN NATURE! Just like Killing for survival is! Does that mean you're going to kill also? That's why we have such a thing called Free Will, then there's ethics, principles and things associated with cheating that you might want to avoid like guilt that could severely affect emotionality and mentality.....

 

[samoth]

Well, maybe Samoth, I heard he's emo.

I'm not emo, god dammit!

 

[izap1]

To me there are no really valid reasons for cheating...PEOPLE cheat due to their characteristic flaws...just like a liar, theif, etc.. All they can do is try to change for the better and grow as a person.....Sometimes in order for a person to grow, maybe they also need to change environments and be placed in different circumstances and situations.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Actually, I beg to disagree with ANYONE that argues "cheating is human nature.".... sorry that is bullshit pure and simple. Maybe for the person who uses that arguement it is, but please do NOT put ME and those that I associate with closely into that category 'cause sorry - that AINT part of OUR nature.

 

[calveless wonder]

I think the proper way to word it is....

from a hard wiring and evolutionary psychology standpoint, cheating (moreso from the male perspective) is in fact imbeded in our genetics. Males are conditioned to spread their seed as much as possible.For women, it's different in that they seek the most capable male to carry their seed due to limited fertility time as well as the great cost of resources and time it is to be pregnant. Therefore when they find another male more capable, they are more inclined to be with that male.

HOWEVER, as we have progressed and evolved..social conditioning can and has altered these. we are not slaves to this genetic programming. people with integrity and character can prevent this bullshit