Men & Cheating

[velvett]

Any chance they cheat on YOU because you're a whiney High Maintenance PITA who thinks her pussy is lined with platinum and that the men in her life should go around kissing her ass if you are so gracious as to give them their twice yearly 20 second blow job?

I just choked on my coffee.

You my dear have such a way with words.

 

[musclemom]

I just choked on my coffee.

You my dear have such a way with words.

I'm sowwy Coffee down wrong pipe is burny.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I'm sowwy Coffee down wrong pipe is burny.

meh

She has her shit so together that she prolly didn't even notice the burn!

 

[izap1]

lol...^ nah never been cheated on, (or NOT that I KNOW of)...But a male friend and I just had a convo about men & cheating which prompted me to make a topic lol

 

[velvett]

meh

She has her shit so together that she prolly didn't even notice the burn!

HA! I lost my shit about 4/5 months ago, it's around here somewhere, maybe a hound dog is what I need to sniff it out.

 

[musclemom]

HA! I lost my shit about 4/5 months ago, it's around here somewhere, maybe a hound dog is what I need to sniff it out.

Well, if you ever need more, lemme know, with 7 cats I got WAY more shit than I can handle *rim shot*

 

[digimon7068]

Not ALL men are cheaters. There are actually some good guys out there. A man with high moral values. A man who is strong minded enough to resist temptations no matter what the circumstances are….he may even be @ a boiling point after the fight he and I just had but he will not succumb to any other woman’s sexual advances just to ease his mind or an attempt to obscure whatever kind of problems he’s having. Thus, a real man doesn’t let his emotions guide his actions….And plus it helps that my man has dated around, been there done that, so by now he’s quite settled on what he really wants in life that he wouldn’t even RISK what we have just to bang a dime hoochie.

this pretty much describes me ^^^^ except for the whole "real man" attitude. . .i know what works for me. . .the reasons why ,i believe, are a little complicated. . .a combination of nature and nurture, a lot of which i'm not even cognizant of. . .but i generally don't look down on other guys (or women) that haven't been able to walk down the same road as me. . .i don't claim to have "the" answer. . .i only have "my" answer. . .

 

[bigmann245]

i took a class on marriage and family so i could learn more about how relationships work and why we do the things we do... ok, through my research i found that men were not made to be with one person their entire lives but rather spread their seed to as many females as possible. i do not agree with with personally but this is the biological make up not the way WE as society made relationships out to be. marriage is a religious creation not biological. killing others is also a biological survival instinct but WE as society said it was wrong so we dont do it...well most of us dont... anyway, the ones who cheat are the ones that cant control their own biological emotions and feelings to conform to todays society standards. this is in no way condoning cheating as it is a personal choice, but it should shed some light upon the subject as to why....

 

[GoldenDelicious]

both definitions suck ass

it ALL depends on his fuckin options

 

[txbondsman]

<<<< not a cheater, I had a GF in HS that wanted to break up when I left for college, I didn't and ended up cheating. I felt bad for 20 years, finally had to ask her to forgive me. Yeah, it may be corny but she was good to me, she didn't deserve that.

A man is only as good as his word, if I say that I'm gonna do something or WON'T do something, that's the way it is. Now, flirt, yeah, sometimes I may be flirty, I guess that ol saying that if you wouldn't do it in front of her you shouldn't be doing it. But, I guess I'm not perfect either. If you have kids, that's a whole nother deal. You keep your pants zipped until the time comes that you have the kids raised and they are on their own. Then if you want to get some strange, get divorced and have at it, after the divorce. Some people have an "open" marriage, if that's a mutual agreement, fine. But that's NOT me.....