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Her:
I don't mean to bother you I jut thought you were hot.
SD:
A celibate woman telling a random guy on the internet that hes hot....... tsk tsk.
Her:
LOL Hey... I can change, baby.
I don't actually like being this way it just beats getting hurt. Its just a new method. Sex didn't work so I thought I'd see who wants me bad enough to stick around and actually be a friend. Ya know?
SD:
I *used* to know. I was the friends-first-nice-guy type while the women go get laid somewhere else. So I was the one getting hurt. Guess it works both ways huh? My philosophy is if I meet someone and I feel like having sex would be good then I go for it, if its not than I dont.
No offense but if guys having sex with you is putting you into a depression you should probably get professional help and work through all that before jumping into the big bad internet
Your profile screams "damaged".
Just trying to help I mean that.
Her:
LOL I already got professional help. Its perfectly natural to want a lasting bond and to learn from your mistakes. I'm in a new phase in life where I'd actually like to get to know someone to find out if I'm going to have a problem with them later. I think that's pretty healthy and not a lot of people are taking that approach anymore.
I don't believe that I'm the only person in the world looking for something meaningful and long lasting.
If that's "damaged" to you, we simply have to agree to disagree and I will steer clear because we have entirely different ways of seeing things. Your observations aren't troublesome, in themselves. Its the insulting and demeaning way you address them that would never work for me.
Happy hunting.
Her:
Hm... I reread your message...
Understand...a looooot of people are bashing my celibacy statement. LOL All the angry messages are running together and I feel under attack. I think I'll take a break.
Sorry you've been hurt.
SD:
If youve gotten help already and are fine then remove that stuff from your profile. Believe me, decent guys will not get involved with a woman they think is crazy/depressed/bi polar, whatever, unless they are just trolling for a lay, and youve made it clear thats not what you want.
The celibacy stuff is fine I guess but just remember you are eliminating a lot of good guys as well as guys just out for sex. In fact I would go so far as to say the bad guys will chase you for the simple fact that its a challenge to bed you. And the decent guys wont bother because they will think you have psych issues, and they will be right. If anything I would remove the celibacy stuff from the profile and just say you wait a long time to be intimate with someone, and that would be the truth actually unless you just arent going to have sex with a guy no matter how wonderful or how long he waits? Bad move.
Please change your headline, its screams "Im bitter and have a huge chip on my shoulder!", I dont think Ive seen a worse headline ever.
You look depressed in your pic, change that too if you want better responses. If you want ideas go check out a bunch of hot womens profiles on here, they are all happy in their pics, and only talk about positive stuff in their profiles which makes guys feel good about getting involved with them.
You gotta be more positive with this stuff and try to have fun.
Weve all been hurt at some point but it does no one any good to keep dragging it around with you and displaying it for all to see on your profile.
Once again, not trying to be a jerk, Ive been doing this a LONG time and know what makes for a nice profile.
Her:
Oh... you've been doing this a "LONG" time, I see. LOL
If you'll notice I said I was looking to "hang out" not "date" or "screw" or any of that. Just wanna meet some new friends and be accepted as I am.
I like a lot of what you have to say but haven't we all gone through phases of depression at some point in our lives over something? How can someone point the finger at a totally NORMAL experience and slap a lable like "bi polar" on it? Bi polar is a SERIOUS condition. People who have it range from highly agressive to delusional. I don't want an idiot who can't tell the difference between mild depression (that happens to everyone at some point) and "crazy." I'll be subjected to all kinds of verbal abuse if I did get involved with them. I could have a bad day and cry in front of them and then they'll say I need to go commit myself. Who wants that? I'm fishing for intellect and understanding, here. I stand my ground.
I don't want to attract flies with honey.. I don't like maggots. I'm looking for what I'm looking for. I'm not so alone that I have to lie about myself to get company. That's just dumb.
As for guy wanting a piece... good luck. I've been fighting them off for two years and they give up sooner or later. I'm no bimbo. I see what they're about.
I think I'll write a really brutally honest add just for you. LOL You'll be completely beside yourself. But then.. I'll look like a total ass.
What would you say if you weren't trying to be appealing? Your add (not that I read it, I like the picture LOL) must be 100% bs if this is how you operate. So... without reading it... lets be real. What are you like? You seem cool so far but tell me something socially unacceptable.
SD:
You can take things personally or you can learn and adapt. Theres a reason youve been fighting off the idiot guys and also getting endless hate mail. The image you are projecting on here is not girlfriend material and Im sorry if that upsets you.
Feel free to tell me how to improve my profile, unlike you Im open to constructive criticism. Everyone has faults, everyone knows everyone has faults. The difference is you just dont put certain things in a profile and expect everyone to be ok with it. I didnt make the game but I operate within the rules.
Youre the one who wrote me because you think Im hot, instead of blowing you off or giving you the curt but expedient response of "sorry not my type" I thought I would take the time to give you a some valuable insight from a guys perspective. Because I know no one else is taking the time to do that.
Her:
Oh, no. I'm a lot more interested in your input than you think. Here... this is my corrected profile so that I can attract more men.
Sane and Sexual
I'm a stable 25 year old who has been financially independent for over five years without the assistance of boyfriends or parents. I love money. I make a lot. I like shopping and traveling and having the freedom to do so... (and we're going downhill a bit... this will turn them off) I don't like being told what to do or what to spend my money on. This is why I hate the idea of marriage.
I like wine. Love it! Drunk and horny! That's me! Just a little reisling and ALL ABOARD! WOOOO!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!
I also like camping- did I mention that I am very open to casual sex? Fishing is great. Floating around in a boat while reading a good book is also fun.
I need friends who have the personality of a Jack Russle Terrier; Hyper and playful with an alter couch potato personality. Horny people are a plus. Horny people are sane people in my book.
COME **** ME NOW!!!
I'm great girlfriend material and I love to ****. Sex doesn't need to be special and I'm not waiting on Mr Right. I just need Mr. Right Now. This keeps the schizophrenia and purple munchkins at bey.
Now, back to my money... Its mine. I still expect you to pay for dates. Money makes me horny and the more you have, the hotter I get. So, you better make a lot if you expect to keep me.
Drop me a line... I'll upload my new and improved picture later. I'm taking the current one and putting it in the paint program to draw a big black smiley and some cleveage.
Hey... hurry up. Horny, sane girls don't wait around.
SD:
It seems you still need psychological help if you are flying off the handle when Im trying to give you good advice from a guys perspective. Sorry to have wasted your time and good luck.
Her:
Oh. You can't take a joke. I'm sorry. I'll leave you alone now. Good luck to you, too. <----nice back peddle, dumbass
SD:
Theres no way thats a joke, youre dripping with sarcasm and bitterness here. Youre just about psycho enough to make a move on, you know what they say about crazy chicks in bed LOL I dont know send me some pics and lets see what youre working with and maybe this hot guy would give you a shot
Her:
I don't mean to bother you I jut thought you were hot.
SD:
A celibate woman telling a random guy on the internet that hes hot....... tsk tsk.
Her:
LOL Hey... I can change, baby.
I don't actually like being this way it just beats getting hurt. Its just a new method. Sex didn't work so I thought I'd see who wants me bad enough to stick around and actually be a friend. Ya know?SD:
I *used* to know. I was the friends-first-nice-guy type while the women go get laid somewhere else. So I was the one getting hurt. Guess it works both ways huh? My philosophy is if I meet someone and I feel like having sex would be good then I go for it, if its not than I dont.
No offense but if guys having sex with you is putting you into a depression you should probably get professional help and work through all that before jumping into the big bad internet
Your profile screams "damaged".
Just trying to help I mean that.
Her:
LOL I already got professional help. Its perfectly natural to want a lasting bond and to learn from your mistakes. I'm in a new phase in life where I'd actually like to get to know someone to find out if I'm going to have a problem with them later. I think that's pretty healthy and not a lot of people are taking that approach anymore.
I don't believe that I'm the only person in the world looking for something meaningful and long lasting.
If that's "damaged" to you, we simply have to agree to disagree and I will steer clear because we have entirely different ways of seeing things. Your observations aren't troublesome, in themselves. Its the insulting and demeaning way you address them that would never work for me.
Happy hunting.
Her:
Hm... I reread your message...
Understand...a looooot of people are bashing my celibacy statement. LOL All the angry messages are running together and I feel under attack. I think I'll take a break.
Sorry you've been hurt.
SD:
If youve gotten help already and are fine then remove that stuff from your profile. Believe me, decent guys will not get involved with a woman they think is crazy/depressed/bi polar, whatever, unless they are just trolling for a lay, and youve made it clear thats not what you want.
The celibacy stuff is fine I guess but just remember you are eliminating a lot of good guys as well as guys just out for sex. In fact I would go so far as to say the bad guys will chase you for the simple fact that its a challenge to bed you. And the decent guys wont bother because they will think you have psych issues, and they will be right. If anything I would remove the celibacy stuff from the profile and just say you wait a long time to be intimate with someone, and that would be the truth actually unless you just arent going to have sex with a guy no matter how wonderful or how long he waits? Bad move.
Please change your headline, its screams "Im bitter and have a huge chip on my shoulder!", I dont think Ive seen a worse headline ever.
You look depressed in your pic, change that too if you want better responses. If you want ideas go check out a bunch of hot womens profiles on here, they are all happy in their pics, and only talk about positive stuff in their profiles which makes guys feel good about getting involved with them.
You gotta be more positive with this stuff and try to have fun.
Weve all been hurt at some point but it does no one any good to keep dragging it around with you and displaying it for all to see on your profile.
Once again, not trying to be a jerk, Ive been doing this a LONG time and know what makes for a nice profile.
Her:
Oh... you've been doing this a "LONG" time, I see. LOL
If you'll notice I said I was looking to "hang out" not "date" or "screw" or any of that. Just wanna meet some new friends and be accepted as I am.
I like a lot of what you have to say but haven't we all gone through phases of depression at some point in our lives over something? How can someone point the finger at a totally NORMAL experience and slap a lable like "bi polar" on it? Bi polar is a SERIOUS condition. People who have it range from highly agressive to delusional. I don't want an idiot who can't tell the difference between mild depression (that happens to everyone at some point) and "crazy." I'll be subjected to all kinds of verbal abuse if I did get involved with them. I could have a bad day and cry in front of them and then they'll say I need to go commit myself. Who wants that? I'm fishing for intellect and understanding, here. I stand my ground.
I don't want to attract flies with honey.. I don't like maggots. I'm looking for what I'm looking for. I'm not so alone that I have to lie about myself to get company. That's just dumb.
As for guy wanting a piece... good luck. I've been fighting them off for two years and they give up sooner or later. I'm no bimbo. I see what they're about.
I think I'll write a really brutally honest add just for you. LOL You'll be completely beside yourself. But then.. I'll look like a total ass.
What would you say if you weren't trying to be appealing? Your add (not that I read it, I like the picture LOL) must be 100% bs if this is how you operate. So... without reading it... lets be real. What are you like? You seem cool so far but tell me something socially unacceptable.
SD:
You can take things personally or you can learn and adapt. Theres a reason youve been fighting off the idiot guys and also getting endless hate mail. The image you are projecting on here is not girlfriend material and Im sorry if that upsets you.
Feel free to tell me how to improve my profile, unlike you Im open to constructive criticism. Everyone has faults, everyone knows everyone has faults. The difference is you just dont put certain things in a profile and expect everyone to be ok with it. I didnt make the game but I operate within the rules.
Youre the one who wrote me because you think Im hot, instead of blowing you off or giving you the curt but expedient response of "sorry not my type" I thought I would take the time to give you a some valuable insight from a guys perspective. Because I know no one else is taking the time to do that.
Her:
Oh, no. I'm a lot more interested in your input than you think. Here... this is my corrected profile so that I can attract more men.
Sane and Sexual
I'm a stable 25 year old who has been financially independent for over five years without the assistance of boyfriends or parents. I love money. I make a lot. I like shopping and traveling and having the freedom to do so... (and we're going downhill a bit... this will turn them off) I don't like being told what to do or what to spend my money on. This is why I hate the idea of marriage.
I like wine. Love it! Drunk and horny! That's me! Just a little reisling and ALL ABOARD! WOOOO!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!
I also like camping- did I mention that I am very open to casual sex? Fishing is great. Floating around in a boat while reading a good book is also fun.
I need friends who have the personality of a Jack Russle Terrier; Hyper and playful with an alter couch potato personality. Horny people are a plus. Horny people are sane people in my book.
COME **** ME NOW!!!
I'm great girlfriend material and I love to ****. Sex doesn't need to be special and I'm not waiting on Mr Right. I just need Mr. Right Now. This keeps the schizophrenia and purple munchkins at bey.
Now, back to my money... Its mine. I still expect you to pay for dates. Money makes me horny and the more you have, the hotter I get. So, you better make a lot if you expect to keep me.
Drop me a line... I'll upload my new and improved picture later. I'm taking the current one and putting it in the paint program to draw a big black smiley and some cleveage.
Hey... hurry up. Horny, sane girls don't wait around.
SD:
It seems you still need psychological help if you are flying off the handle when Im trying to give you good advice from a guys perspective. Sorry to have wasted your time and good luck.
Her:
Oh. You can't take a joke. I'm sorry. I'll leave you alone now. Good luck to you, too. <----nice back peddle, dumbass
SD:
Theres no way thats a joke, youre dripping with sarcasm and bitterness here. Youre just about psycho enough to make a move on, you know what they say about crazy chicks in bed LOL I dont know send me some pics and lets see what youre working with and maybe this hot guy would give you a shot
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