Little Sister's New Boyfriend...

[b fold the truth]

Well, my little sister is 19 and a freshman in college. This past weekend she starts talking about this guy who is dating one of her friends at school and how they are going to the movies together on Saturday night because his girlfriend couldn't go with him.

They go to the movies and come back here and he stays the night. She sleeps on a couch and he sleeps on another.

Sunday rolls around. I get up and run some errands and drop by to see a few friends and when I come get home and walk in the door he is softly scratching on her foot.

Monday gets here and she tells me with a smile that Matt has broken up with his girlfriend (one of her GOOD friends) to go out with her. She was so excited...so I tried to be for her. They talk on the phone for a tad bit under 10 hours that day...grrrrrr....

Tuesday...still on the phone with this character.

Wednesday...today...I finish my test and walk out of the building to meet my sister and pick her up and take her home when he is waiting outside my building for me. He is looking for my sister to say hello to her (he didn't know where she met me at on campus).

1) He was smoking when I saw him.
2) He hid the cigarette JUST before he got close enough so that she could see it.
3) He cussed about 20 times in about 3 minutes while walking with me to pick up my sister.
4) He hadn't shaved his face in about a week.
5) He has purple, brown, and blonde hair.
6) He walked like a goober, or like a white guy trying to imitate a rapper and doing it badly.


I don't like this guy for several reasons.

For the first time in my life I am protective of my sister and I realize how my mother felt when she saw me with a girlfriend and how happy I was...even though she knew that it wasn't the right person for me (hasn't happened in a LONG time though). She knew that I was going to get hurt and probably messed up a long the way too...and she couldn't stop it.

I still think I could scare this guy so bad that he would never talk to her again...but that...in turn...would hurt my sister very much.

Ideas welcome...

B True

 

[HulkRow]

purple,brown,blonde- does his dude have a mullet?
anyways invite him home and show him how you train - if that dont scare him, what will?

 

[jesus 2]

bring him to your training grounds.

tire flip:
"this here 800lb tire will DEFINITELY break some bones if i flip it on to you. and if you do not want that to happen, you better cut it off with my sister."

atlas stones:
"do you know how much it would hurt if this here stone was hurled at you? well, i suggest you break it off with my sister unless you want to find out."

box squat:
load the bar with 3 bands. "you gotta squat this here bar if you want to keep seeing my sister."

overhead log press:
"if you don't break it off with my sister, i'm gonna use this here log as a jousting stick against your unprotected skull."


hehehhehe

j to da 2

 

[b fold the truth]

He saw me do the stones on Sunday...

He was scared...

B True

 

[Roadblock]

Sometimes you have to learn by yourself. Tell her how you feel and let her take the decisions, you can´t do more.

 

[big_bad_buff]

let it be man, my lil sister is dating a guy right now that i dont like that much, i just keep an eye on him, and her, and let her know what i see and think time to time, let her have her own life.....keep in mind this is just a guy(men are pussy hungry dogs) so you know what is on his mind, and you i'am sure are the same...most of us our right?, so think, would it be right for you to scare, or kick his ass because he hurts your sister? in all reality it's her fuilt if she get's hurt, just be there for her if and when this happends...people have to learn......now if he hits it and get's it, then beat him down to a pile of mush

 

[Tarheel]

I still think I could scare this guy so bad that he would never talk to her again...

I'm pretty damn sure of that

I know a lot of guys with younger sisters, and they all keep tabs on who they are dating, etc. Bottom line is if she has fallen for this douche, then whatever you do will probably make her like him more and you less (in the short term at least)

When I was younger and dumber dad would tell me "son you might not hear too good, but you'll be able to feel" in regards to touching something thats hot or keeping hands away from hammers and stuff. She might not want to hear what you have to say or your opinion, but sometimes it takes getting hurt once to know what you really want.

Just my .02

 

[PHATchik]

Ok mister! I am a little sister, and I know how I always felt when my brother tried to interfere in my love life. It didn't hurt me....it just pissed me off! Don't you dare mess with this relationship! Let her make up her own mind. Maybe he's not the right guy for her....that's up to her to decide. Not you. She's got to make her own choices and mistakes in life. Let her do it. I know you're a big brother, and you want to protect her. I know what that feels like since I have lived through it. I love my big brother for trying to protect me, but he better let me live my own life!

 

[big_bad_buff]

oh, i forgot to ad, this is were being big and intimidating comes in handy, unless people dont mind an ass whooping, they would never want to get on your bad side and hurt your sister...so don't worry about it

 

[68GT350]

Dude,

You just being there for her is enough. By butting in on her business, you might inadvertently drive them closer. Couples who are star struck feed off that "forbidden love" bullshit. Also, you'll make her very sore at you and we don't need that.

She has to make her own mistakes in life. You simply being there should be enough intimidation for him to do anything truly harmful but if she's going to get her heart broken, it will suck but it will teach her a lesson. There's somethings you can't just learn from word of mouth--you have to experience it first hand and this is one of those situations. You should know that. You being her brother will probably prevent her from being raped, god forbid if htat situation should occur.

Who knows...your sister isn't a dumb person if she's anything like you. She probably sees a really great guy under that goofy exterior. Wish her luck and lend your support like she undoubtedly does for you. I wish you both the best.