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Life would be easier without an SO

Yeah except the secks part.
 
mightymouse69 said:
after you have them long enough, you dont' get any anyhow...and if you do its boring as a fuck.
I fuck angel all the time and we make it fun...hence all the pissing and shit...lol ok ok j/k but no we have lots of sex and its great.we do a lot of deferent things and I love it.
 
mightymouse69 said:
after you have them long enough, you dont' get any anyhow...and if you do its boring as a fuck.


One reason why relationships fail. It takes work.
 
mightymouse69 said:
agree or disagree?

No doubt, but it would be too boring for me.
 
Smurfy said:
some days, yes Id rather just be living alone. but that desire passes as soon as he starts rubbing my feet.


I hear you except for me, it's fondling the balls.
 
In some ways, almost all of them material, it is easier, less laundry, less cleaning, less food to cook, nobody to answer to, nobody else uses up the toilet paper, etc.

In other ways, no. And IMO, the other ways outweigh the annoyances.

But bear in mind, I'm 42, I've been married or in a committed relationship, since I was barely 19 ... I don't know what it's like to be single and would be lost if I was. You get used to being single, just like you get used to being married.
 
musclemom said:
In some ways, almost all of them material, it is easier, less laundry, less cleaning, less food to cook, nobody to answer to, nobody else uses up the toilet paper, etc.

In other ways, no. And IMO, the other ways outweigh the annoyances.

But bear in mind, I'm 42, I've been married or in a committed relationship, since I was barely 19 ... I don't know what it's like to be single and would be lost if I was. You get used to being single, just like you get used to being married.

True and I've been living with a woman for 7 months. It would suck without her now that I've gotten used to her.
 
musclemom said:
In some ways, almost all of them material, it is easier, less laundry, less cleaning, less food to cook, nobody to answer to. . .

. . .nobody to perform cunnilingus on you. . .for hours. . .and hours. . .
 
digimon7068 said:
. . .nobody to perform cunnilingus on you. . .for hours. . .and hours. . .

Speak for yourself. I get 5 minutes if I'm lucky.
 
I would have to go back to taking my laundry to the Korean lady at the wash-n-fold damn she could fold my clothes like a mofo - worth every penny.

biteme said:
True and I've been living with a woman for 7 months. It would suck without her now that I've gotten used to her.
 
digimon7068 said:
. . .nobody to perform cunnilingus on you. . .for hours. . .and hours. . .
I did say "material ways" ... I do not consider great sex materialistic, more spiritual, actually :qt:
 
musclemom said:
I did say "material ways" ... I do not consider great sex materialistic, more spiritual, actually :qt:

the "material" that formerly anchored my tongue to the bottom of my mouth begs to differ with you. . .
 
you know I honestly dont think so..Sure my SO is a fucker, but I could not imagine myself without him...Yeah ok, I can imagine myself without him..But I do not think that I would be half the person that I am today.
My life completely changed when I got with him, then even more so when I had his kids. Some people may think it sucks because I dont drink (rarely), I dont smoke nearly as much weed, I dont go running around spreading my legs and getting knocked up by lowlifes,and I am not living with my parents for free. I grew up fast and matured rather fast as well. Personally I like this me better than the me I was when I was 16...I did not see anything in my future when I was a teen..Hell I could not even manage a full day of school without leaving and cutting classes so that I could party with the older kids.Since my SO and my kids I have become a much better person.I have stability and I have order in my life. I know what I want for my future, and I know that I will do it.It is some what motivational. Not only will I complete my goals for me, but I will do it because of my family..Never in my life would I have thought that I would be where I am today!
Sure without him i could go clubbing, meet guys, do whatever it is that single ladies do..But that is not what I want.I would rather deal with his aggravation every day then to be where I was 10 years ago
 
I've been in long term relationships straight for almost 18 yrs (since I was 16), then 7 yrs ago I became single for the first time. I've lived alone for 7 yrs now.
I've been with my current SO for almost 2 yrs now, so have had a taste of both. I like both.
I was happy single and am happy with my SO. Both have their pros and cons.
But I have say being single and living alone should be a MUST for ppl once in their lives. It really helps you see who u really are and what you're capable of.
I cherish my alone time and I cherish my time with my SO. I guess I have the best of both worlds.
 
totally depends on the two individuals involved in the relationship.

Right now I have a completely stress-free, drama-free relationship with as much free time as I want.

So I get the best of both worlds.

Evny me, peons! :evil:
 
LOL@ the drama queen sayinig "drama-free"

alien amp pharm said:
totally depends on the two individuals involved in the relationship.

Right now I have a completely stress-free, drama-free relationship with as much free time as I want.

So I get the best of both worlds.

Evny me, peons! :evil:
 
I agree that "drama free" is the best way to live, whether you're single or coupled up.

I try and avoid it at all costs. If you can have that with a SO, then it's all good. I believe that's half the battle in people's relationships.
 
gonelifting said:
I agree that "drama free" is the best way to live, whether you're single or coupled up.

I try and avoid it at all costs. If you can have that with a SO, then it's all good. I believe that's half the battle in people's relationships.

Yes.

and true story - everytime I sit and think about how stress-free my current relationship is, I always think of you when you said this same thing years back.

Sincerely,
Gonelifting Wannabe.
 
alien amp pharm said:
totally depends on the two individuals involved in the relationship.

Right now I have a completely stress-free, drama-free relationship with as much free time as I want.

So I get the best of both world.....
with your right or left hand?
 
Angel said:
you know I honestly dont think so..Sure my SO is a fucker, but I could not imagine myself without him...Yeah ok, I can imagine myself without him..But I do not think that I would be half the person that I am today.
My life completely changed when I got with him, then even more so when I had his kids. Some people may think it sucks because I dont drink (rarely), I dont smoke nearly as much weed, I dont go running around spreading my legs and getting knocked up by lowlifes,and I am not living with my parents for free. I grew up fast and matured rather fast as well. Personally I like this me better than the me I was when I was 16...I did not see anything in my future when I was a teen..Hell I could not even manage a full day of school without leaving and cutting classes so that I could party with the older kids.Since my SO and my kids I have become a much better person.I have stability and I have order in my life. I know what I want for my future, and I know that I will do it.It is some what motivational. Not only will I complete my goals for me, but I will do it because of my family..Never in my life would I have thought that I would be where I am today!
Sure without him i could go clubbing, meet guys, do whatever it is that single ladies do..But that is not what I want.I would rather deal with his aggravation every day then to be where I was 10 years ago
gee thanks.
 
Angel said:
you know I honestly dont think so..Sure my SO is a fucker, but I could not imagine myself without him...Yeah ok, I can imagine myself without him..But I do not think that I would be half the person that I am today.
My life completely changed when I got with him, then even more so when I had his kids. Some people may think it sucks because I dont drink (rarely), I dont smoke nearly as much weed, I dont go running around spreading my legs and getting knocked up by lowlifes,and I am not living with my parents for free. I grew up fast and matured rather fast as well. Personally I like this me better than the me I was when I was 16...I did not see anything in my future when I was a teen..Hell I could not even manage a full day of school without leaving and cutting classes so that I could party with the older kids.Since my SO and my kids I have become a much better person.I have stability and I have order in my life. I know what I want for my future, and I know that I will do it.It is some what motivational. Not only will I complete my goals for me, but I will do it because of my family..Never in my life would I have thought that I would be where I am today!
Sure without him i could go clubbing, meet guys, do whatever it is that single ladies do..But that is not what I want.I would rather deal with his aggravation every day then to be where I was 10 years ago
ya make it sound so fucking great....wtf
ya my husband is so great because he knocked me up and now I cant go out and have fun...but hell I look at it like at least now I am not a loser.fuck off angel fuck off.
 
Angel, if you and Needto ever call it quits, I think you guys still have my number. Ol' jack-o will take good care of you :heart:.
 
jack_schitt said:
Angel, if you and Needto ever call it quits, I think you guys still have my number. Ol' jack-o will take good care of you :heart:.
bite me...she would never live to tell about it.lol ok ok that was sick :evil:
 
Depends on the SO.

Currently no it would not be easier.
I'm pretty happy - so is he - actually it's rather nauseating to other just how well we get on.
 
This all depends on the moment. Many times I'm completely happy and can't even imagine how hard it would be with one and other times feel like I could really use one in my life.
 
i hate being alone. not that i have isues with it i just hate it. yea sometimes ill go for a drive by myself but when i return i imediately give her the package of maxi-pads and tell her "i love you".
 
Easier but less fulfilling. Plus you get sex and spooning just about anytime you want.
 
biteme said:
Easier but less fulfilling. Plus you get sex and spooning just about anytime you want.
lmfao your kidding right...sex and spooning when ever you want...ya maybe for the first year.lol that some fucking funny shit right there.
 
mightymouse69 said:
after you have them long enough, you dont' get any anyhow...and if you do its boring as a fuck.
if you wanna make it more exciting pretend like your going to dump her after. youl prolly premature ejaculate to that fantasy
 
needtogetaas said:
I just want to have a lot of meaningless sex...O wait I already do now.lol
yeah me too. No point in sleeping around and risking disease when you can do it with the same person repeatedly...
 
The EX just posted wedding/honeymoon pics on myspace, it seems as though her life just got harder :)
 
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