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So those 3 girls I met from craigslist at the hot tub party the other week go to this modern rock bar on Tuesday nights, great drink specials, contests and great crowd.
Only 1 of these girls has a instant messenger thing they use online, so I was talking to her and telling her to let me know when they go to this bar next. Unfortunately she doesnt really say much to me, and made it sound like she didnt know if she was going.
story:
So last night I go to the bar anyway, alone because I couldnt find anyone to go with. And this girl and her friend are there. I talk to her for a bit, she's kinda iffy and not saying much though. So then I go up to the bar to get a drink.
And this girl asks me, "hey are you a marine? " a real cute asian girl. her friend is standing next to her, caucasian and pretty cute, dark short hair, curvy but not fat. I said "no im not, actually, interesting you say that though because others have said similar things" (which is true, many tell me i could pass for one) the asian girl says "oh, yeah well me and my friend were thinking you could pass for one, with the short hair cut, clothing, build, posture, etc, haha" and her friend was like "yeah" agreeing with her.
(keep in mind i was wearing a khaki colored shirt, khaki pants, just shaved my head down to half an inch, and have a stocky build)
So we were laughing and started talking, the asian is named "Goda" the caucasion was "Jessi" well Jessi starts talking to me a bunch, and is pretty cool. We get some drinks and sit down, and just start getting to know each other. I tried to get them to sit down with the other friends i met there but their table was too small, so i hung out with these 2 new chicks i met
so we sit at the bar, start getting dollar drinks, and are just feeling great, and Jessi is all coming onto me, and I'm feeling the same towards her. She starts talking about how cute she thought I was and that she is really shy normally, and that her friend basically talked to me for her, otherwise she wouldnt have been able to approach me. Her friend Goda (the asian girl) says she has a boyfriend. (later i find out Goda didnt have a boyfriend and Jessi admits that was just a tactic to keep me from talking to Goda more) So meanwhile I'm focused on Jessi. We exchange numbers. We both watch a thong contest between 4 really hot girls (which kicked major ass!) and later sit back down in a great mood. She is telling me she wants to kiss me, but is worried i wont call her the next day. I reassure her that I will call her later, and then admit that I havent kissed a girl before. She talks about how awesome that is and how she wants to kiss me so bad. So we are just looking at each other and then we go for it..
I'm not caring what anyone around me is thinking, I'm just in the mood and kissing a girl for my first time, haha. It felt great, later we start going for more and she and me are both getting pretty into it. I basically wanted to smooch all over her, haha. We got our arms grabbing each other and stuff. she said she's going to give me a few pointers, and learn how to tease kiss, pull back, and then go in for more. so i practice that copying her moves, and she says im super good at copying her and picking up on it. so then we just go for it and are making out like crazy, just completely lost in the moment, I'm loving the feeling of her tounge, her teeth softly biting my lip, the way she grabs my head, touches my chest, back, butt as well.
The people are screaming "get a room!" So we go outside and smooch more, but its freezing outside so we go back inside and smooch again, hahaha. We just would stop talk for a bit, and pick up where we left off haha.
So later at closing time we are invited to a bonfire that is happening later. We go there, and i started talking to some cool dudes, but not really a good makeout opportunity because we were in a small group and outside, nowhere to sit, the guy didnt even have chairs in his yard.
so later we leave, i get home at around 4. get up for work at 7, feeling just fine. remember the sensation on my lips, haha.
And then tonight i called her and we are definately hanging out again sometime
I feel so much better after doing this. I mean honestly the first kiss wasn't that big a deal, it felt pretty good, she said it seemed like a movie it was that good. I dunno, I guess I thought it'd be more special (maybe woulda helped if we werent in a bar, haha) but it was pretty cool as it was.
I feel good knowing that I can successfully attract a woman, because I've finally had an experience that shows I can. This girl was into me as much as I was into her and we both thought each other were cute and enjoyed our time together thoroughly.
I'm not sure if this will really work out or not. We are both shy and have that in common, she's more into tattoos and piercings than I am, but she seems cool enough. We both live with strict parents. But she's definately been much more of a rebel than I have, haha.
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Cliffs:
-I try to get invited to go with some girls i met on craigslist to this cool bar on Tues night. But they dont inform me when they are going next.
-I just show up to the bar randomly, bump into craigslist girls, talk to them for a bit, and get a drink.
-Meet 2 way cooler girls who think i look like a marine, and I start drinking and hanging out with them, I'm having a blast.
-Talk to Jessie, really hit it off with her, get her number
-I kiss Jessie, having the first kiss of my life
-We make out a ton, and just have a blast
-There is a lame bonfire afterwards
-I call her the next day we are definately hanging out again
-Good experience, now where will this go, if anywhere? lol
So those 3 girls I met from craigslist at the hot tub party the other week go to this modern rock bar on Tuesday nights, great drink specials, contests and great crowd.
Only 1 of these girls has a instant messenger thing they use online, so I was talking to her and telling her to let me know when they go to this bar next. Unfortunately she doesnt really say much to me, and made it sound like she didnt know if she was going.
story:
So last night I go to the bar anyway, alone because I couldnt find anyone to go with. And this girl and her friend are there. I talk to her for a bit, she's kinda iffy and not saying much though. So then I go up to the bar to get a drink.
And this girl asks me, "hey are you a marine? " a real cute asian girl. her friend is standing next to her, caucasian and pretty cute, dark short hair, curvy but not fat. I said "no im not, actually, interesting you say that though because others have said similar things" (which is true, many tell me i could pass for one) the asian girl says "oh, yeah well me and my friend were thinking you could pass for one, with the short hair cut, clothing, build, posture, etc, haha" and her friend was like "yeah" agreeing with her.
(keep in mind i was wearing a khaki colored shirt, khaki pants, just shaved my head down to half an inch, and have a stocky build)
So we were laughing and started talking, the asian is named "Goda" the caucasion was "Jessi" well Jessi starts talking to me a bunch, and is pretty cool. We get some drinks and sit down, and just start getting to know each other. I tried to get them to sit down with the other friends i met there but their table was too small, so i hung out with these 2 new chicks i met
so we sit at the bar, start getting dollar drinks, and are just feeling great, and Jessi is all coming onto me, and I'm feeling the same towards her. She starts talking about how cute she thought I was and that she is really shy normally, and that her friend basically talked to me for her, otherwise she wouldnt have been able to approach me. Her friend Goda (the asian girl) says she has a boyfriend. (later i find out Goda didnt have a boyfriend and Jessi admits that was just a tactic to keep me from talking to Goda more) So meanwhile I'm focused on Jessi. We exchange numbers. We both watch a thong contest between 4 really hot girls (which kicked major ass!) and later sit back down in a great mood. She is telling me she wants to kiss me, but is worried i wont call her the next day. I reassure her that I will call her later, and then admit that I havent kissed a girl before. She talks about how awesome that is and how she wants to kiss me so bad. So we are just looking at each other and then we go for it..
I'm not caring what anyone around me is thinking, I'm just in the mood and kissing a girl for my first time, haha. It felt great, later we start going for more and she and me are both getting pretty into it. I basically wanted to smooch all over her, haha. We got our arms grabbing each other and stuff. she said she's going to give me a few pointers, and learn how to tease kiss, pull back, and then go in for more. so i practice that copying her moves, and she says im super good at copying her and picking up on it. so then we just go for it and are making out like crazy, just completely lost in the moment, I'm loving the feeling of her tounge, her teeth softly biting my lip, the way she grabs my head, touches my chest, back, butt as well.
The people are screaming "get a room!" So we go outside and smooch more, but its freezing outside so we go back inside and smooch again, hahaha. We just would stop talk for a bit, and pick up where we left off haha.
So later at closing time we are invited to a bonfire that is happening later. We go there, and i started talking to some cool dudes, but not really a good makeout opportunity because we were in a small group and outside, nowhere to sit, the guy didnt even have chairs in his yard.
so later we leave, i get home at around 4. get up for work at 7, feeling just fine. remember the sensation on my lips, haha.
And then tonight i called her and we are definately hanging out again sometime
I feel so much better after doing this. I mean honestly the first kiss wasn't that big a deal, it felt pretty good, she said it seemed like a movie it was that good. I dunno, I guess I thought it'd be more special (maybe woulda helped if we werent in a bar, haha) but it was pretty cool as it was.
I feel good knowing that I can successfully attract a woman, because I've finally had an experience that shows I can. This girl was into me as much as I was into her and we both thought each other were cute and enjoyed our time together thoroughly.
I'm not sure if this will really work out or not. We are both shy and have that in common, she's more into tattoos and piercings than I am, but she seems cool enough. We both live with strict parents. But she's definately been much more of a rebel than I have, haha.
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Cliffs:
-I try to get invited to go with some girls i met on craigslist to this cool bar on Tues night. But they dont inform me when they are going next.
-I just show up to the bar randomly, bump into craigslist girls, talk to them for a bit, and get a drink.
-Meet 2 way cooler girls who think i look like a marine, and I start drinking and hanging out with them, I'm having a blast.
-Talk to Jessie, really hit it off with her, get her number
-I kiss Jessie, having the first kiss of my life
-We make out a ton, and just have a blast
-There is a lame bonfire afterwards
-I call her the next day we are definately hanging out again
-Good experience, now where will this go, if anywhere? lol
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