Jan 27, the worst day of my life.........

[DOGGY]

Friend,
I am just lost for words, stay strong.

We are all thinking of you.

Doggy

 

[SofaGeorge]

I lost my wife three years ago, very young. She was training for a contest and her leg went numb. We figured it was a training injury. I took her into the ER and they told us it was terminal. (Imagine, no symptoms and five weeks to live.) After she died, I got a ton of letters from family and friends. Truthfully, there weren't a lot of words that meant much. The letter that still stands out, though, was from a friend of mine's dad. He had gone through WW2 as a fighter pilot. In a nutshell, pretty much every close friend he had was killed. They died not much older than your brother and some a lot younger. It was hard for him, real hard. He said the thing he learned from it was "...despite our pain, despite our tragedies, the world continues to hold interesting experiences to have and wonderful people to meet."

It's three years later and my life's hardest lesson has been learning that he was right.

God bless your brother.

 

[XXXL]

i know you and i had some what of a falling out. but i feel for you bro. i lost my 33 year old brother a few weeks ago too. 2-JAN-02.

this will be one of the hardest things you'll ever deal with, as it was for me.

be happy you have that last conversation with him. i was not that fortunate.

you and your brother are in my thoughts and prayers.

god bless

 

[marky]

Weird how God does things. Gives you one of the best bonding moments with one of your closest friends and then takes him away from you. Maybe something was wrong with him and the peace given from the conversation allowed him to let go . Too many thoughts, non explain it all. my heart goes out for you and his family and those close to him.

 

[Nathan]

Holy crap. That is the sadest story I have heard in a way. There's nothing really anyone can say to make you feel better but I wish the best for you.

 

[mitch1301]

First I want to offer you my sincere condolences. If you need anything let us know. I do know what it feels like to loose someone close. Had a friend on the way to my house when he was killed in a car crash 1 mile from my place, he was speeding because I told him to hurry, still feel like its my fault at times.

later
mitch

 

[MUSTANG_18]

Jeeeezzz!!! So young! I am deeply sorry to hear that my friend! Things like this make all the other probs in life take a back seat and make you really open your eyes and realize how fragile life can be. My thoughts and pryers are with him, you and everyone who has lost a loved one If you need to talk about stuff then e-mail, pm or hit me on ICQ anytime

M18

 

[Thaibox]

You have my condolences my friend

 

[Yenko]

Very sorry for your loss. Thats what were here for, Its good to see everybody come togeather at a time like this. Yenko

 

[nautica]

Damn Bro. It kills me to hear stories like this. Lost my 19 year old brother 4 years ago. He was on his way back to college and fell asleep at the wheel. He had been drinking the night before. Wether he was still drunk or not - It really doesn't matter. The fact is that he is gone.

4 years have gone by and it still hurts today. But you do learn to live with it and you will be thankful for the time that he was here with you. And, I know you probably already realize this but it was a blessing that you got to share your feelings with him the night before.

My prayers are with you and your family.

Nautica