Wheat pasta is a better choice than white flour pasta, unless you happen to be gluten-intolerant. I am, and I eat pasta made with quinona (?) flour when I get the pasta munchies.
Taking ALA before any carb is a good idea.
Carb loading after a workout - depends on your goals. Excercise improves insulin sensitivity, so carbs taken immediately after training will be shuttled to your glycogen-depleted muscles. The fructose in fruit, however, preferentially reglycogenates the liver, and not your muscles. Go with some dextrose instead if you really want carbs with your whey.