Is anyone actually faithful anymore?

[cindylou]

Nah, love fades over time.


That is misleading. "Tons" could be several women, or 1 of Smurfy.

LOL. Okay many ; thousands ; millions ; lots.

i'm not in a sexless marriage but I'm not having as much as I'd like anyway.

 

[HiDnGoD]

I cheated once, with her cousin. She beat the snot out of her cousin & made me "Happy". BTW, that was in grade 8 & her name was Louise & she is not my wife.

 

[alien amp pharm]

been faithful for 17+ years. . .best ones of my life. . .something truly satisfying about commitment (at least for me). . .also, we still get bizzy 3 to 5 times per week

That is awesome. Like you I would rather be in a relationship than out chasing random tail like a lot of guys brag about doing.

Hidngod yes, perhaps I should have said love "changes", not exactly fades. You have to admit that after several years of marriage you don't get butterflies around your wife, Seeing her naked isn't the same as it was, You don't worry about farting or scratching your balls around her anymore, etc.

To some people that is boring and they feel unsatisfied. Hence they seek attention and excitement they no longer receive at home with another person. i.e. cheating.

That causes a lot of cheating.

That's my theory anyways.

 

[youngguns]

If you truly love someone, you wouldn't do something to hurt them like that. And you can't love someone until you love youself, so there are a lot of people in dire need of a makeover.

 

[manny78]

It's human nature. You can't fight that.

 

[youngguns]

It's human nature. You can't fight that.

why is it human nature?

 

[digimon7068]

You have to admit that after several years of marriage you don't get butterflies around your wife

our twins are six years old. . .the baby is 14 months. . .last spring my parents came and stayed over night with the kids. . .the wife and i ran off for an over-night alone. . .for the first time since we had kids. . .you're right. . .i didn't get butterflies. . .they were more like helicopters. . .did the same thing again a few weeks ago. . .same result

 

[manny78]

why is it human nature?

Because we're mammals. We are driven by hormones. Only thing that makes us faithful is moral/society. That's like saying "no sex before marriage" or "no same sex relations"...

 

[Smurfy]

If you truly love someone, you wouldn't do something to hurt them like that. And you can't love someone until you love youself, so there are a lot of people in dire need of a makeover.

Agreed.

 

[youngguns]

Because we're mammals. We are driven by hormones. Only thing that makes us faithful is moral/society. That's like saying "no sex before marriage" or "no same sex relations"...

Bro, that's not true at all, I don't give a shit what Joe Blow says If I cheat on my girlfriend, but I care what my girlfriend feels, and if I do it behind her back, that's dishonesty, which is just as serious as lying, in short, if you have a Jimminy Cricket, you won't cheat.