Is anyone actually faithful anymore?

[TC2]

Well, if you feel compelled to cheat, then you probably shouldnt be in that relationship. That's an example of a relationship that just isnt going to work out.

That's just it..if every guy took your advise....the vast majority of men in america would walk out on their selfish ass wives right now.

it would be one thing if it was only a few women that were like this but literly every guy I have ever met or know has complained about this subject.

 

[Smurfy]

That's just it..if every guy took your advise....the vast majority of men in america would walk out on their selfish ass wives right now.

it would be one thing if it was only a few women that were like this but literly every guy I have ever met or know has complained about this subject.

of course everyone has their own perception of what's going wrong in the relationship.

 

[Gymgurl]

Now that is sooooo true!!

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

That's just it..if every guy took your advise....the vast majority of men in america would walk out on their selfish ass wives right now.

it would be one thing if it was only a few women that were like this but literly every guy I have ever met or know has complained about this subject.

man, I think if sex wasnt such a control issue and power issue for guys this wouldnt be such a hot button subject.

For me, sex has always been an extension of an already established firm emotional connection. It only adds a new dynamic aspect to the relationship. I like what Bikinimom posts about her husband doign for her. I enjoy serving others like that. I'd rather have a girl I'm totally in love with be puddy in my hands because I mind fuck her all day long with everything nice I do for her to make her feel that connection than to just concentrate on how many times I can ram her fuck hole.

 

[Smurfy]

man, I think if sex wasnt such a control issue and power issue for guys this wouldnt be such a hot button subject.

For me, sex has always been an extension of an already established firm emotional connection. It only adds a new dynamic aspect to the relationship. I like what Bikinimom posts about her husband doign for her. I enjoy serving others like that. I'd rather have a girl I'm totally in love with be puddy in my hands because I mind fuck her all day long with everything nice I do for her to make her feel that connection than to just concentrate on how many times I can ram her fuck hole.

so true. lol @ ram her fuck hole. men typically concerned with how often they are granted access to the pussy - women concerned with how emotionally attached their man is, etc. Everyone has needs. They differ for different people.

Juicedhairman is right.

 

[jackangel]

i tried to count the generalizations in this thread, but i ran out of toes and fingers.

 

[TC2]

man, I think if sex wasnt such a control issue and power issue for guys this wouldnt be such a hot button subject.

For me, sex has always been an extension of an already established firm emotional connection. It only adds a new dynamic aspect to the relationship. I like what Bikinimom posts about her husband doign for her. I enjoy serving others like that. I'd rather have a girl I'm totally in love with be puddy in my hands because I mind fuck her all day long with everything nice I do for her to make her feel that connection than to just concentrate on how many times I can ram her fuck hole.

I dont think sex is a control or power issue for guys. Guys have incredibly strong physical needs for sex.

its not about how many times you can "fuck her ram hole", its about fufilling each others needs, ALL OF THEM.

not let the man be the "romantic comedy guy", completely cater to a womans every want and desire, then cuddle and hold them until they fall asleep.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

not let the man be the "romantic comedy guy", completely cater to a womans every want and desire, then cuddle and hold them until they fall asleep.

BLAH, don't cuddle me to sleep. I need my space. There is a time for cuddling, and it is not during sleep.

 

[Sub-Zero]

"I think people get married to soon, just for the hell of getting married"

Not to be sexist but that is almost 100 % the woman on that one.

I see WAY too many women push and push for marriage and children, then once they have them they realize that marriage isn't like every romantic comedy they've seen a millions times over and they get "depressed" and either cheat or leave.

so true

 

[Sub-Zero]

On the other hand E, there are lots of women who are really looking to get married to have a domestic slave (husband) who takes a lot of responsibility, household production, and floating her lifestyle off of her hands. Its just all receiving and no giving. The woman gets everything she wants and the man doesn't get his attention needs, emotional needs, sex needs, or intimacy needs met. There are tons of women who use sex to trick the man into marriage and then take it away to use soley as a bargaining chip to be rationed out for good behavior (ever increasing amounts of household prodution or financial attainment). Many husbands do not abandon their wives emotionally. They are the ones who expect to cuddle and kiss with no sex and if the husband ever initiates sex he is sharply rebuked and made to feel a pervert and sex fiend just for wanting to make love to his wife - which is part of your marriage vows. There are a lot of men suffering silently out there.

yeah thats fucked up i hate that shit