In love with a lesbian...

[1_more_rep]

cliff notes: jeez this is horrible. A friend of mine that i have been getting to know better and better EVERYDAY for the past 2 years came out to me very recently (yesterday) because i asked her WHY the hell she was joining the "gay alliance" club because i heard that all members in it were gay or les. So i said be TOTALLY honest with me...are you les? and she said WTF hell no...and then said i just lied to you im sorry. and i was SHOCKED. and me and her BEST friend are the only ones that know not her family or anyone else. and everything is great and i am even going with her to the homecoming dance in a few weeks (SHE asked ME mind you) anyways over the past 2 years i have kind been drawn really close to her. and we are VERY close friends. we tell each other EVERYTHING (such as something big she just told me). but that sucks...she said she THINKS she's bi but nothing has ever clicked with a guy. so i don't know if ALL hope is lost? what do you guys think?

best case scenario: 3some with 2 girls

worst case scenario: im a guy and have 0 chance

 

[nutsnack]

cliff notes pls?

 

[H_T_]

you can throw that 3some scenario out the fucking window. you said this chick is your "best" friend, not your "girl"friend. you are the "guyfriend" a non-threatening entity who plays the role of counselor, valet, handmaiden if you will.......quit beating around the bush with chicks or you will the dude who everyone thinks is gay cuz all of the chicks you hang around.

 

[H_T_]

you will be the guy who braids and brushes their hair, instead of plucking pubic hair from your teeth.........if you are not more direct with them.

 

[1_more_rep]

you can throw that 3some scenario out the fucking window. you said this chick is your "best" friend, not your "girl"friend. you are the "guyfriend" a non-threatening entity who plays the role of counselor, valet, handmaiden if you will.......quit beating around the bush with chicks or you will the dude who everyone thinks is gay cuz all of the chicks you hang around.

she's not the only one i hang around, we have a "crew" if you'd call it that of a buncha people consisting of guys AND girls.

cliffnotes: hanging out with girl for over 2 years, like her more every DAY but she just revealed she is a lesbian and is joining the club at school n i'm kinda bummed

 

[1_more_rep]

you will be the guy who braids and brushes their hair, instead of plucking pubic hair from your teeth.........if you are not more direct with them.

bro this isn't some girl i'd just check out and think is cute and ask out. This is a friend of mine who i did not INTEND to like in this way. It just happened after alot of time spent together and stuff and i cant control it.

 

[H_T_]

she's not the only one i hang around, we have a "crew" if you'd call it that of a buncha people consisting of guys AND girls.

cliffnotes: hanging out with girl for over 2 years, like her more every DAY but she just revealed she is a lesbian and is joining the club at school n i'm kinda bummed

does it consist of a bunch of girls, a few effeminate guys and one black kid?

 

[H_T_]

bro this isn't some girl i'd just check out and think is cute and ask out. This is a friend of mine who i did not INTEND to like in this way. It just happened after alot of time spent together and stuff and i cant control it.

bro, i bet you didn't feel this strongly until you thought your chances were dashed.

 

[nutsnack]

millions of girls in the sea.. get another one that likes cawk

 

[1_more_rep]

bro, i bet you didn't feel this strongly until you thought your chances were dashed.

actually i didn't stop to think about this...i DID kind of like her but i haven't stopped thinking about her until i found out...so it might be just wanting what i can't have huh?

 

[awittyusername]

The problem isn't the she is a lesbian..Its that she is a friend.

But, if you want advice on how to put a threesome together with some bi chicks or even the hardest core lesbo...look me up kid

 

[H_T_]

actually i didn't stop to think about this...i DID kind of like her but i haven't stopped thinking about her until i found out...so it might be just wanting what i can't have huh?

something to consider, isn't it? i'm glad you sifted thru my sarcasm and found what little treasure i left you. so, for being a good sport, i'll tell you this: lots of girls go thru a "lesbian" phase. they think and maybe even want to be lez, but they are not. most likely is the fact that she's been with a couple of guys that made her want to puke and is now judging the entire male gender with that criteria.

 

[Razorguns]

You've been stuck in the "friend zone" for 2 years -- man are you whipped.

move on orb.

 

[Spanky11]

she's not the only one i hang around, we have a "crew" if you'd call it that of a buncha people consisting of guys AND girls.

cliffnotes: hanging out with girl for over 2 years, like her more every DAY but she just revealed she is a lesbian and is joining the club at school n i'm kinda bummed

ahh yes, the ignorance of youth...

why don't you young guys you understand - men and women can never be friends!

one party always, and I mean always wants something more from the other.

She knows you like her, yet haven't had the balls to ask her out after 2 FUCKING YEARS....

cold hard fact coming up - you will never get to nail this girl.

pleasae move on, and find a girl that likes getting pounded - from a guy.

 

[Razorguns]

something to consider, isn't it? i'm glad you sifted thru my sarcasm and found what little treasure i left you. so, for being a good sport, i'll tell you this: lots of girls go thru a "lesbian" phase. they think and maybe even want to be lez, but they are not. most likely is the fact that she's been with a couple of guys that made her want to puke and is now judging the entire male gender with that criteria.

Ditto. Majority of women (especially the hot ones) go through their bi/lez phase in their 20's.

Then when it's 30, and asses expand -- they all "straighten" out. I wish i had a dollar for every 30/40 y/o i met who "messed" with girls in their past, but now are straighter than a board. Sheesh.

btw: If it took you 2 YEARS to figure out you want to bone her -- that's sad. I can tell within 5 seconds of meeting a chick if i want to bone her. Maybe YOu should be joining that club!

 

[Spanky11]

true

 

[H_T_]

makes me wonder if this girl you dig so much has a "friend" who is/thinks she's lez. if she does, i bet she "convinced" her so.

 

[HiDnGoD]

lots of girls go thru a "lesbian" phase. they think and maybe even want to be lez, but they are not. most likely is the fact that she's been with a couple of guys that made her want to puke and is now judging the entire male gender with that criteria.

At the H.S. my daughter went to it was socially acceptable for girls to be bi or lez. According to my daughter (she'd laugh about it with her friends), although many would claim this, there were few that actually did the deed. many times it was like HT said. They'd be sick of the young guys bullshit, always wanting pussy & acting gangsta, dissing girls.
It wass a phase for most of them.

 

[Razorguns]

At the H.S. my daughter went to it was socially acceptable for girls to be bi or lez. According to my daughter (she'd laugh about it with her friends), although many would claim this, there were few that actually did the deed. many times it was like HT said. They'd be sick of the young guys bullshit, always wanting pussy & acting gangsta, dissing girls.
It wass a phase for most of them.

Yeah. At my hs/public school -- there were a lot of girls kissing, and holding hands, etc. i also doubt few actually did anything. Until college of course.

 

[GrandMaster]

get her drunk and put moves on her see what she does... if your ever unsure... booze will RE-assure you!

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[Cutiebaby]

she could end up BI

 

[HiDnGoD]

I'm like that. The only sex I get, I have to buy.

 

[riverrock]

The problem isn't the she is a lesbian..Its that she is a friend.

But, if you want advice on how to put a threesome together with some bi chicks or even the hardest core lesbo...look me up kid

He's not kidding either!!!!

 

[Dial_tone]

When my previous friend with benefits started cooling off she began asking me how she looked in certain outfits. I said "am I turning into your gay shopping friend now?". She said no, I value your opinion.....bitch all you need to value is the feel of my dick in your ass.

 

[Razorguns]

bitch all you need to value is the feel of my dick in your ass.

This should be printed out and FRAMED in every ef's house in teh country.

 

[Snypr]

does it consist of a bunch of girls, a few effeminate guys and one black kid?

still laughing!!!

 

[foobar]

When my previous friend with benefits started cooling off she began asking me how she looked in certain outfits. I said "am I turning into your gay shopping friend now?". She said no, I value your opinion.....bitch all you need to value is the feel of my dick in your ass.

Ba-hahahahahaha. Now that's a REAL answer. K to you!

 

[foreigngirl]

1 more rep - bottom line is that it dont matter if she is or if sh eis not gay. She will NEVER go out with you or sleep with you, EVER. You've been her friend for 2 years and thats all she sees in you.

 

[riverrock]

1 more rep - bottom line is that it dont matter if she is or if sh eis not gay. She will NEVER go out with you or sleep with you, EVER. You've been her friend for 2 years and thats all she sees in you.

Well, she might get curious as to what its like to have sex with a guy......and 1morerep could be just the man to help her out!!!

I'd go out with a lesbian for the laugh!

 

[foobar]

Yeah, but the last thing you want is to be the guy that she test drove which made her decide that she is indeed a lesbian.

 

[bigmann245]

i feel for ya bro. i was the friend to many woman. i realized that if i wanted a woman sexually i had to be upfront in the beginning. cause once i became frineds with them for an extended period of time thats exactly the way it stayed.

 

[EnderJE]

Nobody knows that I'm secretly a lesbian...SHIT!