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calveless wonder

calveless wonder

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meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now :(
 
Sounds similar to the boat I was just in. Just got out of a 5 yr relationship. I got little or nothing that I purchased for the house(a TV was about it) She ran up all the bills in my name and was paying off hers.
It sucked for a good 10 months, then I just got over her. I was reclusive, no cash, bills to pay and I got sick of it. I made a move talking to whomever i could that could help. The advice was wonderful.
I dont know if you are religeous but prayer saved me. I got some spiritual help from friends on the net and all of the sudden the opportunity of a lifetime came to me. I start a new career and new chapter in my life next week and I think it was because of prayer.
Best wishes, hang in there....."This too shall pass"
 
calveless wonder said:
meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now :(
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the cheapest easiest way to meet women and bang them silly is myspace. i spend NOTHING on my myspace girls, and it usually takes under an hour to get them into bed. its ridiculous.

as for your negative mindframe, i think the deangelo advanced series on affirmations and self limiting beliefs is the place to start
 
gator_mclusky said:
Sounds similar to the boat I was just in. Just got out of a 5 yr relationship. I got little or nothing that I purchased for the house(a TV was about it) She ran up all the bills in my name and was paying off hers.
It sucked for a good 10 months, then I just got over her. I was reclusive, no cash, bills to pay and I got sick of it. I made a move talking to whomever i could that could help. The advice was wonderful.
I dont know if you are religeous but prayer saved me. I got some spiritual help from friends on the net and all of the sudden the opportunity of a lifetime came to me. I start a new career and new chapter in my life next week and I think it was because of prayer.
Best wishes, hang in there....."This too shall pass"
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thanks bro...that's very inspiring . I'm glad you were able to get back on track
it's been 5 months since this all went down (now that i think about it,5 months to the day). To me it seems like a long time, and that my life should be "together" again but putting it into perspective it took 2 out of 3 years in the relationship to spiral downwards.
Hearing someone go through something similar and overcoming helps alot.
hope this opportunity goes well for you!

not religious, but certainly spiritually....i try to be optimistic in all aspects of life but if i don't keep busy the trauma always seems to penetrate my thoughts. some days are worse than others.
 
lol bro, read your post in the morning and see if you dont feel like a pussy.

your a doer, not a cryer, you say you know how the wimmins work, well go out there and practice, get the rust off.

worst case scenario, you have a funny thread to make on EF about gettng rejected o rsomething and we can all laugh together and call ehr a whore.

go bang a bitch
 
ortiz34 said:
You care WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much about money bro.
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eh, it's justified. i need my own money to run my business basically. i don't have investors anymore....and i don't really want them(unless the terms are very tempting). i just need a specific amount of money available at all times to run my business efficiently. every dollar i spend comes back tenfold (My ROI is very good), but i didn't really work for a couple of months trying to get myself back together. paying for it now...

best times in my life have always been when i had money to burn and i'm used to the finer things in life, that's the way it's always been.conversely, the worst times in my life were BECAUSE lack of money.
once you're at a certain point, it's tough to go back down...in anything.



btw thanks subz. that really motivated me. and yes i do feel like a pussy now :)
time to make shit happen. i had a clomid moment last night (without taking it)
 
calveless wonder said:
eh, it's justified. i need my own money to run my business basically. i don't have investors anymore....and i don't really want them(unless the terms are very tempting). i just need a specific amount of money available at all times to run my business efficiently. every dollar i spend comes back tenfold (My ROI is very good), but i didn't really work for a couple of months trying to get myself back together. paying for it now...

best times in my life have always been when i had money to burn and i'm used to the finer things in life, that's the way it's always been.conversely, the worst times in my life were BECAUSE lack of money.
once you're at a certain point, it's tough to go back down...in anything.



btw thanks subz. that really motivated me. and yes i do feel like a pussy now :)
time to make shit happen. i had a clomid moment last night (without taking it)
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Cliff notes... I'm in the mortgage business and thought I was on top of the world just a couple of years back when ANYONE and their brother was raking it in. Now I have to actually work for money.
 
ortiz34 said:
Cliff notes... I'm in the mortgage business and thought I was on top of the world just a couple of years back when ANYONE and their brother was raking it in. Now I have to actually work for money.
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exactly!!!

didn't know you were a broker too.

i have a good niche now, but it requires $$$ to get running. i have a nice pipeline but can't spend any more marketing dollars till some of the deals close
 
calveless wonder said:
exactly!!!

didn't know you were a broker too.

i have a good niche now, but it requires $$$ to get running
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LOL! No dude I'm not in the mortgage business, but I am in the home improvement industry which sort of feeds of real estate etc. just like you do. Times are tough bro, but you just gotta ride it out.
 
ortiz34 said:
LOL! No dude I'm not in the mortgage business, but I am in the home improvement industry which sort of feeds of real estate etc. just like you do. Times are tough bro, but you just gotta ride it out.
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oh LMAO! you were talking about me.

gotcha. yeah, i'm not worried. you gotta bust your ass now a days to find deals, but they're out there.
 
My funds are tied to home improvement as well..........and it's sucking ass this year.................it looks to suck ass this next year as well.
 
string_bean00 said:
the answer is so damn simple man


steroids


get yourself all jacked up and your focus will go 100% in your training and diet and you will feel fulfilled until other shit starts rolling
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LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! leave it to my nigga for a great answer.

yeah, i'm about getting ready to jump back on that train. i think it's about time. i'm starting to look pretty decent naturally again.

it's been 3 and a half years. it's like im a steroid virgin all over again :)
my receptors will go bananas (i hope)
 
I can't / won't / don't go out for different reasons... and it gets mundane & boring for sure...

I work from home as well... so... LOL... change of scenery definetly helps.

I just try to focus on what's important. I am not really interested in getting involved with bar sluts either so that changes my perspective.
 
calveless wonder said:
meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now :(
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bro go to blockbuster and rent little miss sunshine (grea tmovie) or munich or hell rider (or all three!). rent a good book man if youre low on funds or just go and jack liike 50 menus from chinese food restaurants and read them like a novel :D. look at porn and masturbate (never a shortage of that) or talk to friends on msn. u can even go outside and run or do what i do when im bored, surf youtube!
 
Yarg! said:
bro go to blockbuster and rent little miss sunshine (grea tmovie) or munich or hell rider (or all three!). rent a good book man if youre low on funds or just go and jack liike 50 menus from chinese food restaurants and read them like a novel :D. look at porn and masturbate (never a shortage of that) or talk to friends on msn. u can even go outside and run or do what i do when im bored, surf youtube!
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the next time my wife goes to her parents house with the kids for a few days (probably not till next summer), i'm gonna rent all three of the "bourne" movies and veg-out in front of the tv with bud light and junk food
 
bro theres 2 bourne movies out on vid, the third isnt even in theaters yet :D. (im anticipating that one BIG TIME)
 
Yarg! said:
bro theres 2 bourne movies out on vid, the third isnt even in theaters yet :D. (im anticipating that one BIG TIME)
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read my post. . .i said it won't be till next summer. . .like you, i can't wait to see the third. . .the first two were fuggin fantastic imho. . .
 
my bad. i just hope theres more fight scenes in this one. the 2nd one only had one. from the trailers he fights a black dude in a track suit in an apt and beats him with a book. looks siiiick
 
Yarg! said:
my bad. i just hope theres more fight scenes in this one. the 2nd one only had one. from the trailers he fights a black dude in a track suit in an apt and beats him with a book. looks siiiick
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you want fights? have you seen jet li, kiss of the dragon. . .that little asian motherfugger is bad ass!
 
nigga i have that shit on dvd! when he fights the twins ... oh my god.. i get a boner at that scene.
 
Yarg! said:
nigga i have that shit on dvd! when he fights the twins ... oh my god.. i get a boner at that scene.
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i also love the scene with the pool balls and the one where he kicks the guy through the booth. . .fuggin awesome. . .think i'll rent that one tonight :)
 
haha oh man i knw or when he fights the room full black belts. or the giant black boxer dude in the resturant.
 
Yarg! said:
haha oh man i knw or when he fights the room full black belts. or the giant black boxer dude in the resturant.
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there's a video store across the street from my office. . .i'm walking over right now. . .
 
hey dude have u seen spy game, munich or shooter? those are some sweet military themed movies like the BI series.
 
Yarg! said:
hey dude have u seen spy game, munich or shooter? those are some sweet military themed movies like the BI series.
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i've been busier than hell for a long time and haven't watched many movies lately. . .i'll check all of those out though. . .shooter looked really good, plus i think mark wahlberg is a kick-ass actor. . .
 
i wasnt much for marky mark till i saw the departed. holy shit.. his character is in my top10 characters of all time list.. i fu havent seen that movie, i wont spoil it fo ru, but dude go rent it- MW fucking owns especially his last scene in the movie.
 
calveless wonder said:
meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now :(
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This to shall pass...

I think the move will do you some good. Fresh faces, places, things to do, and adjusting will definitely keep you busy enough for a while. A lot of times when people talk about moves making their lives better, I advise them that problems follow us wherever we go, eventually, but in your case I think a clean break will really do you good. Leave her and all your history with her and all the negativity that came from being with her behind. Life can and will get better from here forth. In the meantime, I'll leave you with some words of advice that I got from my father once:

" I meant it when I said to stop looking so far down the road last night. One of the great problems we create for ourselves is the spinning out of potential futures, none of which have any reality to them at all. One day at a time is enough. What's the best thing to do today? What needs doing now? Keeping yourself focused on the present moment is a great thing. "

Good luck to you... :)
 
And cw - you ever look into putting more into day game?

Especially in a warm climate area. You'r emore likely to fetch some higher value women too (as opposed to in the clubs).
 
KillahBee said:
And cw - you ever look into putting more into day game?

Especially in a warm climate area. You'r emore likely to fetch some higher value women too (as opposed to in the clubs).
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got a long ass message i'm trying to send you. do you ever jump on your AIM?
i lost your e-mail addy
 
i like pretty much all the music on the entourage soundtrack, esp. the closing credits songs. there's this obscure (to me, at least) song that closed the episode a few weeks ago. pretty cool. don't know if it's your kind of shit, but give it a spin.

"lady don't tek no" - latyrx
 
jackangel said:
i like pretty much all the music on the entourage soundtrack, esp. the closing credits songs. there's this obscure (to me, at least) song that closed the episode a few weeks ago. pretty cool. don't know if it's your kind of shit, but give it a spin.

"lady don't tek no" - latyrx
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wtf????
 
I'm just a cvnt hair away from SWVery and a rut myself. Had a great month this month but closed everything I had working out and just have a bunch of people sitting on the fence. Storm on the horizon for jnev.
 
nefertiti said:
This to shall pass...

I think the move will do you some good. Fresh faces, places, things to do, and adjusting will definitely keep you busy enough for a while. A lot of times when people talk about moves making their lives better, I advise them that problems follow us wherever we go, eventually, but in your case I think a clean break will really do you good. Leave her and all your history with her and all the negativity that came from being with her behind. Life can and will get better from here forth. In the meantime, I'll leave you with some words of advice that I got from my father once:

" I meant it when I said to stop looking so far down the road last night. One of the great problems we create for ourselves is the spinning out of potential futures, none of which have any reality to them at all. One day at a time is enough. What's the best thing to do today? What needs doing now? Keeping yourself focused on the present moment is a great thing. "

Good luck to you... :)
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well...old places actually :)
I lived in miami for 3 years and moved up to fort lauderdale for a year. but i was in a relationship and basically working the entire time trying to support/help the bitch w/ her multitude of health and other problems.. so i never got to experience it to the fullest and while single.
But i'm moving in with some great people, so that's exciting.

and yes, great quote! past and future thinking is very dangerous. present moment is the only time when we truly enjoy life. Great book that relates to that is "the power of now" by eckhard tolle.

anyways, thanks
 
calveless wonder said:
meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now :(
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Here's an idea. What I used to do on a limited budget: Go to a club, wear a shirt that accentuates your muscularity. Get your beer or whatever at the store and drink it in your car before going in the club. Just stand there and let the women flock to you.. I would sit at home for weeks in a row before I decided to get off my ass and do something.. Probably should have been going to church or something, but I don't have that kind of faith, so making out with women is what I think a man was born to do.
 
biteme said:
Here's an idea. What I used to do on a limited budget: Go to a club, wear a shirt that accentuates your muscularity. Get your beer or whatever at the store and drink it in your car before going in the club. Just stand there and let the women flock to you.. I would sit at home for weeks in a row before I decided to get off my ass and do something.. Probably should have been going to church or something, but I don't have that kind of faith, so making out with women is what I think a man was born to do.
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LMFAO @ wommanizing tips from BiteMe.
 
jh1 said:
LMFAO @ wommanizing tips from BiteMe.
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I had a different one every week homie. Girls in the South like masculine men and not you fag boys.
 
jnevin said:
The single wide and late model primer gray pickup trucks are what make the panties drop.
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In your case, it's the huge veins protuding out of the skull. Very sexy.... I know you guys are full of shit and all, but I'm gonna post a pic of my home and property anyway.. soon.
 
biteme said:
I had a different one every week homie. Girls in the South like masculine men and not you fag boys.
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You stud you. Hot wimmin too, i'll bet... not the nasty trash you're with now... right?
 
calveless wonder said:
and yes, great quote! past and future thinking is very dangerous. present moment is the only time when we truly enjoy life. Great book that relates to that is "the power of now" by eckhard tolle.

anyways, thanks
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LOL....this is the FULL quote from my dad:

Four - I meant it when I said to stop looking so far down the road last night. One of the great problems we create for ourselves is the spinning out of potential futures, none of which have any reality to them at all. One day at a time is enough. What's the best thing to do today? What needs doing now? Keeping yourself focused on the present moment is a great thing. I have a book in my office I give out sometimes called "The Power of Now." It's not particularly Christian, though the author likes Jesus okay. I think he calls himself a Buddhist, but it doesn't matter. He has some good things to say about focusing on the present. If I send one to you, will you read it?
 
I don't wanna wang chung tonight.

I am wang chunging tomorrow night, and if I do it tonight... that'll be too much.
 
jh1 said:
You stud you. Hot wimmin too, i'll bet... not the nasty trash you're with now... right?
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Think about this while you have yet another dick up your ass.. My gf is a professional. She is a teacher at a high school and a director of the drill team and is a former beauty queen. Hardly what I'd call trash, so I have to assume you're joking. I'll let you get back to taking that dick up your ass now.
 
jnevin said:
trash
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I know you are but what am I? (sticks out tongue)
 
biteme said:
Think about this while you have yet another dick up your ass.. My gf is a professional. She is a teacher at a high school and a director of the drill team and is a former beauty queen. Hardly what I'd call trash, so I have to assume you're joking. I'll let you get back to taking that dick up your ass now.
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Well, you certainly told me.
 
sounds like you got a lot going on, enough to keep your mind busy, and use the downtime to relax and prepare for whatever comes through business wise. Enjoy the herb./
 
biteme said:
Here's an idea. What I used to do on a limited budget: Go to a club, wear a shirt that accentuates your muscularity. Get your beer or whatever at the store and drink it in your car before going in the club. Just stand there and let the women flock to you.. I would sit at home for weeks in a row before I decided to get off my ass and do something.. Probably should have been going to church or something, but I don't have that kind of faith, so making out with women is what I think a man was born to do.
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LOL dude, that doesn't happen in south florida. Competition is fierce when you go out, there are lots of good looking people and/or people with money.gotta stand out from that crowd, which means your game has to be A+ here. or at least your social value
 
calveless wonder said:
LOL dude, that doesn't happen in south florida. Competition is fierce when you go out, there are lots of good looking people and/or people with money.gotta stand out from that crowd, which means your game has to be A+ here. or at least your social value
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Then may I suggest a trip to Wisconsin? No one has any of that kind of stuff here.




:cow:
 
calveless wonder said:
meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now :(
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I'm in exactly the same boat as you.

1. I can't do much b/c of finances b/c my ex bf pretty much cleaned me out of every possession that I owned, my business, etc.

2. I'm only working PT b/c no one wants to hire a woman who is obviously going to be giving birth soon and taking time off.

3. I can't really go out and meet people right now...lol.

4. I look like a blimp and I keep peeing in my pants. :lmao:

So, I definitely can relate. I just keep on focusing on how good it will feel to be on the top of the mountain again. I know it will happen. I've definitely been in the valley this year. Soon, though, I'll have a son, a full time job, be able to buy my furniture back, be able to go out, be able to work out and get my body back.

So, you are in a valley now. Just keep looking forward to how good it is going to be soon.
 
You're not in a rut unless you think you are. Make a temporary adjustment until the tide comes in again. Use this downtime to play in the sand, and perhaps discover something new.
Life gets depressing when taken too seriously; I know this very well first hand.
 
The way I see it, there's only one way around this. And I suggest you listen to me because when it comes to this shit, I know what I'm talking about. Get off your ass and figure out how to do things that don't cost you a lot of money. You aren't a deabeat, you have things going for you. Don't be afraid to explain your situation to women like you just put it to us. Take them out for coffee, or a walk on a nice summer day, or other cheap shit. They won't fucking care if they like you.

This won't end until you do something to fix it though. It'll only get worse. Meeting new people is always a good idea. Being social definitely helps. And force yourself to let shit go and think of other things. The worst thing you can do is keep thinking about the same shit if it's bothering you. Get your mind of of it and onto something else and before you know it, you're smiling. Go out with some friends and meet some new people through them if need be but mother of christ, do something. Make shit happen.

Nate the Motivational Speaker. Over and out.
 
And I swear to god if you even make one excuse as to why you feel you can't do this shit, then you are on your own and deserve your misery. I hate that shit. I swear those people like being depressed.
 
thanks everybody...really.
i mean it

thats why i love EF...everyone has a unique perspective and opinion.. and there was a ton of good advice on this thread. In this case it really enlightened me and helps to change my mindset.
 
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