I'm officially in a rut....someone cheer me up

[digimon7068]

hey dude have u seen spy game, munich or shooter? those are some sweet military themed movies like the BI series.

i've been busier than hell for a long time and haven't watched many movies lately. . .i'll check all of those out though. . .shooter looked really good, plus i think mark wahlberg is a kick-ass actor. . .

 

[Yarg!]

i wasnt much for marky mark till i saw the departed. holy shit.. his character is in my top10 characters of all time list.. i fu havent seen that movie, i wont spoil it fo ru, but dude go rent it- MW fucking owns especially his last scene in the movie.

 

[nefertiti]

meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now

This to shall pass...

I think the move will do you some good. Fresh faces, places, things to do, and adjusting will definitely keep you busy enough for a while. A lot of times when people talk about moves making their lives better, I advise them that problems follow us wherever we go, eventually, but in your case I think a clean break will really do you good. Leave her and all your history with her and all the negativity that came from being with her behind. Life can and will get better from here forth. In the meantime, I'll leave you with some words of advice that I got from my father once:

" I meant it when I said to stop looking so far down the road last night. One of the great problems we create for ourselves is the spinning out of potential futures, none of which have any reality to them at all. One day at a time is enough. What's the best thing to do today? What needs doing now? Keeping yourself focused on the present moment is a great thing. "

Good luck to you...

 

[KillahBee]

And cw - you ever look into putting more into day game?

Especially in a warm climate area. You'r emore likely to fetch some higher value women too (as opposed to in the clubs).

 

[calveless wonder]

And cw - you ever look into putting more into day game?

Especially in a warm climate area. You'r emore likely to fetch some higher value women too (as opposed to in the clubs).

got a long ass message i'm trying to send you. do you ever jump on your AIM?
i lost your e-mail addy

 

[KillahBee]

got a long ass message i'm trying to send you. do you ever jump on your AIM?
i lost your e-mail addy

opening IM right now bro

 

[jackangel]

i like pretty much all the music on the entourage soundtrack, esp. the closing credits songs. there's this obscure (to me, at least) song that closed the episode a few weeks ago. pretty cool. don't know if it's your kind of shit, but give it a spin.

"lady don't tek no" - latyrx

 

[calveless wonder]

i like pretty much all the music on the entourage soundtrack, esp. the closing credits songs. there's this obscure (to me, at least) song that closed the episode a few weeks ago. pretty cool. don't know if it's your kind of shit, but give it a spin.

"lady don't tek no" - latyrx

wtf????

 

[jnevin]

I'm just a cvnt hair away from SWVery and a rut myself. Had a great month this month but closed everything I had working out and just have a bunch of people sitting on the fence. Storm on the horizon for jnev.

 

[puddlemonkey]

The bourne movies suck really fucking bad... what's wrong with you idiots?

You sir are incorrect.