I'm officially in a rut....someone cheer me up

[calveless wonder]

This to shall pass...

I think the move will do you some good. Fresh faces, places, things to do, and adjusting will definitely keep you busy enough for a while. A lot of times when people talk about moves making their lives better, I advise them that problems follow us wherever we go, eventually, but in your case I think a clean break will really do you good. Leave her and all your history with her and all the negativity that came from being with her behind. Life can and will get better from here forth. In the meantime, I'll leave you with some words of advice that I got from my father once:

" I meant it when I said to stop looking so far down the road last night. One of the great problems we create for ourselves is the spinning out of potential futures, none of which have any reality to them at all. One day at a time is enough. What's the best thing to do today? What needs doing now? Keeping yourself focused on the present moment is a great thing. "

Good luck to you...

well...old places actually
I lived in miami for 3 years and moved up to fort lauderdale for a year. but i was in a relationship and basically working the entire time trying to support/help the bitch w/ her multitude of health and other problems.. so i never got to experience it to the fullest and while single.
But i'm moving in with some great people, so that's exciting.

and yes, great quote! past and future thinking is very dangerous. present moment is the only time when we truly enjoy life. Great book that relates to that is "the power of now" by eckhard tolle.

anyways, thanks

 

[biteme]

meh, i feel like such an SWV. i hate memememe threads but you guys do a good job of cheering peeps up.

The inactivity and boringness in my life is driving me crazy. Basically been a hermit the past 2, almost 3 months (aside from 4th of july week where i went out 3-4 times that week. had a great time and felt like my old self)

All my money is tied up in a large number of business deals that haven't closed yet. When they do, i'll have alot of resources available, but until they do, i'm basically held hostage in my personal and business life. my expenses are very high right now so i have to be conservative until the money starts coming in again.

Can't go out, which means i can't really meet many women or have much fun. Which means i think more and more about the past and what went down with my Ex and her "other boyfriend" she had beind my back and all the money she basically stole from me...makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit. When i'm busy, active meeting new people i don't dwell on that shit..but when i'm not, it's easy to pop up. After we broke up, i was on a roll socially/w women...but i also had alot of money to blow and was going out constantly.

I had to work so hard to get my self esteem back from all that was sacrified and all she used me for, and i feel like im slowly creeping back to square one. I have no real girl in my life, not even a decent booty call (i've exhausted those)...hence the need to go out and meet people again.

i also can't really work my ass off either and focus on that, because all my marketing funds are tied up. so that means a ton of downtime at work, and its making me lose my passion for my job a little until i get things rolling again.

been trying to keep busy by reading/learning, training my ass off, and eating well...but that's not really fulfilling to me on its own.

Hoping my move back to miami will revive my life. i think it will, but i dont know. my skills are going to waste right now

Here's an idea. What I used to do on a limited budget: Go to a club, wear a shirt that accentuates your muscularity. Get your beer or whatever at the store and drink it in your car before going in the club. Just stand there and let the women flock to you.. I would sit at home for weeks in a row before I decided to get off my ass and do something.. Probably should have been going to church or something, but I don't have that kind of faith, so making out with women is what I think a man was born to do.

 

[jh1]

Here's an idea. What I used to do on a limited budget: Go to a club, wear a shirt that accentuates your muscularity. Get your beer or whatever at the store and drink it in your car before going in the club. Just stand there and let the women flock to you.. I would sit at home for weeks in a row before I decided to get off my ass and do something.. Probably should have been going to church or something, but I don't have that kind of faith, so making out with women is what I think a man was born to do.

LMFAO @ wommanizing tips from BiteMe.

 

[biteme]

LMFAO @ wommanizing tips from BiteMe.

I had a different one every week homie. Girls in the South like masculine men and not you fag boys.

 

[jnevin]

The single wide and late model primer gray pickup trucks are what make the panties drop.

 

[biteme]

The single wide and late model primer gray pickup trucks are what make the panties drop.

In your case, it's the huge veins protuding out of the skull. Very sexy.... I know you guys are full of shit and all, but I'm gonna post a pic of my home and property anyway.. soon.

 

[jh1]

I had a different one every week homie. Girls in the South like masculine men and not you fag boys.

You stud you. Hot wimmin too, i'll bet... not the nasty trash you're with now... right?

 

[jnevin]

I honestly doubt anyone cares.

 

[samoth]

Everybody Dance Now!

 

[jnevin]

Everybody wang chung tonight.