First to your earlier point: I look at this board like I look at healthcare...you don't have a right to have fun, feel comfortable, etc. Would it be nice if you did? Sure. If you don't, it's not remotely close to being the end of the world. Unless someone is threatening your life or the lives of your loved ones, you have no good reason to get upset. About any of this. You can't (shouldn't) get upset by people tagging on you because they don't like you or your Internet persona. I'm sure some folks on here don't like my awesomeness, but I could care less. Because it's an Internet chat board.
Regarding dwelling on problems, that's too subjective. You may think a small member of the population here are "problems." Others may agree. Chances are just as many if not more folks disagree with you. You have a problem with a few members who rag on you but generally get along with most everyone else doesn't seem to be a problem that the board needs to fix.