Very tough subject. I would say having been here for awhile (EF) and been through a lot with respect to this very [topic] of conversation...
I can only provide my two cents and say to anyone (male, female, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend or any somewhat monogomously in-love in couple status)...Don't do it.
Don't do it ever - you will regret the posting of your 'lovely-and-ever-so-sexy-at-the-time' pics then at some tiny moment in time when it creeps into your mind, or your partner's mind why the hell are those pics there again and then it all just slides slowly downhill from there....