Ideas , thought on second date

[nycgirl]

I agree with Raina. Just go with the flow and do what you want to do and no games. If she freaks out over a flower, then she isn't the one for you.

 

[SoreArms]

You really have to get a feel of what this girl wants. While bringing a flower might be considered a meaningless thoughtful action, she might analyze that as "omg, this guy is taking "us" seriously." She might put up an emotional wall and run away from you. On the other hand, if she's interested in the same, she might choose to get closer to you.

two things can happen, well three actually

1) she'll like it and like you better for it

2) you'll freak her out

3) you don't do it which makes 1 and 2 are null and void

yep

 

[pwrhngry]

Hey there, bubba, on the question about a flower: I have never seen anyone that didnt like a little consideration shown to them. Its not like your giving her a diamond ring or somethin.
What I do though, which you may consider, is picking flowers myself. First off some girls dont like roses, and they also kindof have aconnotation. Wildflowers are just pretty, no big message. Second it shows a lot more thought, IMO to take the time to actually pick a few flowers yourself, in thoughts of her, than to just plunk down a couple of bucks for some refrigerated rose.
Just my thoughts, good luck bro.

 

[KillzwithPillz]

thanks for all the replies, all had really good points , I think I will get her something casual, next time.

 

[wootoom]

thanks for all the replies, all had really good points , I think I will get her something casual, next time.

dude i make threads about u and u never answer then jesus

 

[superqt4u2nv]

ok meet Tina online, first date with her was last weekend meet at resturant bar type place just to see if we were clickin, had Attraction thing going, good conversation, laughs ect. (no didnt get pics or laid), my question is tonight i go pick her up at her house, would it be cliche to take her a flower? like one rose, yellow? I like this girl so far, what do you think?

One rose not yellow or red if you know her favorite colour get it n that if not white, trust me red and yellow have to much meaning she will red into. LOL

Go play pool or go to some place like Dave and Busters that shit is fun. What ever you do don't take her to the movies boring. Be yourself and she will like you with out a doubt your a sweet heart.

 

[KillzwithPillz]

dude i make threads about u and u never answer then jesus

sorry wootoom, I havent been on much lately. Im still a good bro tho huh?

 

[KillzwithPillz]

One rose not yellow or red if you know her favorite colour get it n that if not white, trust me red and yellow have to much meaning she will red into. LOL

Go play pool or go to some place like Dave and Busters that shit is fun. What ever you do don't take her to the movies boring. Be yourself and she will like you with out a doubt your a sweet heart.

:blushes: thanks your a doll!!

 

[wootoom]

sorry wootoom, I havent been on much lately. Im still a good bro tho huh?

fuggin rights you are

 

[Hiatussin]

No dont be scared of cliches

because theyre cliches most people dont do them anymore

paradox

its still nice