Ideas , thought on second date

[StickFigure]

Bunch of noobs up in this thread!

 

[Raina]

No need to overthink. Do what feels right. If you want to give her flowers, give her flowers. If you like her, don't play games. Just go with the flow and enjoy the time you have together.

 

[Gambino]

Bunch of noobs up in this thread!

i'd rather be a noob with tang on the regular than a crusty vet with 16 months of un-tangfull existence! I remember your sig lol

 

[SoKlueles]

One little flower wouldnt hurt
You could hand it to her and say "i was in Albertsons today and saw this flower and thought of you so i picked it up for you, i hope you like it"
it really shows your interested and you could possibly get a hug

 

[SoreArms]

two things can happen, well three actually

1) she'll like it and like you better for it

2) you'll freak her out

3) you don't do it which makes 1 and 2 are null and void

 

[Raina]

What the hell kind of psycho freaks out over getting flowers? If a girl freaks out about that level of "commitment" run.

 

[eat big]

Get her a tulip.

And don't say what Klu said.

 

[Raina]

Tulips don't last long. Not even a day. I've always been a bigger fan of more than 1 flower. Minimum 3. The last time I got flowers I was really surpised. Lots of bonus points. I felt incredibly special.

 

[eat big]

Tulips don't last long. Not even a day. I've always been a bigger fan of more than 1 flower. Minimum 3. The last time I got flowers I was really surpised. Lots of bonus points. I felt incredibly special.

Fine!

 

[swole]

Last winter break I was seeing this girl who I was hoping would be more than a friend. I did so many sweet things for this woman. We did the usual thing a casual couple does...go out, mess around, blah. Well, turns out she didn't want a relationship. Sometimes when I would open the car door for her or bring over a thoughtful "present" (like her favorite candy), it seemed like she appreciated it, but it pushed her away. At least I knew where she stood at that point.

You really have to get a feel of what this girl wants. While bringing a flower might be considered a meaningless thoughtful action, she might analyze that as "omg, this guy is taking "us" seriously." She might put up an emotional wall and run away from you. On the other hand, if she's interested in the same, she might choose to get closer to you.

When in doubt, do what feels right. If she's into you and you want something to come of this, give her something playful (sunflower or tulip is perfect). I think it would be too early for a rose. This way you get her on the same page as you, even if it's for one night.

Oh yea, if you give her a tulip, get 6 of them. Keep the dates fun and casual...be yourself and act natural...