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heatherrae said:
Meh, if a guy doesn't want to date a mom, that is his choice. I dont' really mind. However, saying it is on some sort of principle is a bit offensive to single moms.

When you get in your late 30's, everyone has kids. If you refuse to date men/women who don't have kids, your dating pool will be almost zero.

So, it is not offensive to guys when you bitches won't date them if they don't have enough cash to pay for you and someone else's kid? (Or, if they are Nascar fans or wear Nike T-shirts)

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heatherrae said:
Meh, if a guy doesn't want to date a mom, that is his choice. I dont' really mind. However, saying it is on some sort of principle is a bit offensive to single moms.

When you get in your late 30's, everyone has kids. If you refuse to date men/women who don't have kids, your dating pool will be almost zero.

No, I am not offended and respect him for having such principles.

See, I did not date younger men because of MY principles. This did not mean that I thought they were less than good people. I just knew without ever meeting them (though I dated like 2 and considered just licking one up and down) that it would NEVER lead to anything because of what I wanted from a relationship.

Not offensive at all to anyone as we are all being honest and respecting TIME and not wasting anyone's.
 
heatherrae said:
Meh, if a guy doesn't want to date a mom, that is his choice. I dont' really mind. However, saying it is on some sort of principle is a bit offensive to single moms.

When you get in your late 30's, everyone has kids. If you refuse to date men/women who don't have kids, your dating pool will be almost zero.
Any woman my age either already has kids, can't have them or is too ugly to find anybody impregnate her...however the fact that I don't have any kids certainly couldn't be thru any faults of mine. I'm just waiting for that right girl. :p
 
if i were you i'd move to somewhere with some diversity and opportunity
and somewhere where you could raise your kid well

too many factors are against you

1.) you're a single mother who's about to have a baby
2.) you live in a state where the odds are good, but the goods are odd

Certain people will overlook the kids thing, but you have to be in the right area to find someone of quality who will.
if i lived in a rural area i'd shoot myself
 
all the whey said:
So, it is not offensive to guys when you bitches won't date them if they don't have enough cash to pay for you and someone else's kid? (Or, if they are Nascar fans or wear Nike T-shirts)

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Pay for me and my kid? I never asked anyone to pay anything.

Maybe I'm taking superdave's point the wrong way. The way I'm reading it is that he doesn't waste time on single moms because they are somehow lesser persons than women without children. Personal preference to not having kids around is up to him and doesn't offend me. However, once you near 40, almost everyone has children or ex's to contend with.
 
calveless wonder said:
if i were you i'd move to somewhere with some diversity and opportunity
and somewhere where you could raise your kid well

too many factors are against you

1.) you're a single mother who's about to have a baby
2.) you live in a state where the odds are good, but the goods are odd

Certain people will overlook the kids thing, but you have to be in the right area to find someone of quality who will.
if i lived in a rural area i'd shoot myself
Yeah, I hear you. Living in a rural area makes finding someone with similar interests very difficult. I will move eventually. That is for certain.
 
heatherrae said:
Pay for me and my kid? I never asked anyone to pay anything.

Maybe I'm taking superdave's point the wrong way. The way I'm reading it is that he doesn't waste time on single moms because they are somehow lesser persons than women without children.

come on, that's ridiculous. it's a baggage issue.
once you get older, yeah, alot of people come with baggage or a past (kids, divorce, etc). i'm the same way, but i'm also relatively young like superdave. i've met a few hotties that were cool, i found out had kids and it's something i'm totally not interested in dealing with

the person can be the greatest person in the world and have a kid, and for some people it will be too much responsibility
 
Dial_tone said:
Any woman my age either already has kids, can't have them or is too ugly to find anybody impregnate her...however the fact that I don't have any kids certainly couldn't be thru any faults of mine. I'm just waiting for that right girl. :p
lol...or it could be that you always finish in the butt.
 
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