I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that well

[Scotsman]

that could be one consequence, yes.

Or I might date a woman that I think is beautiful only to find out that she is a total bitch and breaks my heart.

I'm sure I could think of many more bad scenarios if I sat down and thought about it for awhile.

Look, dating is 99% misery, pain, suffering, and akwardness. But if you don't do it you'll never get to know if the other person is worthwhile or not. Yeah you are going to have a lot of shitty dates that you want to forget, but you'll also have great ones that you will remember for the rest of your life.

Quit being a little frady cat. Live, love, learn. That's the meaning of life is to find what makes you happy and stay near it and what makes you unhappy you try to void. If you sit there over analyzing everything and guessing that every attractive girl is going to break you heart then you will always be alone and miserable. Let loose a little try new things, and for fucks sakes quit giving in to failure without at least trying.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that w

It always baffled me, how I would have the hardest time making myself flirt with a girl I didnt know, and God knows how nearly impossibly hard it would have been for me just to go up to some cute girl and ask her out.

In my Cross Cultural Psychology class today (there are a LOT of hot hot hot girls in this class) I was sitting there and thinking about it and it finally hit me...

It isnt rejection that I'm afraid of, I'm afraid of getting involved. If I talk to some girl that I dont know that well and ask her for a bite to eat or something, I run the risk of becoming attracted to someone that I dont know. I run the risk of a higher chance of myself falling head over heels over a woman that I barely just met.

Does anyone see how unhealthy this could be?

I know this is thinking to far ahead, but I have a feeling this is how bad relationships start. Both the man and the woman jumped the gun too soon.

I guess in the meantime then, all the hot girls that I see every day but that I dont know, are just going to be a tease, since I know that getting involved with them would be a bad idea. Maybe you should only get involved with girls that you've been friends with for awhile, and really know.

keep telling yourself that... pussy.

 

[AristotleBC]

Look, dating is 99% misery, pain, suffering, and akwardness. But if you don't do it you'll never get to know if the other person is worthwhile or not. Yeah you are going to have a lot of shitty dates that you want to forget, but you'll also have great ones that you will remember for the rest of your life.

Quit being a little frady cat. Live, love, learn. That's the meaning of life is to find what makes you happy and stay near it and what makes you unhappy you try to void. If you sit there over analyzing everything and guessing that every attractive girl is going to break you heart then you will always be alone and miserable. Let loose a little try new things, and for fucks sakes quit giving in to failure without at least trying.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Sage.

But remember:

Porn: 1/4th the pleasure, 1/100th the effort.

 

[RADAR]

I already tried getting the "good body" long ago, and I failed because I didnt have the willpower. (and unfortunately thats not something that RADAR can fix) I couldnt even maintain 9% bodyfat (the lowest I ever got) for longer than a month or so.

And even back when I did have a decent body I still didnt have confidence 'radiating out of my skin'.

And even if I was confident, I dont see how that would help me. I could still end up with the wrong girl, and fuck myself over.

Look, I dont want to be 50 and divorced 4 times.

I'm only going to say this once and i'll never mention it again, you are a major procastrinator ,you put off everything and find blame else where when things don't go right.
You have already admitted to brushing your teeth once or twice per week, How often do you bathe? Good proper hygeine is a must! Before you can find any girl who is going to take an interest in you, you must first start taking an interest in yourself!


RADAR

 

[Evil_Frisky]

I'm only going to say this once and i'll never mention it again, you are a major procastrinator ,you put off everything and find blame else where when things don't go right.
You have already admitted to brushing your teeth once or twice per week, How often do you bathe? Good proper hygeine is a must! Before you can find any girl who is going to take an interest in you, you must first start taking an interest in yourself!


RADAR

^ Well said dahlin

 

[The Red Dragon]

Whoa that toothbrushing thing is awful, girls will notice every little detail about you...

Go out and do something, don't sit there and analyze why things don't work

 

[Yarg!]

btw dude.. here are some other reasons u should consider before flirting with women...

she could be an axe murderer
mental issues
could be a man
might have 50 guns at home
dominatrix wholl totally own you with a whip and handcuffs
slutty
gang banger
has (insert STD)
is actually a giant squid in human form

keep making up excuses...

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Over thinking again...

 

[BrothaBill]

A gram of test per week will solve all your problems














j/k you are lame and overthinking, the reason that you DONT know them is why you should flirt with them. Afterall if you dont know them who cares what they think of you!

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

Re: I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that w

btw dude.. here are some other reasons u should consider before flirting with women...

she could be an axe murderer
mental issues
could be a man
might have 50 guns at home
dominatrix wholl totally own you with a whip and handcuffs
slutty
gang banger
has (insert STD)
is actually a giant squid in human form

keep making up excuses...

the absolute best post ever