I think it's a good idea to find your love in early 20s

[Destroyer1986*]

Dont marry a really good looking woman. It will be hell to keep her. Get an average looking one.

LOL.

 

[nycgirl]

That's what I've been doing, and I respect others opinions however I dont want to make the mistakes that others made I'd rather learn off them. People say you learn on mistakes, I say you got plenty of time in your life to make mistakes, but when you have a chance learn of others, why should I repeat stupidity?

I agree with you. Unfortunately, some of us (including myself) don't learn from others. We still some how manage to put ourselves in unhealthy stuff.

You are in your early 20's, if you meet someone that will love you and treat well and, most importantly, love herself as well. Great. If not, don't worry about it too much. Enjoy life.

 

[biteme]

I agree with you. Unfortunately, some of us (including myself) don't learn from others. We still some how manage to put ourselves in unhealthy stuff.

You are in your early 20's, if you meet someone that will love you and treat well and, most importantly, love herself as well. Great. If not, don't worry about it too much. Enjoy life.

Haha. That's a funny avatar. Unfortunately it's true more than half the time.

 

[Raina]

Wait you can learn from others? I thought you were just supposed to stick your hand in the fire over and over and learn for yourself? lol

My dad and I had a talk recently and he told me that when it comes down to it I got married for the exact same wrong reasons that he did the first time. Feelings of obligation and later talking ourselves into it because there was so much money invested in the wedding/house/etc. That made me feel a little bit better. It's pretty sucky to be part of something like that that totally falls apart and know it's your fault for ever making the call to get married.

I wish the 2 years ago version of myself would have listened to her gut and to everyone around her though.

 

[Destroyer1986*]

Wait you can learn from others? I thought you were just supposed to stick your hand in the fire over and over and learn for yourself? lol

My dad and I had a talk recently and he told me that when it comes down to it I got married for the exact same wrong reasons that he did the first time. Feelings of obligation and later talking ourselves into it because there was so much money invested in the wedding/house/etc. That made me feel a little bit better. It's pretty sucky to be part of something like that that totally falls apart and know it's your fault for ever making the call to get married.

I wish the 2 years ago version of myself would have listened to her gut and to everyone around her though.

Life goes on learn from your mistakes. To be honest I see myself having children with my partner and moving in together before we get married.

 

[Forge]

LMAO at love being "half-assed" cuz you're over 30.....

Older women are beautiful lovers,
Older women, they understand,
I've been around some and I have discovered
that older women know just how to please a man.




There is something to be said for both wisdom and experience, in both sex and love, that a young 20-something just can't give you.

 

[biteme]

Older women are beautiful lovers,
Older women, they understand,
I've been around some and I have discovered
that older women know just how to please a man.




There is something to be said for both wisdom and experience, in both sex and love, that a young 20-something just can't give you.

That's only something that guys that can't get the 20 year olds anymore, say. LOL. j/k

 

[deco]

Married not married it doesnt matter, it's just a god damn piece of paper. What I'm talking about here is finding love. Sorry for the mixup but I didn't find a better expression for a longterm commitment.

 

[deco]

Older women are beautiful lovers,
Older women, they understand,
I've been around some and I have discovered
that older women know just how to please a man.




There is something to be said for both wisdom and experience, in both sex and love, that a young 20-something just can't give you.

so are you saying that if a couple marries at the age of 24 let's say, they will never grow out of that age? Practice makes better, with time you get better.

I do know for a fact that I will not marry untill I feel I've achieved enaugh success, nor will I marry an unsuccesful wife. I think successful people enjoy the most happiness, however they need love to fulfill their life.

 

[Forge]

That's only something that guys that can't get the 20 year olds anymore, say. LOL. j/k

It's funny, my ex-wife was 9 years older than me. Since I've been divorced I haven't been with a woman less than 5 years older than me. It's not that I have anything against younger women, they just don't seem to be in my deck of cards.




I haven't been with a woman younger than me in like 12 years.