I think it's a good idea to find your love in early 20s

[deco]

I say enjoy your 20's and date. marry in your 30's, but marry a 20 something chick

haha, money.

 

[jenscats5]

I guess it's different for everyone but it seems even on this board, you got all these men and women complaining about relationships who are in their 30s. I dont know, everyone to each of his own. It's just it seems like every other thread that I see on here it's always men are pigs, women are sluts, when did you last get laid, have you ever dumped someone for no reason. It makes it look like these people are going through a struggle.
Ive seen some succesful marriages that have been acomplished in their later stages however the most succesfulls I've seen are the american dream, hs sweatheart meatheart type of shit. Then again, i'm in my early 20s and I havent seen the whole world even though it's plenty more then anyone else I know. Just an opinon, don't kill me for it but the threads on these boards certainly point to that direction.

Well get back to us in 10-15 years and let us know if you've changed your mind on things.....

 

[deco]

Well get back to us in 10-15 years and let us know if you've changed your mind on things.....

how do I set up a reminder on ef?

 

[jenscats5]

how do I set up a reminder on ef?

That I don't know.....write it in your calendar!

 

[biteme]

I'm saying that because the older you get harder it gets obviously. I dont want to meet a 40 year old beat up puntang woman some day and know that deep inside she went through some real bullshit. How am I supposed to marry someone who is an emotional wreck and probobly hates men. All the bullshit that you do have in common you're not going to enjoy it as much as you would when you were growing up as childs. How am I supposed to open up to someone who has so much hidden history behind her? I know the she won't do that either. It's going to be half ass love, not even. Anyway, to summerize, I believe that finding a connection/chemistry between the two is lot easier in your younger years. As far as sex goes, well as long as your both willing you can outfuck anyone else out there.

Yes you are right. I first fell in love at 18, and then again at 24. And then again at 39, but it didn't last long. Gets much harder the older you get. That person has a huge history as you said, and you have no idea who they are and where they've been.

 

[nycgirl]

I guess it's different for everyone but it seems even on this board, you got all these men and women complaining about relationships who are in their 30s. I dont know, everyone to each of his own. It's just it seems like every other thread that I see on here it's always men are pigs, women are sluts, when did you last get laid, have you ever dumped someone for no reason. It makes it look like these people are going through a struggle.
Ive seen some succesful marriages that have been acomplished in their later stages however the most succesfulls I've seen are the american dream, hs sweatheart meatheart type of shit. Then again, i'm in my early 20s and I havent seen the whole world even though it's plenty more then anyone else I know. Just an opinon, don't kill me for it but the threads on these boards certainly point to that direction.

Do not use the threads on this board, created by a certain few (that obviously have some issues with themselves and the opposite sex), form your opinion on relationships.

 

[biteme]

The divorce rate for 2nd and 3rd marriages is much higher. Most people marry in their 20's. Why someone would marry a person that has been divorced 3 or 4 times is beyond me.

 

[deco]

Do not use the threads on this board, created by a certain few (that obviously have some issues with themselves and the opposite sex), form your opinion on relationships.

That's what I've been doing, and I respect others opinions however I dont want to make the mistakes that others made I'd rather learn off them. People say you learn on mistakes, I say you got plenty of time in your life to make mistakes, but when you have a chance learn of others, why should I repeat stupidity?

 

[deco]

The divorce rate for 2nd and 3rd marriages is much higher. Most people marry in their 20's. Why someone would marry a person that has been divorced 3 or 4 times is beyond me.

These words came out of my cousins mouth when he got married 3 years ago at the age of 36. He had lots of influence on me. For him, the only emotional part left in the marriage is his Son that was born recently. I don't want to end up like him.

 

[biteme]

That's what I've been doing, and I respect others opinions however I dont want to make the mistakes that others made I'd rather learn off them. People say you learn on mistakes, I say you got plenty of time in your life to make mistakes, but when you have a chance learn of others, why should I repeat stupidity?

Dont marry a really good looking woman. It will be hell to keep her. Get an average looking one.