I need some help bro's, my wife had cheated on me.

[ariolanine]

Bikinimom, you're a typical female. Seriously, If she felt emotionally abandoned, then WHY THE FUCK DIDN'T SHE SAY SOMETHING OR FUCKIN LEAVE HIM???

Word...If she was emotionally abandoned why didn't she make a friend. Why did she bang a dude she works with. She got bored with Spectre and saw an opportunity to pretend she was single. She is a total slut whore. Think about this. She goes out with this guy, gets a little tipsy, goes back to his place, gets fucked in every hole, then takes it ass to mouth and finishes him off. After this she goes home and kisses her children goodnight!! Think about that!! Now explain to me how keeping this subhuman around to raise children is a good idea. This is not a simple fuck up. If you cheat on your spouse while your children live with you, YOU HAVE CHEATED ON AND ABANDONED YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY. This ho gotta go.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Gentlemen please pull your test-swollen heads out of your assholes and stop encouraging someone to FUCK WITH HIS KIDS BECAUSE HIS WIFE WAS TOO SELFISH TO PUT HER CHILDREN BEFORE HER OWN HURT.

THERE ARE INNOCENT CHILDREN HERE, YOU APES! JUST BECAUSE SHE WAS A FUCKING BRAINDEAD SELFISH IMBECILE DOESN'T MEAN THAT THIS MAN'S CHILDREN WILL SUFFER ANY LESS IF HE BEHAVES THE SAME IN KIND!

Spectre - I know how badly you hurt. But please, try and think about how your treatment of your wife (REGARDLESS OF WHAT SHE DESERVES) will affect the way that your children will view YOU.

Oh yes, Mr Pharm Amp - I think perhaps THIS was the proper way you MEANT to quote me.



Any of you gentlemen have any more questions?

 

[TC2]

BM, You seem like a level headed person(even for a female

Children are involved yes, and he shouldn't do anything stupid.

My gripe with women is that they lay blame on the man a lot.

I'm emotionally abandoned= excuse to cheat
You didn't notice my new hair do= excuse to cheat

What's spectre to do?? Stay with a women that will most likely cheat again. Let his children grow up knowing this fact(and they will eventually).

I know you don't condone this type of behavior.

Spectre is still a person and not just "daddy"

 

[manny78]

Bitches Ain't Shit But Hoes And Tricks

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Bmom has some solid words.

Affairs are an insidious thing and very complicated. Coupled with the fact that it nearly impossible to separate emotion from sex -- even if you *think* you can going in.

Here's the cold, hard truth -- she's hardly a whore/slut as many of you judge her to be. She probably loved the other guy. That's right, loved. It started as a friendship and progressed from there. He was meeting needs that she needed met. And having her needs met felt good, so the relationship continued.

It's not his fault by any means. Cheating is a symptom of a larger problem though.

That said, she loved her husband more. And her husband was ultimately able to meet more of her needs than the other guy. She loved him enough to end the affair on her own, which is a very difficult thing to do (it's like breaking off a normal love relationship), and to be straight honest when he asked her about it. Honesty is not the hallmark of a whore. Neither is being a decent mother.

The last 2 years have been great he said. That's what's real. You guys think he should ruin his life, his wife's life and his kid's life over some shit that happened 2 years ago that's been (mostly) dealt with?

Here's some more cold, hard truth -- he divorces her, he'll probably lose his kids. That's right, she cheats, wrecks his world AND he loses his kids. It doesn't matter that she cheated to the courts. Unless he can prove incompetency as a mother (which is also pretty damaging to the kids if it's false), the kids are hers and he becomes an every-other-weekend daddy. Unless you have your own kids, you have no fucking clue what this means to a dedicated father. So don't speak.

And before you go on about it's better for the kids to live with one or the other as long as the parents are happy, go to divorcebusters and read the studies they cite that show that unless there is physical violence in a relationship, the kids are still better off -- even if the parents don't like eachother. But that's not even the case here -- the last 2 years have been great, he loves her, she loves him. She fucked up. Bigtime. She was selfish, manipulative, out-of-her-mind ... But you know what? 99% of all people would fuck up to under just the right set of circumstances.

 

[TC2]

"The last 2 years have been great he said. That's what's real"

they've been great because she probably felt guilty and did her best to "fix" what she did.

Again someone says he's going to be the one who will ruin his marriage. She is the one who ruined it.

It's bullshit, if you have a problem or feel that something is missing or lacking from your marriage you talk about it, you try to work together to fix what's wrong.

You don't pretend that everything is fine and for 6 months have an affair.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bmom has some solid words.

Affairs are an insidious thing and very complicated. Coupled with the fact that it nearly impossible to separate emotion from sex -- even if you *think* you can going in.

Here's the cold, hard truth -- she's hardly a whore/slut as many of you judge her to be. She probably loved the other guy. That's right, loved. It started as a friendship and progressed from there. He was meeting needs that she needed met. And having her needs met felt good, so the relationship continued.

It's not his fault by any means. Cheating is a symptom of a larger problem though.

That said, she loved her husband more. And her husband was ultimately able to meet more of her needs than the other guy. She loved him enough to end the affair on her own, which is a very difficult thing to do (it's like breaking off a normal love relationship), and to be straight honest when he asked her about it. Honesty is not the hallmark of a whore. Neither is being a decent mother.

The last 2 years have been great he said. That's what's real. You guys think he should ruin his life, his wife's life and his kid's life over some shit that happened 2 years ago that's been (mostly) dealt with?

Here's some more cold, hard truth -- he divorces her, he'll probably lose his kids. That's right, she cheats, wrecks his world AND he loses his kids. It doesn't matter that she cheated to the courts. Unless he can prove incompetency as a mother (which is also pretty damaging to the kids if it's false), the kids are hers and he becomes an every-other-weekend daddy. Unless you have your own kids, you have no fucking clue what this means to a dedicated father. So don't speak.

And before you go on about it's better for the kids to live with one or the other as long as the parents are happy, go to divorcebusters and read the studies they cite that show that unless there is physical violence in a relationship, the kids are still better off -- even if the parents don't like eachother. But that's not even the case here -- the last 2 years have been great, he loves her, she loves him. She fucked up. Bigtime. She was selfish, manipulative, out-of-her-mind ... But you know what? 99% of all people would fuck up to under just the right set of circumstances.

Thank you for being the voice of reason in this too often test-driven board of "FUCK THAT WHORE" sentiments.

Now THE FLIP SIDE OF FUCKED UP:

When THE GUY pisses it all away with violence - SHE SHARES THE KIDS WITH HIM AND MIGHT END UP HAVING TO GIVE THEM UP BECAUSE HE IS TOO FUCKED UP TO EVEN TRY TO SEE HIS OWN OBSESSION.

Whenever ANY PARENT deprives the other of their children THEY FUCK THEIR KIDS UP - PERIOD.

Children are not little puppies. They are not possessions. They don't BELONG to the mother OR the father.

They are precious gifts that are "ours" for only a moment in time, sent here to give us and teach us everything that we NEVER EVEN THOUGHT WE DIDN'T KNOW!

SO DON'T FUCK WITH THAT IF YOU ARE FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE THEM IN YOUR LIFE.

I would rather yield my children and know that they are living well-cared for and somewhat happily WITHOUT ME than to have "MY HALF" of a dead child.

Think about that the next time any of you feels the need to down someone's ex when there are children involved.

 

[TC2]

"Is it in YET?!" - every woman on at least ONE occasion."

WTF??

What kind of needle dicks have you been around???

 

[Big Mac Attack]

sorry to hear your problems..


If it were me I would let it go, for what ever reason cheating dosent really bother me. I know that that isnt normal, its verrrrrry unusal but different strokes.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Here's some more cold, hard truth -- ...Unless he can prove incompetency as a mother (which is also pretty damaging to the kids if it's false)

I wish that I could rent out a fucking billboard and put this in big fat bold letters to every ASSHOLE (male or female) that would even THINK to do this to their children.

Then I would like to line up every soul-less attorney in the US that would EVEN THINK to place this idea into a client's head to increase their profits - ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT HAVE TO WORK EXTRA TO PAY THEIR CHILD-CARE PROVIDERS TO RAISE THEIR CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY ARE PERSONALLY TOO BUSY DIGGING DEEP INTO THEIR CLIENT'S POCKEST TO READ THEIR CHILDREN BOOKS OR HELP THEM WITH THEIR HOMEWORK.... wrap my fingers around their throats and constrict slowly until their fucking eyeballs popped and they began to foam at the mouth. Of course, I would let go before they ceased to live because though I can honestly say that I have never TRULY hated another human being, even if that were the case, I recognize that it isn't up to me to take another's life.

These are only feelings... yes, I would fantasize about doing it, but then again I also fantasize about fucking Conan the Barbarian.... AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN.

Then again, I think you all get the gyst of what I am saying.

This is not about ME or any other ADULT....


IT IS ABOUT INNOCENT CHILDREN BEING DRAGGED THROUGH HELL IN PART BECAUSE OF STUPIDITY AND HATE AND IN PART BECAUSE OF GREED.