I need some help bro's, my wife had cheated on me.

[KAYNE]

yeah, there's no doubt about that one. ever notice if a woman cheats on her husband it happened because he wasn't meeting her needs or he was negelecting her but if a man cheats on a woman it's because he's the lowest form of scum that has ever existed.

MY POINT EXACTLY!!!



KAYNE

 

[fistfullofsteel]

You were out breaking your balls and working so she decided to go out and play because she felt lonely and depressed. GET RID OF HER!! She was selfish, and only thought about herself. Now it's your turn to think about what's right for you and your children. Toss her and one day your children will understand.

 

[Sinistar]

sugar and spice and everything nice.

ill tell you though, most of the stone cold ppl ive ever met were women. theres something wrong woith most of them. guys are pretty pure, we get pissed and scream, or whip some ass, but when your only method of recourse is to fuck with someones head like women, i think it warps you in ways i cant understand.

 

[40butpumpin]

This thread is particularly meaningful to me because I am in a world of fucking hurt right now men. It's nice to see the responses you guys are giving.

 

[JohnyJuice]

Kayne and 40butpimpin, right on. Hypicritical fucking bitches. Said thing is, pussy ass niggers fall for that shit.

 

[biteme]

sugar and spice and everything nice.

ill tell you though, most of the stone cold ppl ive ever met were women.

Gospel

 

[SupraHero]

I didn't read all the responses only the first two pages. However my advice would be get your finances in order. If you have to withdraw all your cash put it under someone elses name "of course you trust this person with your life". As long as your assets are in someone elses name they will have a harder time getting ahold of them. Then when your piece of shit cheating wife is broke as fuck you can smile to yourself knowing you won in the end. Don't let her take you for 1/2 only a sucker would do such a thing. You are not at fault here she shouldn't get a fucking dime.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Sinistar -
Nobody "just suddenly cheats" because they have a mental lapse. IT HAPPENS BECAUSE SOME NEEDS THEY HAVE ARE NOT BEING MET IN THIER RELATIONSHIP. That does not make it right. I'm only stating a fact.

Actually, some people just like to fuck and it has nothing to do with whether or not their needs are being met in their relationship.
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Could anyone actually marry and have a long term relationship with such a person? If one can then they must bear at least 1/2 the responsibility for what happened ALSO.

My husband was jealous and controlling. I KNEW IT AND I MARRIED HIM ANYWAY - HENCE, I MUST BEAR AT LEAST MY HALF THE ROLE IN THE DEMISE OF MY MARRIAGE. HE MUST BEAR HIS 1/2 BECAUSE WHEN I WOULD NO LONGER TOLERATE IT, HE REFUSED TO CHANGE.

Come on. This is not his girlfriend or fiance. This is a wife and mother of his children.

When either the woman OR the man strays outside the confines of such a relationship were BOTH have a lot that is invested (ie A LIFE TOGETHER THAT INVOLVES INNOCENTS) it is a little more complicated then "she/he likes to fuck" and you know it.

 

[Mandinka2]

atlantabiolab .... that is one of THE BEST posts on here!!!! HANDS DOWN
Does she deserve to be in the dumpster? Maybe yes, maybe no. That isn't for me to decide. As Jetisin and others pointed out - it takes two, and you seem to be an extremely honest and fair man.

I am speaking from experience. No matter what YOU think, if you REALLY want to make your wife suffer financially, no matter how lovingly you treat the children while they are in your company THE CHILDREN WILL GROW TO HATE AND RESENT YOU FOR MAKING THINGS HARD ON HER... BECAUSE IT MAKES THINGS HARD ON THEM.

I am not saying that she should be allowed to enjoy the same financial freedom that she did when she was "holding her end" of your marriage up. But what I AM saying is that the bigger prick you are to her - the more the children will grow to hate you because YOU ARE BEING A PRICK TO THEIR ONE AND ONLY MOTHER. She may have been a miserable failure as a wife to you, but by your own admission SHE IS AN EXCELLENT MOTHER.

I have bent over backwards to insure that my children are with their father. For me, my divorce was NEVER about money OR the children, but about respect and wanting to be treated the way that I treated my spouse. My girls know this. They have NEVER had to choose because of me

I have to say that is one of the most manipulative and foul posts I have ever read on this board. This guy is undoubtedly extremely hurt and you are telling him about why he shouldn't "mistreat" his wife. You are using what his kids would think of him if he "mistreated" her , by for example withdrawing his financial support , calling him a "prick" for doing so. If the children are mature and grow one day to believe in love then they will respect their fathers decision unless they are manipulated by their mother. They will also know that the happiness of their Dad is also worth something and will wish him to find someone who will return his love and fidelity with the same. You clearly have told your kids many times of the weaknesses of their father which is ok , but out of respect for their mother this man has not which is very honourable but at some stage I believe that they should know the truth as to why their Dad left. I can only echo the many empirical statements here that one who cheats once will do so again and also that I also found out this the hard way... Good luck Bro , and sorry for your trouble.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

sugar and spice and everything nice.

ill tell you though, most of the stone cold ppl ive ever met were women. theres something wrong woith most of them. guys are pretty pure, we get pissed and scream, or whip some ass, but when your only method of recourse is to fuck with someones head like women, i think it warps you in ways i cant understand.

i pretty much agree with what you said, but what's with the swaztika and the hitler quote?