I Just Had A FUCKING Revelation!

[bighead]

This is exactly what my ex-wife said to me. She also said that she thrived off of adrenaline rushes. In the first 6 0r 7 years of our marriage I guess I was more of a challenge to her because I would argue with her and get mad sometimes. In the last 2 years of our marriage, I began to mellow and I never wanted to argue. If there was something that we didn't agree upon, I would say, "You see it your way and I see it mine and I doubt we will change each other's minds" and I would leave it at that. I quit yelling when I became angry, getting all excited over small stuff. Well damn, you would think all that's a good thing. But to her I was becoming boring, no longer a challenge. So she had to have an affair with a dumbass guy 10 years younger than me to add some spice and drama into her life. I just became too mellow for her. Now she is with a school principal who everyone thinks is an outstanding member of the community, but I know the truth. He is a wife beater and a drunk among other things. You never really know what people are like behind closed doors.

a classic example of just how fucked up women can be........i was never married but had a similar attitude of let's agree to disagree when we fought,eventually i became boring aswell.

 

[Frackal]

If I have to be a jerk to make her like me...I'll be a lonely old man. It just AINT me....

B True

Think of JERK as standing for JUST EXPECTING REPSECT KID

Cheesy, but good.

 

[buddy28]

And this, my friend, is why you've been lucky with women your entire life......karma for you

gracious.

 

[Citruscide]

Think of JERK as standing for JUST EXPECTING REPSECT KID

Cheesy, but good.

JUST DEMANDING RESPECT....

C

 

[buddy28]

K. ill take the plunge.

When a person denies their genuine inclinations on how to treat others....based on who they are....in favor of adopting an artificial behavior to achieve a predefined goal, practicing the behavior becomes emotionally self denying and dishonest, and, eventually, rubs off on the individual because they chose not to respect themselves by trusting their initial inclinations on how to treat others.


It will rub off on u. How u deal with urself, and how u deal with others. It will take the pleasure out of the gentle and fragile emotions in life, because ull be denying who are u.

 

[the nature boy]

frack.... what are you talking about.... if you want give me a PM.

 

[buddy28]

nb,

cudos on the new avatar. The monkeys from the simpsons always bring a smile to my face.

 

[buddy28]

bewildered amazement comes to mind.

hhaha.

 

[BigRedCat]

Its not that women like jerks, they like CONFIDENCE. Bottom line. If a guy has enough confidence to feel good about himself that rubs off on women and it makes them feel good to be around you. Sometimes guys overdo it and it looks like they are jerks. Which they usually are. Allot of women really could care less how much money you make it really comes down to how you feel about yourself and how you express that to them. Look at B-Fold, he is a geniune nice guy and he hasn't gotten fucked over like many of us have. Reason: you have to choose your mate wisely. I bet he wasn't chasing around sleezy type chicks either. Relationships are allot of work and guys forget that sometimes. If you dont provide certain feelings for your mate they will look elsewhere. Guys that have been screwed over a few times tend to gravitate to girls that are somewhat scandalous for some reason. I myself look back at some of the girls who have done me wrong and I think well what did I expect from a girl that gives it up after knowing her for 15 minutes. Not all girls want a jerk you just percieve it that way because you are looking through "bitch fucked me over" glasses. Be a decent person, hell even be nice. Just dont be a pushover, that is when they fuck you over. I have done it a few times myself and learned a lesson from it. Too many guys get complacent and lazy with their mates and then wonder why they cheat or whatever. Not all girls want a rich asshole, many do but find one that dosen't. On a side note C, Cali is not a very good place to find "the one"- too many people are fake and always looking around to see if someone more important is in the room. It never ends, shit what if some chick is with Ed Norton and sees Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt, who is cooler? Know what I mean, the LA area isn't reality.

You need to keep a little mystery to keep it fresh, that part I will never completely understand but that is the facts. Girls like a little spice. Girls like to think that all the girls at your work dream about doing you secretly. Makes them feel special.

By the way, Hugh Heffner is a nice guy. He is the master in my opinion. Nice guy though. Worked for him.

Anyway, stay nice B-fold. Someone has too with all these assholes in the world today. What did C call you? Kentucky hill-giant or something? That is funny as shit C! haha. I imagine the dating scene is a bit differant where C is but just the same, you can still be a decent nice guy and get laid.

 

[Frackal]

LOL big red there are things you simply do not know