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i have the houseguest from hell.

stilleto said:
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progress so far. obviously, its not done. Its 4' x 4' x 2'
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Awesome work your husband did on that.

You need to buy him a router though!
 
Pffffffffffffffffff

That's why I just say NO.

I mean what's worse....

Being a bitch upfront or saying yes and then bitching every moment after.

Not worth the grief.

Yah and that's why I'm a Yankee.

Bite my ass.


























xoxo

oney grl
 
velvett said:
Pffffffffffffffffff

That's why I just say NO.

I mean what's worse....

Being a bitch upfront or saying yes and then bitching every moment after.

Not worth the grief.

Yah and that's why I'm a Yankee.

Bite my ass.


























xoxo

oney grl
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i agree but then again im biased being a yankee myself. i guess we are just more upfront and dont like to be taken advantage of.
 
redguru said:
Was he passed out or something? Isn't it a subQ injection?
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Now why would I induce diarrhea in someone passed out? actually if he were passed out, my problems would have been solved.

I added the solution to his wine.
 
velvett said:
Pffffffffffffffffff

That's why I just say NO.

I mean what's worse....

Being a bitch upfront or saying yes and then bitching every moment after.

Not worth the grief.

Yah and that's why I'm a Yankee.

Bite my ass.

xoxo

oney grl
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:)
i said yes because i didn't think she'd be here this long.
she was in a rotten mood last night- so was i. I THINK her bad mood was because she FINALLY called an apartment place and inquired about what she wanted. She gave them her list of requirements, which is quite long considering she works in a store (like linens n things, but different)...and found out what she wants is $2000 a month.

welcome to reality.
 
stilleto said:
:)
i said yes because i didn't think she'd be here this long.
she was in a rotten mood last night- so was i. I THINK her bad mood was because she FINALLY called an apartment place and inquired about what she wanted. She gave them her list of requirements, which is quite long considering she works in a store (like linens n things, but different)...and found out what she wants is $2000 a month.

welcome to reality.
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Nothing like trying to live beyond your means. That's why she likes staying at your place, you have a comfortable living and she wants to leech off that.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Awesome work your husband did on that.

You need to buy him a router though!
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*I* did that. 100% me. bought the wood, carried it in, cut it, built it. used MY tools.

its not done. and yes, i want a router.
 
stilleto said:
*I* did that. 100% me. bought the wood, carried it in, cut it, built it. used MY tools.

its not done. and yes, i want a router.
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lol, I knew that would irk you. :lmao:
 
stilleto said:
*I* did that. 100% me. bought the wood, carried it in, cut it, built it. used MY tools.

its not done. and yes, i want a router.
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cisco?

the have some deals going for the SME
 
redguru said:
Nothing like trying to live beyond your means. That's why she likes staying at your place, you have a comfortable living and she wants to leech off that.
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this way the money she makes is all spendable because she isnt paying rent or utilities. my sister in law and her husband stayed with her parents for 2 years rent and utility bill free. during that time my sister in law, wife, and brother in law got $40,000 each from the social security department for money they were supposed to get when growing up because their mother was on disability. anyway she also won a lawsuite for another $15,000 for a car accisdent she was in a few years prior. when her parents confronted her about getting their own place she said they couldnt because they had no money. they blew it all and nothing to show for it. so they told her that her and her husband were to start paying for rent, food, and utilities at $500 a month. now $300 a month was to go to a savings account for them so they could eventually have money to move out and get their own place. they agreed but when it came time to pay the first payment my sister in laws husband blew up and refused to be treated like a child. so after numerous fights my in laws had to formally evict their own daughter and son in law. they filed papers and everything. sad but true


what im trying to say for you stilleto is the longer you let this person stay the harder it will be for them to leave. then once they establish residency in your home and get mail delivered they will consider your place her "place of residence." thats a whole new situation right there.
 
bigmann245 said:
this way the money she makes is all spendable because she isnt paying rent or utilities. my sister in law and her husband stayed with her parents for 2 years rent and utility bill free. during that time my sister in law, wife, and brother in law got $40,000 each from the social security department for money they were supposed to get when growing up because their mother was on disability. anyway she also won a lawsuite for another $15,000 for a car accisdent she was in a few years prior. when her parents confronted her about getting their own place she said they couldnt because they had no money. they blew it all and nothing to show for it. so they told her that her and her husband were to start paying for rent, food, and utilities at $500 a month. now $300 a month was to go to a savings account for them so they could eventually have money to move out and get their own place. they agreed but when it came time to pay the first payment my sister in laws husband blew up and refused to be treated like a child. so after numerous fights my in laws had to formally evict their own daughter and son in law. they filed papers and everything. sad but true
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wow, some people have no respect, decency, or sense.
 
So, she was flooded out? Are they ever going to fix her place? How klong does that freaking take? Was it her house or maybe she was renting there as well. If so, disregard.



Then hit her in the head with a shovel.
 
gonelifting said:
So, she was flooded out? Are they ever going to fix her place? How klong does that freaking take? Was it her house or maybe she was renting there as well. If so, disregard.



Then hit her in the head with a shovel.
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she was renting, and get this... she COULD move back in. its all fixed up. but she doesn't want to, and went and got her deposit back.

tomorrow is 3 weeks that she's been with me and still has not even gone to see ONE apartment.
i'm getting more and more annoyed every day.


this past saturday, she spent the day shopping for furniture. NOT looking for an apartment, but shopping for furniture.
 
stilleto said:
this past saturday, she spent the day shopping for furniture. NOT looking for an apartment, but shopping for furniture.
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Until I read this, I thought it was pretty bad. At least there's light at the end of the tunnel now. She is getting furniture.




I hope you have enough room in your garage for all of it. Tell her to buy small couches.
 
gonelifting said:
Until I read this, I thought it was pretty bad. At least there's light at the end of the tunnel now. She is getting furniture.




I hope you have enough room in your garage for all of it. Tell her to buy small couches.
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NO, i do not have room in my garage,i already pay for a storage unit for her, which is going to end shortly.

i just spotted the last straw.

i was in my kitchen, and on my fridge is a page of superhero stamps. SUPERHERO.

and guess what? she's been using them to pay bills. WTF????
MY stamps? without asking? and my SUPERHERO stamps? what am I, her fucking mother??
as it is, she's made it obvious that she has no intention of paying for takeout or food when we go out, ever, and now she's using my SUPERHERO STAMPS???

i'm actually feeling like i want to yell.
 
stilleto said:
NO, i do not have room in my garage,i already pay for a storage unit for her, which is going to end shortly.

i just spotted the last straw.

i was in my kitchen, and on my fridge is a page of superhero stamps. SUPERHERO.

and guess what? she's been using them to pay bills. WTF????
MY stamps? without asking? and my SUPERHERO stamps? what am I, her fucking mother??
as it is, she's made it obvious that she has no intention of paying for takeout or food when we go out, ever, and now she's using my SUPERHERO STAMPS???

i'm actually feeling like i want to yell.
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Yell. It's ok.
 
jnevin said:
Yell. It's ok.
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its not helping. she now wants a TWO bedroom apartment, for very little per month, and it has to be a new apartment. and must have wood floors. and be on the ground floor. with a washer/dryer. and a western view (she's weird), with an eat-in kitchen. and a large bathroom.

and she wants this magic apartment to find HER.
 
stilleto said:
its not helping. she now wants a TWO bedroom apartment, for very little per month, and it has to be a new apartment. and must have wood floors. and be on the ground floor. with a washer/dryer. and a western view (she's weird), with an eat-in kitchen. and a large bathroom.

and she wants this magic apartment to find HER.
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have a relative take her in for awhile
 
gotmilk said:
have a relative take her in for awhile
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i AM the relative taking her in.

my mom just called my cell phone and said my house phone wasn't working for the past hour.


my HOUSEGUEST has been online (on her stupid fucking dialup) this whole time. which also means I can't make a damn call unless its on my cell.

i have to go take a nap so i can get up at midnight and vacuum. LOUDLY.
 
stilleto said:
She's a relative who's apartment flooded and she asked if she could stay in my guest room until she finds an apartment.

sure. of course. you're Family.

So she's moved in. my guestroom is packed with her stuff. my guest bathroom is packed with her stuff. I have a storage unit that I was going to close, but now that is filled with her stuff too (at $117 a month).

Its been almost 3 weeks and she has not looked at one apartment yet.

In the meantime, she's eating mostly her own groceries, which are packed into my cabinets and refridgerator so i have half the room i had before.

but she is using my pots and pans. my plastic containers, my olive oil, butter, milk. and not replacing them.
So i went to get some peanut butter yesterday and the jar was almost empty, with spoon-like looking scoops removed (she's probably a double dipper). That was MY peanut butter. She opened it, then ate the whole thing.

When she left for work the other day, she said, "oh, btw... i clogged the toilet. sorry."

She takes 20 minute long showers. she uses my washer and dryer (like i needed someone else using it more than me), she parks in my spot, she leaves lights on whereever she goes, doors open, half filled cups of water everywhere...

and this morning i went to get a stamp, and she's been using my stamps so i had ONE left.

wtf?
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dude.. she's family... what did you expect??
 
she has found a nice person to mooch off of. she won't leave until you force her to.

it's that simple.

set a definate day for her to be out of your house, out of your life. tell her this date and tell all of the shared relatives this date.

when she doesn't move out, stack all her stuff at the curb in hefty bags and change your door locks.

she won't leave until your force her to do so.

IT'S THAT SIMPLE.
 
rnch said:
she has found a nice person to mooch off of. she won't leave until you force her to.

it's that simple.

set a definate day for her to be out of your house, out of your life. tell her this date and tell all of the shared relatives this date.

when she doesn't move out, stack all her stuff at the curb in hefty bags and change your door locks.

she won't leave until your force her to do so.

IT'S THAT SIMPLE.
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I hate it when people put me in that situation.
 
Chica don't give yourself a coronary or take years off your life w/ the cortisol increase that I can sense ready to explode out of your body -- just tell her "this is the way it is - you need to get your shit in order and I have my own life and family to take care of. Period. I'm happy to help you but you don't appear to be taking responsibility for yourself and that is working against you , so I am doing my best to help you do what is best for you".

Frankly its a fucking respect thing. And she is quickly using up the little bit of wiggle room that "being family" allows.
 
stilleto said:
NO, i do not have room in my garage,i already pay for a storage unit for her, which is going to end shortly.

i just spotted the last straw.

i was in my kitchen, and on my fridge is a page of superhero stamps. SUPERHERO.

and guess what? she's been using them to pay bills. WTF????
MY stamps? without asking? and my SUPERHERO stamps? what am I, her fucking mother??
as it is, she's made it obvious that she has no intention of paying for takeout or food when we go out, ever, and now she's using my SUPERHERO STAMPS???

i'm actually feeling like i want to yell.
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AAAHaaaaa, Now we see who has a reason (a valid one I give you that) to be cranky...Hmmmmm

If I rent her one of my apartments will you give me my K back :evil:
 
avidinternet said:
Send her over I've got 2 June 1st.

Does she have a job at least?
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yes, in a bed, bath, and beyond type of store, plus she's a 'life coach', but the worst one you can imagine since she's never had a boyfriend and probably makes $15 an hour at her 'job'.

but she only wants a 2 bedroom apartment in one of two very exclusive towns in this area. and she only wants to pay $1000 a month (impossible).
 
stilleto said:
yes, in a bed, bath, and beyond type of store, plus she's a 'life coach', but the worst one you can imagine since she's never had a boyfriend and probably makes $15 an hour at her 'job'.

but she only wants a 2 bedroom apartment in one of two very exclusive towns in this area. and she only wants to pay $1000 a month (impossible).
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It seems to me that someone needs a reality check. How was her apt before? Was it as nice as what she is currently looking (or should I say not looking) for? How bout price?
 
feisty11975 said:
It seems to me that someone needs a reality check. How was her apt before? Was it as nice as what she is currently looking (or should I say not looking) for? How bout price?
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she lived in a basement apt. in someone's house for the past 7 years. so her rent was lower than what it should have been ($850 a month) and it was TINY and dark.
now she only wants to pay 150 more per month, but wants a 2 bedroom in a nicer area and will only take a ground floor and it must be a NEW apartment with a lot of windows and she said she won't settle and that anything is possible. in a few days i'm going to tell her that i need the guestroom back at the end of june. i think that's MORE than fair.
 
stilleto said:
she lived in a basement apt. in someone's house for the past 7 years. so her rent was lower than what it should have been ($850 a month) and it was TINY and dark.
now she only wants to pay 150 more per month, but wants a 2 bedroom in a nicer area and will only take a ground floor and it must be a NEW apartment with a lot of windows and she said she won't settle and that anything is possible. in a few days i'm going to tell her that i need the guestroom back at the end of june. i think that's MORE than fair.
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LOL

You are too nice.

I admit that I am a pushover too, but there is NO WAY I would put up with that sort of nonsense.

How bout you put fishfood in her sheets and make just one of each pair of shoes *disappear* and blame it on the gremlins? (What my kids did to the babysitters that my ex made them have.)
 
stilleto said:
she lived in a basement apt. in someone's house for the past 7 years. so her rent was lower than what it should have been ($850 a month) and it was TINY and dark.
now she only wants to pay 150 more per month, but wants a 2 bedroom in a nicer area and will only take a ground floor and it must be a NEW apartment with a lot of windows and she said she won't settle and that anything is possible. in a few days i'm going to tell her that i need the guestroom back at the end of june. i think that's MORE than fair.
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You and me...same fuggin boat! lol I feel your pain. I've been so bitchy lately and our houseguest noticed it. He's been sucking ass the past few days. My house has been spotless. lol
 
stilleto said:
yes, in a bed, bath, and beyond type of store, plus she's a 'life coach', but the worst one you can imagine since she's never had a boyfriend and probably makes $15 an hour at her 'job'.

but she only wants a 2 bedroom apartment in one of two very exclusive towns in this area. and she only wants to pay $1000 a month (impossible).
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This life coach needs to find herself a calculator. Because after taxes,fed, state, ss and medicare is taken out she will be left with around $1680.00.

A grand for an apt., $175.00 for utilities, $100.00 a week groceries, phone bill, cable,gas, insurance, car payment.

She's in the negative here in a big way.

Who signs up to have her coach them? Short bus people.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
LOL

You are too nice.

I admit that I am a pushover too, but there is NO WAY I would put up with that sort of nonsense.

How bout you put fishfood in her sheets and make just one of each pair of shoes *disappear* and blame it on the gremlins? (What my kids did to the babysitters that my ex made them have.)
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he is my husband's relative and he would do anything for me or my family, so i fell kind of bitchy not doing the same, but i'm really a quiet person at home and like my solitude and privacy... something i don't have when there's another adult in the house.
plus, i'm the one that does the cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. and the last thing i needed was another person to do that for, who is perfectly capable of finding another place to live if she got her head out of the clouds.

AND, i want my guestroom back, because i DO have a lot of other friends and family that like to spend time here.

it has put me in a bad mood at home, which i hate because this house is like my sactuary ordinarily. I'm going to let it go for the next few days, and then tell her that i am going to need my guest room in mid june, which is true.
 
stilleto said:
he is my husband's relative and he would do anything for me or my family, so i fell kind of bitchy not doing the same, but i'm really a quiet person at home and like my solitude and privacy... something i don't have when there's another adult in the house.
plus, i'm the one that does the cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. and the last thing i needed was another person to do that for, who is perfectly capable of finding another place to live if she got her head out of the clouds.

AND, i want my guestroom back, because i DO have a lot of other friends and family that like to spend time here.

it has put me in a bad mood at home, which i hate because this house is like my sactuary ordinarily. I'm going to let it go for the next few days, and then tell her that i am going to need my guest room in mid june, which is true.
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I understand the reality of looking for appartments. If you wnat to retain any sort of relationship with this person, your ex, your spouse, or your kids, I'd suggest having a serious attitude talk with her before the week is out. I've been there. This situation affects every other relationship you have.
 
stilleto said:
he is my husband's relative and he would do anything for me or my family, so i fell kind of bitchy not doing the same, but i'm really a quiet person at home and like my solitude and privacy... something i don't have when there's another adult in the house.
plus, i'm the one that does the cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. and the last thing i needed was another person to do that for, who is perfectly capable of finding another place to live if she got her head out of the clouds.

AND, i want my guestroom back, because i DO have a lot of other friends and family that like to spend time here.

it has put me in a bad mood at home, which i hate because this house is like my sactuary ordinarily. I'm going to let it go for the next few days, and then tell her that i am going to need my guest room in mid june, which is true.
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Oh hell that's an easy out - withold all sexual favors to said hubby until said hubby houseguest has made a plan.
 
Sassy69 said:
Oh hell that's an easy out - withold all sexual favors to said hubby until said hubby houseguest has made a plan.
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so i'm punished two-fold???


i had a talk with houseguest. a nice one. i just said i wasn't trying to get her out, but i needed to make plans for the summer, and did she have any idea when she'd be leaving so i could plan when to invite others.

she said june 1st is her plan. so that's fine. i'm going to tell her that i have other people coming june 2nd, so she can't extend it. :)
 
stilleto said:
so i'm punished two-fold???


i had a talk with houseguest. a nice one. i just said i wasn't trying to get her out, but i needed to make plans for the summer, and did she have any idea when she'd be leaving so i could plan when to invite others.

she said june 1st is her plan. so that's fine. i'm going to tell her that i have other people coming june 2nd, so she can't extend it. :)
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LOL @ June 2nd.... the next day.
 
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