I have no reason to live....I am contemplating my departure...

[Nobledude]

yep, send her packing.

You have two choices here bro.......take the kid and send her packing, or give her the kid and go off on your own, cause it seems like you got some inner stuff to work out that's totally irrelevant to your daughter or fiancee. You seem intent on keeping the kid.......so you have to send the woman away. Enact proceedings to take sole custody.......and do it NOW. Don't fuckin wait while she keeps sending "I love you's" to some married tool in Romania. You have plenty of evidence of what she's been doing......so you can show that in court. I'm not saying to cut her off from her child........but this limbo shit is unbeleivable. It's the worst possible situation that I can think of. You're just hanging around waiting for her to jet. You have to get the fuck away from her at all costs. If that house is yours, she's gone. I'm sorry, that may sound cruel, but so be it.

How old is your daughter?

She is a legal resident in US. She can go anywhere she wants to..
She is a great mom....baby needs her!

I am not an asshole ....

Today she called me twice from work....didnt answer though...she wanted to see how I was..

On a side note, I lost 8 lb in the last two weeks..couldnt eat and sleep properly..

My daughter is 19 months old...

 

[redsamurai]

So she's pretty close to you being able to take care of her without the mother. Maybe another few months. It's not being an asshole dude......it's an intolerable situation......completely. She's not going to fall back in love with you.......so you two need to split. If there was no child involved "I hope" you would have kicked her the fuck out by now. As it is, you have to make this step in the next few months. If you think your child is better off with her, than so be it......you have to be a man and make that call. It might be painful, but you have to do what's best for your daughter. If you think the mother might up and take your daughter to "romania".....of all places.......than you might want to think about the sole custody bit. But you have to start making preperations for each eventuality. Go talk to a lawyer and see what your rights are AND what the mother's rights are. Start doing something.

And get your ass a jobby job. And kind of job, it doesn't matter. You don't even have to tell her what it is.......just get OUT OF THAT FUCKING HOUSE!!

It's better to flip burgers than to be stuck in front of your computer going over this bullshit. This shit can absolutely kill you, eat you away from the inside...........get out!!

She is a legal resident in US. She can go anywhere she wants to..
She is a great mom....baby needs her!

I am not an asshole ....

Today she called me twice from work....didnt answer though...she wanted to see how I was..

On a side note, I lost 8 lb in the last two weeks..couldnt eat and sleep properly..

My daughter is 19 months old...

 

[txbondsman]

She is a legal resident in US. She can go anywhere she wants to..
She is a great mom....baby needs her!

I am not an asshole ....

Today she called me twice from work....didnt answer though...she wanted to see how I was..

On a side note, I lost 8 lb in the last two weeks..couldnt eat and sleep properly..

My daughter is 19 months old...

how YOU feeling today?

 

[Nobledude]

how YOU feeling today?

still feeling shitty...took my daughter to the park today...got my COBRA paperwork signed up and kept looking for a job.

Also called the priest to make an appt. for a confession..... the psychologist too.


I am trying to stay away from my fiancee and stop drooling over her ass...

 

[blueta2]

still feeling shitty...took my daughter to the park today...got my COBRA paperwork signed up and kept looking for a job.

Also called the priest to make an appt. for a confession..... the psychologist too.


I am trying to stay away from my fiancee and stop drooling over her ass...

good for you. I'm impressed. It takes a strong person to admit they need help
You're going to make it my friend

 

[txbondsman]

still feeling shitty...took my daughter to the park today...got my COBRA paperwork signed up and kept looking for a job.

Also called the priest to make an appt. for a confession..... the psychologist too.


I am trying to stay away from my fiancee and stop drooling over her ass...

HELL F'in yeah!! Keep on keepin on! good for you! do what you gotta do bro.... one day at a time. It'll soon be water under the bridge, dirty filthy stinky water, but it's under the bridge nevertheless...

 

[Bikini Mod]

HELL F'in yeah!! Keep on keepin on! good for you! do what you gotta do bro.... one day at a time. It'll soon be water under the bridge, dirty filthy stinky water, but it's under the bridge nevertheless...

^^ What he said.

I told you to let your fiancee go and focus on YOU and YOUR DAUGHTER.

Do whatever it takes to accomplish that. I promise you that each day will get better.

 

[wootoom]

MUSIC!!!!!!!!!!Techno/Trance....

 

[Nobledude]

MUSIC!!!!!!!!!!Techno/Trance....

I dotn have this kinda music....never been into techno before..

 

[gotmilk]

what kind of work were you doing before?