I have a question for all the gay men

[john937]

then this dude sat down right next to me. like waaaay too close and asked how I was doing.

Ahh Hah! I knew you were a keeper. (see my note about who we don't recruit).
With your wit, you could have been the Belle of the Ball.

 

[Puc]

ummm.... i was being facetious john.

there have been a myriad of other times on here that i have ridiculed dballer and others for that outlook on homosexuality. it was parody...

 

[FreeballinDC]

I sat at the bar with my friend, who had a shaved head as well at the time, and we ordered our beers. I was sort of looking around trying to figure out what wasn't quite right, then this dude sat down right next to me. like waaaay too close and asked how I was doing.
Then it all clicked and I just said "fine thanks" and got up and walked out, feeling like a moron for not catching on earlier.

Did your friend walk out with you too? If not, we got him!

 

[john937]

Actually I don't really like bars much.
One on one I'm socially adept, but in bar situations I'm shy, tend to freeze, can't think of anything to say.
Yet I've changed cities several times (SF, LA, NY, back to Austin) so I've had to make friends over and over again.
I found it best to post internet ads on places like classifieds2000.com/M4M
I was amazed at the quantity and quality of responses.
About one fifth of the responses clearly didn't interest me "Hi, how serious are about wanting somebody 'fit'?".
About a fifth of the responses were "Hi, I'm a married man and never been with a guy? Would you show me the ropes?"
About a two-fifths of the responses were "Hi, I'm a married man, Can we get together at your place during the workday ?"
And the remainding fifth were gays, looking for gays, but included statements like "I'm vegan and couldn't possibly date a carnivore"
But still even with all the rejects, I was still able to meet and have sex more often than I could really handle.
I remember one day being asked by a friend to go to a movie, and having to turn him down cause I had a date with a total stranger to fuck.
That's when it hit me I was out of balance, and slowed down.
I've since settled down with a bi-sexual married guy and have been monogomous for the past 3 years.

 

[HappyScrappy]

I've totally lost my touch. in the days of high school I was getting hit on by gay guys all the time. I'm no longer pretty I guess.

and DC - no, my friend didn't stay - he saw me walk out and asked where I was going. I under my breath tried to tell him and then he got it.

we later went to a place down the hill that was several floors of different styles and I mainly hugged the bar in one corner where the bartender was HOT and wearing not much and they kept everything down low so that she had to bend over a lot - whoever thought that up was a genius.

 

[FreeballinDC]

I remember my first time in a gay bar. I thought I would see have naked men running around, having sex on, underneath, beside, and upside down on the bar.

Instead, it was like a corporate boardroom. Polo shirts and and dress shirts with ties, and guys drinking beer!

Wow, was that a disappointment

 

[HappyScrappy]

they drink beer in corporate boardrooms? I guess technically at my last company they did that on beer fridays.
there was no beer in the boardroom when they called me in to lay me off

 

[VballPlayer]

I'm a moron.

First fucking intelligent thing you said in this thread. You are a moron.

I was not going to even comment on this thread because it was so stupid I thought it had to be a joke but this morning I read an article about a gay actor who was almost beaten to death in his own neighborhood for being gay. The same group of guys beat three guys last weekend in a gay neighborhood in West Hollywood. I am fucking gay and I had not choice at being gay. I was closeted up until a few months ago because I was afraid of people like this fuck head who started this thread and the guys who go around bashing people. I was born and raised in South Boston, where I learned how to fight right along side with my straight friends, no one new I was gay. Grew up playing football and hockey, I was the goon on my team; the one they sent out to beat the shit out of people and keep them away from my goalie. I can beat the shit out of most guys and I fucking wish I had you hear in front of me so I could kick your FUCKING PUSSY ASS.

I hope you are just trying to be funny and cause a stir because if you are not you really are a moron.

 

[john937]

My first gay bar was a run-down converted house on the edge of college campus.
One of those 2 bedroom bungalow houses with all the walls knocked out, turned into a college bar.
I was all "Oh my, what if somebody talks to me...what if nobody talks to me..."
and then he appeared, this Big Ben bear of a guy towering over me, but with the friendliest grin.
We wound up in bed, it was like having sex with a fur rug, his chest was so hairy.
I learned one thing, I don't like fur, but the rest was fun. I've been into men ever since.
Afterwards I was like "Well, that's settled."

 

[john937]

Whoa, Vballplayer, calm yourself.
Happy's trying to talk about a serious topic, thru humor. It's what he's good at, he's cool.
He's one of the friendlier straights around here. Chill.