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I Got Engaged on the weekend........
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breakbones
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It's better to inform her asap, Why? because in the future it will only cause an unwanted problem. Plus, if she cant understand you're cycle use now, what makes you think she'll understand then. Plus, right now she's vonerable, so she's succeptable to be more open minded with you. Suck it up and do it.
Good luck.
Good luck.
Dont tell her anything she doesnt NEED to know YET....let her bask in this moment or she will blame you for screwing it up.I am the king of dropping subtle messages,if you are smart you will do it that way when the time is right,and when you do,play it off like it is nothing big,she doesnt need to know the details.I have been happily married for 12 years,thats how I told my wife,she's now even cool with my female nurse friend doing injects sometimes(no funny business)She tells me she doesnt like it occasionally,but thats about it.Enjoy these moments of life instead of worrying about this shit,cross that bridge when you get there.rudy76 said:
rambleon
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Congrats man
I live with my gf on second year and i've chosen not to tell her. Depends on the girl tho but what with all the media bullshit the chances are slim to none that she'd understand. I'm VERY sure my gf couldn't handle it so i just don't tell her. In the meantime we have a very open and trusting relationship with everything else. Put it this way: What are the benefit of telling her vs. the risk of things turning sour? I kinda think i'm protecting what we have by not telling my woman. U decide for urself but think it through carefully man...
hope ur marriage turns out even better than u hope it will man
I live with my gf on second year and i've chosen not to tell her. Depends on the girl tho but what with all the media bullshit the chances are slim to none that she'd understand. I'm VERY sure my gf couldn't handle it so i just don't tell her. In the meantime we have a very open and trusting relationship with everything else. Put it this way: What are the benefit of telling her vs. the risk of things turning sour? I kinda think i'm protecting what we have by not telling my woman. U decide for urself but think it through carefully man...
hope ur marriage turns out even better than u hope it will man
st8grad
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What if you tell her and she isn't cool with it. Are you willing to give up one or the other? She may be fine with you using gear. But again it is an illegal activity, so if you have kids and your marriage doesn't work out, she will use that against you instantly.
If you aren't harming your body and it isn't hurting her or putting her in jeopardy in any way, then you really don't need to tell her.
She doesn't need to know how many people you slept with or that you got fired from McDonald's stealing money from the register or whatever right?
If you dream about having sex with Jessica Simpson, do you have to tell her as soon as you wake up?
You're choosing not to reveal something that is personal. It's one thing if you get confronted and lie about it. Honestly, nothing good can come from telling her.
If you aren't harming your body and it isn't hurting her or putting her in jeopardy in any way, then you really don't need to tell her.
She doesn't need to know how many people you slept with or that you got fired from McDonald's stealing money from the register or whatever right?
If you dream about having sex with Jessica Simpson, do you have to tell her as soon as you wake up?
You're choosing not to reveal something that is personal. It's one thing if you get confronted and lie about it. Honestly, nothing good can come from telling her.
I decided what to do.
I'm going to be honest about the orals only. I'm just finishing with Winstrol at the end of my cycle and I have dbol that I will use at the beginning of my next cycle.
The second you mention "needle" lot's of people run. I know her very well - it will be cool if I do it that way and I'll be able to test the waters for if and when the day comes that I tell her or she finds out about the injects.
I'm going to be honest about the orals only. I'm just finishing with Winstrol at the end of my cycle and I have dbol that I will use at the beginning of my next cycle.
The second you mention "needle" lot's of people run. I know her very well - it will be cool if I do it that way and I'll be able to test the waters for if and when the day comes that I tell her or she finds out about the injects.
Bridger
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Congrats.
Im recently engaged and going to marry in 6 months. I have struggled with questions like this myself.
Alot of the responses i've read seem to be justifications for keeping a secret or lying about an illegal and potentially harmful practice. Dont get me wrong, i have enjoyed the benefits of a few compounds and loved them, as responsibly as possible. However, there are problems that could arise from using that could have a profound effect on your wife and/or children in the future. Medical, financial, legal, etc. Im not saying to do one thing or another, but if she isn't cool with using can you lie to her while you do it? Thats a question i have asked myself when wondering if getting married is something i can handle. I sure as hell dont have it figured out, but i have learned from past experiences where i have lied about bad habits and know that is not a road i will ever go down again.
Sorry bro, probably not the response you wanted to hear. Good Luck.
Im recently engaged and going to marry in 6 months. I have struggled with questions like this myself.
Alot of the responses i've read seem to be justifications for keeping a secret or lying about an illegal and potentially harmful practice. Dont get me wrong, i have enjoyed the benefits of a few compounds and loved them, as responsibly as possible. However, there are problems that could arise from using that could have a profound effect on your wife and/or children in the future. Medical, financial, legal, etc. Im not saying to do one thing or another, but if she isn't cool with using can you lie to her while you do it? Thats a question i have asked myself when wondering if getting married is something i can handle. I sure as hell dont have it figured out, but i have learned from past experiences where i have lied about bad habits and know that is not a road i will ever go down again.
Sorry bro, probably not the response you wanted to hear. Good Luck.
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