I can't get into dating again...

[biteme]

When I played the field for the first time in my early 30's, I was like this.
I could not believe the dude would fall asleep in my bed.
In the morning, I would always have some lie about them having to leave. They always wanted breakfast........yeah, I don't think so!

I would have been ready for another round or 3.

 

[nimbus]

They always wanted breakfast........yeah, I don't think so!

Ha! getting swiped in at the dining hall the next morning is sometimes the best part

 

[nefertiti]

the WORST is that hookup where you want her to leave your place asap so badly when ur done

then she spends the night and you're up all night, sleeping 3.56 minutes at a time, waking up constantly wishing you had the entire bed to yourself, so disgusted that this stupid bitch is still here thinking you give a shit

then finally at 7 AM she goes because that's when you told her you had to leave for work when really you don't have to leave until 9 you just wanted some time to yourself but then you get wood, fuck her in the morning (doggy style ONLY) then send her on her way

lol...I dated a guy for like seven or eight months who HATED the fact that I always went home. But, I'm a very light sleeper and an insomniac and nothing is worse than lying awake for two hours and waking up six times during the night once you DO fall asleep because they shifted their weight or something.

 

[Delinquent]

I've been asked out a few times and went on one lunch date. However, I just can't get into it. To go out on a date I would have to hire a sitter for the baby. The truth is, I just miss my baby all day while I'm at work and cant imagine giving up an evening with him to spend some time with some guy who, let's face statistics here, is about 85% likely to be a real dud. MEH. I just can't get into it.

I do have one hottie who comes to see me from Texas but he understands that Devin sleeps in my bed at night...lol.

You'll get over that pretty quick. My wife was the same way for the first 6 months or so. Now she would kill for a night alone. She has not had a night without her in the 11 months that she has been alive. I have had one.

 

[Arabian]

I've been asked out a few times and went on one lunch date. However, I just can't get into it. To go out on a date I would have to hire a sitter for the baby. The truth is, I just miss my baby all day while I'm at work and cant imagine giving up an evening with him to spend some time with some guy who, let's face statistics here, is about 85% likely to be a real dud. MEH. I just can't get into it.

I do have one hottie who comes to see me from Texas but he understands that Devin sleeps in my bed at night...lol.

Well lives over for you,so you might as well join a covent/

 

[heavy_duty]

I didnt read all the above shit but it is never a good idea to let your baby sleep with you.

 

[javaguru]

I didnt read all the above shit but it is never a good idea to let your baby sleep with you.

Beat me to it; If she keeps it up the lack of boundaries will come back to haunt her. Would the child be in her bed if she were married to baby daddy, nope. The child needs to be raised with those same boundaries.

 

[EnderJE]

To bad you couldn't keep a relationship with his father, you know, the one that stuck his penis in you, the guy who you let semenize you, the one that you put trust in as you had unprotected sex. Next time (probably won't be one) learn from your mistakes and you won't bitching about dating new men because you got burnt by the others

Umm. Did you read the post where she mentioned that her guy punched her in the face and was physical with her? I don't blame her for leaving.

 

[all the whey]

Beat me to it; If she keeps it up the lack of boundaries will come back to haunt her. Would the child be in her bed if she were married to baby daddy, nope. The child needs to be raised with those same boundaries.

I know quite a few babys that still sleep in bed with mom and dad. But, I think that's so mom has an excuse not to have sex.

But, I agree. Devin is going to be a sissy boy if she doesn't cut the cord.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I dated a girl briefly that would let the kid sleep in her bed. HE WAS 6 YEARS OLD! She said she let it go on too long and couldn't break him of the habit.