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nydj66

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At the grogery store there's a 20-year-old girl that has a huge crush on me. Her face lights up every time she sees me, she makes continuous eye contact and almost a year ago she even made an awkward pass at me (although she turned beet red and ran away before I could respond).

Now she's attractive enough but in a cute and innocent sort of way...not a hot, trashy sort of way. And I like the attention and admittedly go out of my way to end up in her checkout lane. But in my mind I just see her as a cute KID.

Today, she must have been on break and mustered up the courage to follow me outside and ask how come I've never asked her out. Now she can see the wedding ring on my hand and she's even seen me shopping with my daughters. So I explain that I am married and wanting to stay that way so really a booty call would be the only available option and she didn't really strike me as that type.

And she says that she'd be fine with just a booty call here and there. So I took her cell number.

Now I have a ton of shit running through my mind. She can't possibly realize that I'm 25 years older than her. And I don't feel right about stealing some kid's innocence; but she said out loud that she was up for a booty call so how innocent can she be?

And the thought of getting naked with a firm 20-year-old body is awfully appealing; but I don't know if I can make the mental leap to see her as "sexy" when I'm litterally old enough to be her father.

And most importantly, I live in a village of 2,500 people and she works 1 mile from my house. I probably can't expect a 20-year-old to be discreet. But now I've taken her number and she'll be pissed if I don't call...which could also get me in trouble.

I need someone with some common sense to step up and be my conscience here. Cause I seem to be trying to talk myself into it even though it's virtual marraige suicide.
 
As a married rob why are you even entertaining this shit, much less taking her number. How the hell can you get her number knowing full well the intentions?
 
Young girl? Small town? ONE MILE FROM YOUR HOME booty call?!? Burn the number, flush the ashes then dump a bucket of ice water in your crotch and wake up, you're thinking with the wrong head.

Start shopping somewhere else. Tell the wife you saw a rat in the store. Problem solved. You're just stroking your own ego by encouraging this kid.

One night of passion with a silly young woman is NOT worth risking your marriage or your self respect. You will feel guilty. More importantly, there's always a risk of getting caught, that would mean how many years of child support?

No chance you'll get caught, you say? HA! There's always a chance. I actually know a man who had cheated on his wife and was later involved in a bad car accident. In the ICU he was in and out and at times, and babbling. Guess what he babbled about? For whatever reason, while he was incoherent he confessed everything to his wife. Has no memory of it, but he does have the divorce papers to commemorate the event.
 
The thing about booty calls is that the girl kinda always ends up LIKING liking the guy. Despite saying it's just a physical thing, there will be the inevitable shift to wanting to go on a "date", to wanting more, getting frustrated with the fact that you are married, and maybe even trying to find out your wife's name, and then calling her with the news that you have been caught with your hand in the cookie jar. Just sayin'. Connect the dots to where this could lead.
Oh, and you should tell your wife that the girl gave you her number and has a crush on you. And it means nothing to you. Laugh it off- ha ha, ha ha!
 
trex74 said:
The thing about booty calls is that the girl kinda always ends up LIKING liking the guy. Despite saying it's just a physical thing, there will be the inevitable shift to wanting to go on a "date", to wanting more, getting frustrated with the fact that you are married, and maybe even trying to find out your wife's name, and then calling her with the news that you have been caught with your hand in the cookie jar. Just sayin'. Connect the dots to where this could lead.
Oh, and you should tell your wife that the girl gave you her number and has a crush on you. And it means nothing to you. Laugh it off- ha ha, ha ha!
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this^^ It's happened to me where a girl wants more but you say no, and then she always lures you in with the "friends with benefits" package, and then it turns out to be one big fucking ambush.

And it may be awesome, but once you get off you'll wanna kill yourself from all the guilt. You gotta ask yourself; is it worth risking your marriage?
 
Sad to say but the Older I get, the more I feel people are going to cheat no matter what.

Maybe .000000001 % of marriages can be faithful.
 
You're not that bright, are you?


You mention that you're married and want to stay that way, yet in the same breathe take her number while suggesting a booty call.


It's up to you if you want to cheat on your wife, but weigh the consequences before you destroy your family. You said you had two daughters.
 
calveless wonder said:
Sad to say but the Older I get, the more I feel people are going to cheat no matter what.

Maybe .000000001 % of marriages can be faithful.
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I often feel the same way...and its depressing :(


what MM said...burn the fuckin number unless you're prepared to end your marriage
 
shirlene29 said:
I often feel the same way...and its depressing :(


what MM said...burn the fuckin number unless you're prepared to end your marriage
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I kinda feel the same way ^^....and agreed...don't venture down the road..it's a one way trip to disaster.
 
redshirt27se said:
You're not that bright, are you?


You mention that you're married and want to stay that way, yet in the same breathe take her number while suggesting a booty call.


It's up to you if you want to cheat on your wife, but weigh the consequences before you destroy your family. You said you had two daughters.
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Well we at least have to commend nyd for being completely frank regarding his intentions.


In other news, I find it depressing how often married men seriously consider adultery.
 
Me thinks this is actually a gratuitious meme thread disguised as a deep personal battle for his soul.

i.e. "ohhh look at me, I got 20 year old hotties wanting to bang me, whatever shall i do"
 
superdave said:
Me thinks this is actually a gratuitious meme thread disguised as a deep personal battle for his soul.

i.e. "ohhh look at me, I got 20 year old hotties wanting to bang me, whatever shall i do"
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I won't deny a little gratuitous ego-stroking here. I was anxious to share my flattering news with somebody. When you spend countless hours wasting time on a chat board you do start to feel somewhat connected to the members. Not like I could tell my wife about the incident.

And I do wish there was some way I could make the hook-up happen even though I know deep down that it is not worth it.

Incidentally, I never said she was "hot". I seem to have more appeal to the "nice" girls than I do to hot ones.
 
nydj66 said:
I won't deny a little gratuitous ego-stroking here. I was anxious to share my flattering news with somebody. When you spend countless hours wasting time on a chat board you do start to feel somewhat connected to the members. Not like I could tell my wife about the incident.

And I do wish there was some way I could make the hook-up happen even though I know deep down that it is not worth it.

Incidentally, I never said she was "hot". I seem to have more appeal to the "nice" girls than I do to hot ones.
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youre in the worst possible scenario for pulling off a cheat.
small town, she works 1 mile away, shes very young.

fucking forget it
 
superdave said:
Me thinks this is actually a gratuitious meme thread disguised as a deep personal battle for his soul.

i.e. "ohhh look at me, I got 20 year old hotties wanting to bang me, whatever shall i do"
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Oh, look I figured he wanted to brag a little, and hey, where else CAN you brag about shit like this?

HOWEVER, I also took this particular comment he made seriously:
nydj66 said:
I need someone with some common sense to step up and be my conscience here. Cause I seem to be trying to talk myself into it even though it's virtual marraige suicide.
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Which is why he really needs to start shopping at a new grocery store.

Temptation is dangerous fruit. You start thinking too much, and it's not too long before you stop accepting all the reasons why you shouldn't and start thinking of all the ways you could. (that's the point he's at now, really, he's literally in the HOW stage as in, "So how could I do this?" "How would it feel?" "How could we meet?" "How do I avoid being caught?") That is one damned slippery slope, and he's already put his feet on the first steps of that path by allowing the conversation to go as far as it did.

NYDJ, seriously, burn the number and go to a different store.
 
nydj66 said:
I won't deny a little gratuitous ego-stroking here. I was anxious to share my flattering news with somebody. When you spend countless hours wasting time on a chat board you do start to feel somewhat connected to the members. Not like I could tell my wife about the incident.

And I do wish there was some way I could make the hook-up happen even though I know deep down that it is not worth it.

Incidentally, I never said she was "hot". I seem to have more appeal to the "nice" girls than I do to hot ones.
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Lol @ daddy wanting to make that good girl bad.

Seriously thou, go download some porn with chicks in school girl outfits and whack off. She is not old enough to f*ck you and not form an attachment. There is no such thing as a casual affair. Someone always falls in love or gets infatuated and I'm willing to bet that will be her. Young infatuated women are dangerous, crazy, and uber jealous.
 
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!

I mean do it!!!!!!!!!!!! if you want your marriage to fall apart and lose everything.

It might be worth it.
 
superdave said:
As a married rob why are you even entertaining this shit, much less taking her number. How the hell can you get her number knowing full well the intentions?
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this...


IMO this makes you a piece of shit father to put your children through something like that. You're kidding yourself if you think you can get away with it and that when it does blow up in your face your children won't know what's going on or it won't affect them.
 
the only way this would be acceptable is if you get her to join EF before you begin the affair. Then it's no holds (holes?) barred!!!!!11
 
RottenWillow said:
Well we at least have to commend nyd for being completely frank regarding his intentions.


In other news, I find it depressing how often married men seriously consider adultery.
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I also find it depressing that these young girls cant fucking look for a damn single unattached man, why do these little whores find the need to claw into married men :mad:

And as others said it's almost impossible not to get busted, not that that's the point either because you shouldnt have even gone this far, yes sex with another person is always enticing but you're married now, by your own choice.... respect that....
 
Easy solution...you give her my number, I rail the shit out of her so she can't walk straight for a week, = she will no longer come onto you! And I'll cam it so you can watch later.
 
OK, so I had the night to sleep on it...

The deal is I'm not physically attracted to this girl anyway. I just liked the idea that a 20-year-old chick wanted me. But I let things go too far when I took her cell# and I'm obligated to "man up" and let her know I can't go through with it.

A phone call would give her my number, a text would give her my number AND evidence; so it has to be in person. Then I can just smile knowingly at her for the next 6 months until she finishes Jr college and moves on to bigger and better things.

Crisis averted.

P.S. Mitch, your tactic of bringing my children into the equation was brutal but effective; like a kick to the nuts.
 
nydj66 said:
OK, so I had the night to sleep on it...

The deal is I'm not physically attracted to this girl anyway. I just liked the idea that a 20-year-old chick wanted me. But I let things go too far when I took her cell# and I'm obligated to "man up" and let her know I can't go through with it.

A phone call would give her my number, a text would give her my number AND evidence; so it has to be in person. Then I can just smile knowingly at her for the next 6 months until she finishes Jr college and moves on to bigger and better things.

Crisis averted.

P.S. Mitch, your tactic of bringing my children into the equation was brutal but effective; like a kick to the nuts.
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You don't owe her shit, you have no obligation to anyone but your family and yourself.

What you want is more ego stroking. Hoping she'll cry and try to convince you otherwise? Maybe grab you and prove how good she'll be? :rolleyes:

I swear I'd be a lesbian if it weren't for my husband.
 
nydj66 said:
At the grogery store there's a 20-year-old girl that has a huge crush on me. Her face lights up every time she sees me, she makes continuous eye contact and almost a year ago she even made an awkward pass at me (although she turned beet red and ran away before I could respond).

Now she's attractive enough but in a cute and innocent sort of way...not a hot, trashy sort of way. And I like the attention and admittedly go out of my way to end up in her checkout lane. But in my mind I just see her as a cute KID.

Today, she must have been on break and mustered up the courage to follow me outside and ask how come I've never asked her out. Now she can see the wedding ring on my hand and she's even seen me shopping with my daughters. So I explain that I am married and wanting to stay that way so really a booty call would be the only available option and she didn't really strike me as that type.

And she says that she'd be fine with just a booty call here and there. So I took her cell number.

Now I have a ton of shit running through my mind. She can't possibly realize that I'm 25 years older than her. And I don't feel right about stealing some kid's innocence; but she said out loud that she was up for a booty call so how innocent can she be?

And the thought of getting naked with a firm 20-year-old body is awfully appealing; but I don't know if I can make the mental leap to see her as "sexy" when I'm litterally old enough to be her father.

And most importantly, I live in a village of 2,500 people and she works 1 mile from my house. I probably can't expect a 20-year-old to be discreet. But now I've taken her number and she'll be pissed if I don't call...which could also get me in trouble.

I need someone with some common sense to step up and be my conscience here. Cause I seem to be trying to talk myself into it even though it's virtual marraige suicide.
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I've dated a 20 year old. Well actually she was 19 when we met. DO IT! YOU'LL REGRET IT MORE IF YOU DIDN'T
 
superdave said:
Me thinks this is actually a gratuitious meme thread disguised as a deep personal battle for his soul.

i.e. "ohhh look at me, I got 20 year old hotties wanting to bang me, whatever shall i do"
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Really? I thought that Omega was account hacking again.

I keed!
 
nydj66 said:
At the grogery store there's a 20-year-old girl that has a huge crush on me. Her face lights up every time she sees me, she makes continuous eye contact and almost a year ago she even made an awkward pass at me (although she turned beet red and ran away before I could respond).

Now she's attractive enough but in a cute and innocent sort of way...not a hot, trashy sort of way. And I like the attention and admittedly go out of my way to end up in her checkout lane. But in my mind I just see her as a cute KID.

Today, she must have been on break and mustered up the courage to follow me outside and ask how come I've never asked her out. Now she can see the wedding ring on my hand and she's even seen me shopping with my daughters. So I explain that I am married and wanting to stay that way so really a booty call would be the only available option and she didn't really strike me as that type.

And she says that she'd be fine with just a booty call here and there. So I took her cell number.

Now I have a ton of shit running through my mind. She can't possibly realize that I'm 25 years older than her. And I don't feel right about stealing some kid's innocence; but she said out loud that she was up for a booty call so how innocent can she be?

And the thought of getting naked with a firm 20-year-old body is awfully appealing; but I don't know if I can make the mental leap to see her as "sexy" when I'm litterally old enough to be her father.

And most importantly, I live in a village of 2,500 people and she works 1 mile from my house. I probably can't expect a 20-year-old to be discreet. But now I've taken her number and she'll be pissed if I don't call...which could also get me in trouble.

I need someone with some common sense to step up and be my conscience here. Cause I seem to be trying to talk myself into it even though it's virtual marraige suicide.
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You're married and have kids. You said all you needed to say.
 
bro.....this is a very bad idea. DO NOT DO IT!!! As hard as it is to listen to us on here believe me this route your pondering is absolutely not worth it. Just look at porn or something....this is disaster thats all I can say.
 
musclemom said:
You don't owe her shit, you have no obligation to anyone but your family and yourself.

What you want is more ego stroking. Hoping she'll cry and try to convince you otherwise? Maybe grab you and prove how good she'll be? :rolleyes:

I swear I'd be a lesbian if it weren't for my husband.
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You know, that hadn't occured to me.

I figure it's about 1,000:1 odds, but if this shy little girl has the self-confidence to reach down my pants, wet her lips, and say, "you have no idea what your passing up!" then I'm sure my girls will eventually decide that their 20-year-old new mommy is much more fun and energetic than old mommy. :D
 
nydj66 said:
You know, that hadn't occured to me.

I figure it's about 1,000:1 odds, but if this shy little girl has the self-confidence to reach down my pants, wet her lips, and say, "you have no idea what your passing up!" then I'm sure my girls will eventually decide that their 20-year-old new mommy is much more fun and energetic than old mommy. :D
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I'll bet that they know that now.
 
nydj66 said:
You know, that hadn't occured to me.

I figure it's about 1,000:1 odds, but if this shy little girl has the self-confidence to reach down my pants, wet her lips, and say, "you have no idea what your passing up!" then I'm sure my girls will eventually decide that their 20-year-old new mommy is much more fun and energetic than old mommy. :D
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wait till ex wifey starts cougar-ing up and bringing home randoms to bang while your precious girls sleep in the next room.

Good Times!!!!!!!!!!!

:D
 
ceo said:
wait till ex wifey starts cougar-ing up and bringing home randoms to bang while your precious girls sleep in the next room.

Good Times!!!!!!!!!!!

:D
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Hey CEO, I don't some to your breakfast table and piss in your Cheerios. How come you gotta spoil my good mood? :biggrin:

Besides, the 20-year-old was already very cool towards me on Sunday, presumably because I didn't call right away.

Geesh, women! I swear if it weren't for MM's husband, I'd go gay.
 
Sounds very tempting.......BUT here is another dagger that will get you in the short or long run - FaceBook!!! Somebody , somewhere, at sometime WILL indeed know you and little pieces of the puzzle will come together and before you know it, your screwed, word gets to wifey and you better forget it, its over!! Got a couple of friends of mine who in reality got busted and one of them is getting a divorce while my other friend has been seperated for at least 3 months now. Its a no-win situation. You have to be very careful, you never know when a woman will say " I promise I won't fall for you, I just want to fuck". 6 months down the road, she has already developed feelings for you and she will snitch on you cause you dont want her in a real relationship or whatever, she can turn at any moment and turn you over and give you a dry Fudging and you lose EVERYTHING!!!
 
I wouldn't do it. Unless of course the marriage is total shit. You initiated all this with the flirting/friendliness. Good for you at 45 to be able to do this, but this is a crazy thought. Chill with the mid life crisis and move on into reality.
 
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