I can see how people back out of weddings..

[lartinos]

Because when I see people up there going through the ceremony, I think to myself... wow, they're really doing this!
And all the families getting together and everything, it's such a big deal I wouldn't wanna go through all that. Sooner or later some chick will rope me into this shit though I'm sure.

 

[NEO1]

Just think, eventually you will get half of the presents though!

Because when I see people up there going throug the ceremony, I think to myself... wow, they're really doing this!
And all the families getting together and everything, it's such a big deal I wouldn't wanna go through all that. Sooner or later some chick will rope me into this shit though I'm sure.

 

[cindylou]

I didnt make my wedding that big of a deal

Planned in 4 months and only invited about 200 people

its not so stressful

but yeah i'm in a wedding in a couple of weeks where there are 600 people invited...I couldnt go through with that - the planning - all the people, etc etc

 

[Bikini Mod]

Because when I see people up there going through the ceremony, I think to myself... wow, they're really doing this!
And all the families getting together and everything, it's such a big deal I wouldn't wanna go through all that. Sooner or later some chick will rope me into this shit though I'm sure.

Funny you should say that as it was MY HUSBAND who roped my shit.

My ex tried to back out of our wedding couple months before the date and like A FOOL I wouldn't let him. I said, "We just need some counseling." No duh, the dude was into shoving me around. But I was going to *fix* him. Yea, yea, 100% MY FAULT.

Interestingly enough I accepted my Old Grump exactly the way he was, didn't even try to change a thing (13 years of a failed marriage and 8 years of worse divorce taught me well = NEVER TRY TO CHANGE ANYONE). He volunteered to me recently that even if something happened between us, he would never go back to his "old life".

I couldn't *fix* the man that I attempted to fix. And I seemed to *affect* the man who I was happy to take the way he was.... interesting how that works!

 

[nefertiti]

When I get married...It will be six people on a beach somewhere tropical in a simple white slip dress. All the hoopla around "the big day" seems so silly to me. I might throw a big party afterward or something, but the ceremony itself I only want my parents, his parents (if they are alive and he's on good terms with them...otherwise whoever he is most close with), the two of us, and a minister.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Funny you should say that as it was MY HUSBAND who roped my shit.

I bet that was messy.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I bet that was messy.

(Tha's a pretty gross visual, I must admit)

What can I say?

The man has mad skillz... hehehehee

 

[walliwalibus]

If I ever get remarried, after i get divorced, I wanna be drunk, propped up on a two wheeler (tied to it) then put away til I die.

 

[mwm5]

If I ever get remarried, after i get divorced, I wanna be drunk, propped up on a two wheeler (tied to it) then put away til I die.

are you going through a divorce presently or just anticipating it will happen?

 

[Bikini Mod]

When I get married...It will be six people on a beach somewhere tropical in a simple white slip dress. All the hoopla around "the big day" seems so silly to me. I might throw a big party afterward or something, but the ceremony itself I only want my parents, his parents (if they are alive and he's on good terms with them...otherwise whoever he is most close with), the two of us, and a minister.

SMART MOVE.

When the Old Grump and I tied the knot it was in my old apartment. My sis and her family, two of my girls, my best GF gave me away and of course, my Old Grump and the reverend who married us.