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I called him at home and left a message for him "Thanking him from the bottom of my heart for his extramarital affair with my wife. Thanking for ensuring that the chance and hope that was left to save my marriage and life with her of 17 years was taken away by his affair with my wife. I really appreciate deeply from the bottom of my heart for his having and continuing the affair with my wife and completely destroying any chance we had of reconciling and having a life together. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart. I can't tell you how greatful I am for your interjection into my marriage and costing me my family and my wife"

Later on, I called back to "appologize" (make him feel worse if possible or if he even felt bad at all) and the phone was busy. He wasn't talking to my wife because my oldest told me she wasn't on any phones. 5 hours later his phone was still busy. He took it off the hook apparently he didn't want to talk to anyone (no way he new I would be calling back) I know she wasn't talking to him again, because my oldest told me she was/had been on the phone with her best friend Melissa. He could hear her talking on the phone to the wife.

I called his work too and dropped his name to HR for calling my wife at home while on company time.
 
Naah, I would have to make a nusience of myself by repeatedly calling and leaving threatening or abusive messages. I called once to thank him and I tried to call once to apologize
 
dang, bor
 
AAP said:
don't let it backfire on you as harassment.
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On the contrary, I'd harass the shit out of him. If he's gonna play, he's gonna pay.
 
Call his friends and any family of his you may be able to track down and let them know too.
 
Welcome to grade 12!

Why do people like you blame the wrong person, he didn't force her on his dick!

You will probably stay mad at him for the rest of your life but forgive the whore! Pathetic!
 
You still don't get it, do you?

Do you honestly think this guy gives A SHIT about how you feel? If anything, he now believes all the stories I am sure that your wife has told him about you. What kind of a person does such a thing?

Chesty, you seriously need to get some PERSONAL counseling.

This is just getting sadder by the second.
 
Werd is right, I've had married women come onto me, and want me to fuck them, and hav told me all sorts of shit about their husbands. They beat them. They talk to them like they were a piece of shit. All of them say that their husband cheats on them. Etc. So she probably told him that sort of thing. He probably things you are soem kind of cheating abusive asshole, and feels ok with what he did.
 
Smooth move, Ex-Lax. This is REALLY the way to convince everyone that you're a stable, upright citizen and a loving father and husband. Be sure to blame it all on those damned steroids, just to put the icing on the cake.

"People who are too stupid to raise kids, on the next Geraldo."
 
I really don't care. He is the one that forced the issue not her. He played the games with her and was the one calling/coming to my house fucking in my bed. That shit don't fly period. I am not mad at him, but I want him to know what he has done. She knows what she has done as well.

She is out of the house and on her own.
 
Digger is right on.

Time to move on chesty. You should be embarrassed. A marine, a cop, etc and you are reduced to this?

Disgraceful. Kill everyone, or forgive everyone. Those are the only ways you can move on.
 
Well I can't kill, but I am making sure that everyone knows about it.
 
chesty said:
I really don't care. He is the one that forced the issue not her. He played the games with her and was the one calling/coming to my house fucking in my bed. That shit don't fly period. I am not mad at him, but I want him to know what he has done. She knows what she has done as well.

She is out of the house and on her own.
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Dude, you have lost touch with reality.

You can TRY to call and evict her all you want. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN.

You left the state and your children with her with nothing in writing.

They have a legal term for that:

ABANDONMENT.

Guess what compradre?

SHE NOW HOLDS ALL THE FUCKING CARDS. Judge ain't gonna give a rat's ass that she is fucking some dude. You chased other women and fucked them too. Just because YOU decided to be in love with her again when some other guy wanted her that don't mean diddly. Matter of fact, makes you look REALLY REALLY SUSPECT - Some would say, downright CONTROLLING .
 
chesty said:
I really don't care. He is the one that forced the issue not her. He played the games with her and was the one calling/coming to my house fucking in my bed. That shit don't fly period. I am not mad at him, but I want him to know what he has done. She knows what she has done as well.

She is out of the house and on her own.
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Hello reality calling Chesty!!! He knows what he has and and he don't care, his work don't care, he is probably laughing his ass off at you for being such a pussy like this. Be a man and move on!
 
chesty said:
Well I can't kill, but I am making sure that everyone knows about it.
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OK... now I am getting nauseous.

You go on and on about how your wife is a confused whore to do this TO YOU?

Really?

HAVE YOU EVER LIED TO ANOTHER WOMAN BY TELLING HER THAT YOU WERE LEGALLY DIVORCED AND ONLY COHABITATED WITH YOUR EX BECAUSE SHE HOMESCHOOLED THE CHILDREN AND YOU COULD NOT AFFORD TO SUPPORT TWO HOUSEHOLDS ....FOR THE EXPRESSED PURPOSE OF HOPING TO PURSUE THAT OTHER WOMAN?!

I asked you this on another thread and your answer was a clear

NO .
 
chesty said:
Well I can't kill, but I am making sure that everyone knows about it.
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Always have the suicide option too.
 
Bigdawg1468 said:
no for guys you just have to say I double dog dare ya!
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:FRlol:

Ahhhhhhhhh I see the error of my ways now.


*note to self*

When you want to get a guy to do something that he is too chicken to admit that he is chicken to do... pull out the old "double dog dare." ;)
 
chesty said:
I called him at home and left a message for him "Thanking him from the bottom of my heart for his extramarital affair with my wife. Thanking for ensuring that the chance and hope that was left to save my marriage and life with her of 17 years was taken away by his affair with my wife. I really appreciate deeply from the bottom of my heart for his having and continuing the affair with my wife and completely destroying any chance we had of reconciling and having a life together. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart. I can't tell you how greatful I am for your interjection into my marriage and costing me my family and my wife"

Later on, I called back to "appologize" (make him feel worse if possible or if he even felt bad at all) and the phone was busy. He wasn't talking to my wife because my oldest told me she wasn't on any phones. 5 hours later his phone was still busy. He took it off the hook apparently he didn't want to talk to anyone (no way he new I would be calling back) I know she wasn't talking to him again, because my oldest told me she was/had been on the phone with her best friend Melissa. He could hear her talking on the phone to the wife.

I called his work too and dropped his name to HR for calling my wife at home while on company time.
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I havent read about this entire situation...but your action seems a bit out of place for you.
 
Werd said:
:FRlol:

Ahhhhhhhhh I see the error of my ways now.


*note to self*

When you want to get a guy to do something that he is too chicken to admit that he is chicken to do... pull out the old "double dog dare." ;)
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trust me it works, has gotten me into a lot of shit over the years ;)
 
Bigdawg1468 said:
trust me it works, has gotten me into a lot of shit over the years ;)
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Hmmmmmmmmm you ask alot of me....

I'll have to think about it... you know, that trusting you part. ;)



...could get you into an awful lot of shit!

heheheheheheee
 
chesty said:
I really don't care. He is the one that forced the issue not her. He played the games with her and was the one calling/coming to my house fucking in my bed. That shit don't fly period. I am not mad at him, but I want him to know what he has done. She knows what she has done as well.

She is out of the house and on her own.
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Good now get on with your healing and try to stop going over and over the ugly details of the breakup. Your going to be a better person becuase of this if you don't let it get to you. Harder than it sounds I know, but start moving past the darkness and into the light. You can't save what is already gone.
 
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Dude..

she is NOT YOUR WIFE.

Even if for some reason, legally she can be construed as a "common-law" wife. The day she moved out -- she's single again. There's no paperfork for a "common-law divorce".

She never *cheated* on you. Nor did he.

The moment he says "she's divorced, get it through your head, she ain't your wife" -- you lose all leg to stand on for your argument.

You're just the plain vanilla vengeful spiteful ex who doesn't know when it really is over -- until cold handcuffs get socked on ya.

Been there, seen it a billion times. Guys like you come right out of psychology textbooks to a tee.
 
Razorguns said:
Dude..

she is NOT YOUR WIFE.

Even if for some reason, legally she can be construed as a "common-law" wife. The day she moved out -- she's single again. There's no paperfork for a "common-law divorce".

She never *cheated* on you. Nor did he.

The moment he says "she's divorced, get it through your head, she ain't your wife" -- you lose all leg to stand on for your argument.

You're just the plain vanilla vengeful spiteful ex who doesn't know when it really is over -- until cold handcuffs get socked on ya.

Been there, seen it a billion times. Guys like you come right out of psychology textbooks to a tee.
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WERD
 
chesty said:
I really don't care. He is the one that forced the issue not her. He played the games with her and was the one calling/coming to my house fucking in my bed. That shit don't fly period. I am not mad at him, but I want him to know what he has done. She knows what she has done as well.

She is out of the house and on her own.
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hmm, gee, unless it's masturbation, it takes 2 to have sex.

when will you get a clue? seriously. when? you're acting like an idiot. you want something you can not have and you're going to keep crying about it over and over again, but it's not getting you anywhere. you sound like my 3 year old.

in the beginning, you had my sympathy. you have lost it because you contine to kick yourself in the balls and when you can't quite get your foot there yourself, you find someone else to do it.

this is pathetic.
 
Dude, the best possible revenge you can have on both of them is to let them have each other and move on with your OWN life. Their own actions will cause them to question and doubt each other LONG after you are gone and significantly happier than you are now.
 
The best revenge is to be happy

Move on and find a woman who will care and love you

Make sure she is a lot younger then your ex if you want to stick something down her throat

What is the big deal… You have your health and all you need now is to find your happiness
 
Chesty, go back and read your original threads. You had a plan. What the hell happened?????

It`s not too late, it never is. Start doing the right thing... NOW! Leave them alone and take care of YOURSELF. You`re a good guy, don`t have people misunderstand you because a few bad choices like this.
 
...It is during stressful tense moments like these, that the masses must once again, be graced with the heavenly godly image of Al Roker..:

alricky.jpg


Chesty, if you worshipped this deity, instead of that woman -- you'd be so better off. Mull on this my friend. Mull on it...
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Werd is right, I've had married women come onto me, and want me to fuck them, and hav told me all sorts of shit about their husbands. They beat them. They talk to them like they were a piece of shit. All of them say that their husband cheats on them. Etc. So she probably told him that sort of thing. He probably things you are soem kind of cheating abusive asshole, and feels ok with what he did.
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So True.
 
ok guys come on now you're getting redundant in your ridiculing of him. this thread would make me wanna kill myself like matt suggested
 
chesty just move on man. nobody will think calling him was a good idea. and from reading your other threads, the guy didn't exactly break up a happy home.

move on, let him be, let her be.
 
I skipped right to the end. Having been the other man myself, it's a mistake to assume he's automatically a bad guy even though he's sleeping with your wife. For all you know she's been telling him you're the devil reincarnate this whole time, which apparently you've admitted to being for many years. He might genuinely care and think he's saving her from you.

and no, he doesn't give a rat's tail about you.
 
chesty said:
I really don't care. He is the one that forced the issue not her. He played the games with her and was the one calling/coming to my house fucking in my bed. That shit don't fly period. I am not mad at him, but I want him to know what he has done. She knows what she has done as well.

She is out of the house and on her own.
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Amen. What's the matter with you pussies? If some guy was fucking my wife in my own house, that bastard is gonna pay. People are like dogs, they have to be taught a lesson or they will continue to run over others. I am for hire.
 
Werd said:
Dude, you have lost touch with reality.

You can TRY to call and evict her all you want. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN.

You left the state and your children with her with nothing in writing.

They have a legal term for that:

ABANDONMENT.

Guess what compradre?

SHE NOW HOLDS ALL THE FUCKING CARDS. Judge ain't gonna give a rat's ass that she is fucking some dude. You chased other women and fucked them too. Just because YOU decided to be in love with her again when some other guy wanted her that don't mean diddly. Matter of fact, makes you look REALLY REALLY SUSPECT - Some would say, downright CONTROLLING .
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Hmmm. I didn't know this side of the story. You leavin' out some details Chesty?
 
Move on. Put him and her behind you and get on with your life. If they end up together, great, if not, you still need to move on.
 
There was a guy hitting on my woman that wouldn't back off. He finally did once he saw me and realized I would annhilate him, but I got his address and had just about every magazine to do with Vaginas, Crochet, Cat's, and womanly shit (anything that insinuated his pussy nature) sent to his house with those "Bill me Later" cards. :D
 
Bigdawg1468 said:
Welcome to grade 12!

Why do people like you blame the wrong person, he didn't force her on his dick!

You will probably stay mad at him for the rest of your life but forgive the whore! Pathetic!
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truedat
 
velvett said:
You're right.

But Werd meant that Chesty didn't have the balls to do so.
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ok:)
I know how u feel chesty, ive been there, im sure we all have, at some point and time, but like someone said, the best revenge is to be happy. Im getting there too:) moving on and finding there is more out there than that one person. Do things with ur kids, take them to the park, spend 1 on 1 with them and dont think about her.
The way i see it, my revenge would be to be happy and let them be miserable together. or maybe end up killing each other in a big huge fight :chomp:
 
nordstrom said:
Fucking low, Fucking low. This is a major life transition for him.
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Sorry, but this ain't kindergarten. We have all been telling him what's what. All he can do is go on and on about how he is going to "kick his whore wife to the curb in front of their kids."

Sounds like less of a major life transition and more of a disorder.
 
If it's me, the guy gets a beating. Sure, it's not really fair...but who gives a fuck? It's not about that he's with the chick (if it's me in the situation, as I don't believe in second chances), but it's about the disrespect to me. Disrespect me in that manner would equal trip to the hospital (and not by my hands, as I'd be in a very public place for an ironclad alibi during the time of the beating in question).
 
> but it's about the disrespect to me.

1) She's NOT married to him
2) Even if she was married, he faults her to no end. Meaning he's still in denial.

#2 is more a common trait found in chicks who are faced with cheating bf's. They defend the bf but blame the chick and themselves. It's why us guys cheat. We can get away with it!
 
I only blame her for acting on her impulses. She is free to leave the house. I have given it too her and that is that. Courts would have me pay just as much to her if she werent' there.

Her parents would even like to see us reconcile. Yes, common law is as legal as marriage by a priest or justice of the peace. And yes, she would have to divorce me to get remarried.

Yes, she cheated and she acknowledges that. I have told her to go be with him and that is that. I have made my commitment to her and will honor that for the duration of the counseling. She is there she is there. If not, I will not be frozen with anguish.

She can do as she pleases. She is struggling with the fact that I know what she is doing and have told her it is okay.

I called his work and they are going to reprimand him. Big deal, but he will not be up for promotion any time soon.

Yes, she has lied to him on more than one occasion. But as you say, he is "rescuing" her. When I finally talked to him all he could muster for his feelings was he cares for her. He also told me how great I was for giving her the space she needs cause she needs to make her own choices free of influence. I asked if he could do the same. He said he had to do what was best for him. So, apparently all he cares about is himself.

Hell, she just spent the night with him! Big deal. She got sperm injections all night, I got Karate movies. She is leaving the kids alone for up to 24 hours plus and that is what bothers me the most. I would have the kids out here if I didn't work so much as it would not be fair to them to sit around all day with me gone.
 
havoc said:
This woman owns you, reattach your balls.
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I concur. She's not worth it man. The bottom line is, the only way you're assured to come out on top in any situation is if you just don't care. I'd stop caring what the fuck she was doing and start being more concerned with what I was doing. I'm 23 though and really don't know my ass from a hole in the ground to be frank. You've got more life experience than I do (I think you're a bit older than me Chesty) but I'm telling you the whole not giving a shit thing works wonderfully. It pisses people off too.
 
If it wasn't this guy, it would be some other dude. Don't you get it? For you to go back to this woman after all of this would be like telling the world you have no balls, self respect, spine, or self esteem.

MOVE ON! THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER! THERE IS NO SAVING THIS BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING TO SAVE!
 
maybe, maybe not. Only God knows what the outcome will be.
 
>Only God knows what the outcome will be.

No he doesn't. The reason man was put on this planet, with a brain and the ability to think -- is so he can be the master of his own demise. If GOD was in control of the future for everyone, and fate -- there'd be no murders, wars and diseases. For it would infer that GOD created and planned it as such.

Civilization, down to it's most singular of entities: individual man -- ultimately controls his own future. It's what seperates him from other creatures, which are relegated to pretty much, eat, kill, breed, die. Man can do so much more.

By just believing god is in control, and you have no power -- it throwing away the most powerful gift "god" has ever given man. The ability to think, reason and plan out his own future.

God's too busy to worry about 900 trillion individual living specimens and plan out their "fates".
 
Stop looking to God to solve your problems...start looking in the mirror. It's why God gave us eyes and a brain...so we could identify problems and solve them ourselves.
 
Chesty,

We have talked to each other online for the past few years. I have always considered you to be a good bro… It pains me to see you like this, you are a shadow of your former self right now. I’m not going to sit here and tell that your actions are out of line and make you look like a pussy, I think you already know that. I understand that when feelings are involved and a whole life and family is at stake, pride goes out the window and we act on pure emotion.

I can’t offer you much advice since I haven’t been I your shoes, I will say that knowing myself I would not be the type of person to put my pride to the side and forgive her.
She would be gone and out of my life as soon as I found out she was fucking some other dude. I just don’t think I could ever live with the knowledge that my special lady whom I called a wife for so many years was getting fucked in a roach infested Motel like a $2 whore by some guy who would not sacrifice anything to be with her the way I have. I would not be able to lay in bed next to her knowing some dude fucked her in the same bed and busted a nutt in the same covers we are sleeping in now. My dreams would torment me if I had to roll over in bed and kiss her on the lips.. the same lips she used to suck that dude off, “did he cum in her mouth like I do? Did she swallowed it like she does with me?” kissing her lips would be like sucking his dick by default. I just don’t think I could ever make love to her again and watch her close her eyes and wonder… wonder if she could be thinking about Him. We he so fucking good at it that she would keep coming back for more? Was he hung like a grand stallion that she would leave her children unattended just to go over his house and jump on his cock?
You can’t turn a ho into a house wife, hos don’t act right…. But a house wife can turn into a ho, as soon as she gets a taste of some new dick and some new passion, as soon as she gets a guy to turn her out the way we do when we get a new piece of pussy. The house wife whom is not getting taken care of properly because her old man is putting in 60+ hours of work per week to keep a decent roof on her head and build a future for her family actually begins to resent her husband…. She goes and cheats on him with some dead-end-job rock start wanna be dude that has a part time job and doesn’t have two nickels to rub together to take her to a decent Motel, so he has to fuck her in your bed while you are out working(Of course he has time for her since he is not working like you, he works the night shift at the Taco Bell drive thru)… This is all pretty fucked up stuff, happens to many good men.
That is not to say that this is your particular situation. I just wanted to throw it out ther for the rest for the bros, if the shoe fits.
 
I like watching car crashes, nasty accidents and disasters happening to people.

Kinda like reading this thread.

I'm sick, I know.
 
I think Cheaters suck.
 
Big Rick Rock said:
Chesty,

We have talked to each other online for the past few years. I have always considered you to be a good bro… It pains me to see you like this, you are a shadow of your former self right now. I’m not going to sit here and tell that your actions are out of line and make you look like a pussy, I think you already know that. I understand that when feelings are involved and a whole life and family is at stake, pride goes out the window and we act on pure emotion.

I can’t offer you much advice since I haven’t been I your shoes, I will say that knowing myself I would not be the type of person to put my pride to the side and forgive her.
She would be gone and out of my life as soon as I found out she was fucking some other dude. I just don’t think I could ever live with the knowledge that my special lady whom I called a wife for so many years was getting fucked in a roach infested Motel like a $2 whore by some guy who would not sacrifice anything to be with her the way I have. I would not be able to lay in bed next to her knowing some dude fucked her in the same bed and busted a nutt in the same covers we are sleeping in now. My dreams would torment me if I had to roll over in bed and kiss her on the lips.. the same lips she used to suck that dude off, “did he cum in her mouth like I do? Did she swallowed it like she does with me?” kissing her lips would be like sucking his dick by default. I just don’t think I could ever make love to her again and watch her close her eyes and wonder… wonder if she could be thinking about Him. We he so fucking good at it that she would keep coming back for more? Was he hung like a grand stallion that she would leave her children unattended just to go over his house and jump on his cock?
You can’t turn a ho into a house wife, hos don’t act right…. But a house wife can turn into a ho, as soon as she gets a taste of some new dick and some new passion, as soon as she gets a guy to turn her out the way we do when we get a new piece of pussy. The house wife whom is not getting taken care of properly because her old man is putting in 60+ hours of work per week to keep a decent roof on her head and build a future for her family actually begins to resent her husband…. She goes and cheats on him with some dead-end-job rock start wanna be dude that has a part time job and doesn’t have two nickels to rub together to take her to a decent Motel, so he has to fuck her in your bed while you are out working(Of course he has time for her since he is not working like you, he works the night shift at the Taco Bell drive thru)… This is all pretty fucked up stuff, happens to many good men.
That is not to say that this is your particular situation. I just wanted to throw it out ther for the rest for the bros, if the shoe fits.
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Damn that was scathing.......but true!!
 
From Zero said:
So who was that "Laughing" fellow?
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Nobody. Not even an alter of anyone interesting -- just a small-potatoes three-time loser. Flushed him without even worrying that he'd stop up the plumbing.
 
digger said:
Nobody. Not even an alter of anyone interesting -- just a small-potatoes three-time loser. Flushed him without even worrying that he'd stop up the plumbing.
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Now THAT was scathing. LOL
 
digger said:
Nobody. Not even an alter of anyone interesting -- just a small-potatoes three-time loser. Flushed him without even worrying that he'd stop up the plumbing.
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WOW what a big man you are!
now can you please remove werd's tool from your mouth and get back to work :kapow:
 
Yes, I have to deal with her cheating if she were to come back. would she do it again? Who would she be thinkign of? Why did she come back? That is if she ever does.

By saying only God knows what will happen does not put him in charge of my destiny. It says that I have to trust in him that the things that need to be done will be done. He will show me what he wants me to do and it is up to me to listen. Right now as much as it hurts I believe he is teaching me patience, humility by not giving up on her yet. I will know when it is truly over or on the way to reconciliation.
 
chesty u need to get away from her and fast.......... besides lets just say there 'WAS" a chance of you two reconciling...... only time TRUELY apart will give that a chance, if u let ur wife take "sperm injections" from another man................... you need to quit being a vagina and let her go, for real. sorry to be harsh but it needs to be said. good luck bro, go fuck someone.
 
chesty u need to get away from her and fast.......... besides lets just say there 'WAS" a chance of you two reconciling...... only time TRUELY apart will give that a chance, if u let ur wife take "sperm injections" from another man................... you need to quit being a vagina and let her go, for real. sorry to be harsh but it needs to be said. good luck bro, go fuck someone.
 
Why do you all think I am in Texas? Over 1000 miles from her with no control over what she does anymore?
 
Chesty you need to bring in Sgt. Nick Fury and his Howling Commandos,they'll fix this
 
Werd said:
Dude, you have lost touch with reality.

You can TRY to call and evict her all you want. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN.

You left the state and your children with her with nothing in writing.

They have a legal term for that:

ABANDONMENT.

Guess what compradre?

SHE NOW HOLDS ALL THE FUCKING CARDS. Judge ain't gonna give a rat's ass that she is fucking some dude. You chased other women and fucked them too. Just because YOU decided to be in love with her again when some other guy wanted her that don't mean diddly. Matter of fact, makes you look REALLY REALLY SUSPECT - Some would say, downright CONTROLLING .
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He doesnt know you, and he could give a fuck less. Also, that bitch has been fucking with you for like 3 years. I hate to be a dick, but she doesnt give 2 shits about you either.

I understand the rage, but you are being extremely counterproductive. The sad thing is that I think you would take that skank back. Try to move on with your life. She is going to ruin you.

He has no allegiance to you, it is her that should be to blame. The "games" that he played with her are miniscule compared to the "games" that she has played with you.
 
chesty said:
Why do you all think I am in Texas? Over 1000 miles from her with no control over what she does anymore?
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The only thing you don't have now is legal rights. You didn't have any control over her when you were in the same bed.
 
chesty said:
I called him at home and left a message for him "Thanking him from the bottom of my heart for his extramarital affair with my wife. Thanking for ensuring that the chance and hope that was left to save my marriage and life with her of 17 years was taken away by his affair with my wife. I really appreciate deeply from the bottom of my heart for his having and continuing the affair with my wife and completely destroying any chance we had of reconciling and having a life together. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart. I can't tell you how greatful I am for your interjection into my marriage and costing me my family and my wife"

Later on, I called back to "appologize" (make him feel worse if possible or if he even felt bad at all) and the phone was busy. He wasn't talking to my wife because my oldest told me she wasn't on any phones. 5 hours later his phone was still busy. He took it off the hook apparently he didn't want to talk to anyone (no way he new I would be calling back) I know she wasn't talking to him again, because my oldest told me she was/had been on the phone with her best friend Melissa. He could hear her talking on the phone to the wife.

I called his work too and dropped his name to HR for calling my wife at home while on company time.
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When you called back and it was busy, he was probably telling his friends about your wife and laughing at you.

You need to nut up on this one. You cant win. I would either fuck her with a dirty dick or poison her slowly with an undetectable substance.
 
I have all the legal rights in the world. I have not abandoned anyone as I still fully 100% support all of them. And continue to do so.

I have no way to exort my controlling personality on her, not physically control her. People get a grip. I don't care what he thinks about me. I did what I wanted to do. He is a piece of shit that needs to grow up a lot more than I.

I have told her to go, be with him, she has not done so. Wonder why? If I were so into some chick to the point of throwing it my spouses face daily, I would be gone and with her full time. She hasn't done this and is still milking the cow with excuses.
 
>Wonder why?

Cuz she's probably out in clubs with her girlfriends looking for her next relationship. Who says she HAS to be with this guy?

Have you ever thought about becoming gay? It's obvious you can't handle the intricacies of women. Maybe men might be your calling.
 
Shut up! There is no intricacies, you either make a commitment and stick to it or you quit. She wants to quit right now, fine. Yeah, she may dump him and ride the neck pecker in. She may come back to me and lie to me and secretly jump cock every chance she gets.

But I will have done what I believe is right. Not what you or anyone else thinks. I don't care what anyone here thinks of me.

Apparently many here do not know what it is to truly love.
 
>know what it is to truly love.

Maybe not. But i do know it DOESN'T involve divorces, cheating and restraining orders. :)
 
Your right. We have no restraining orders. People make mistakes and can choose to either correct them or not. I have chosen to correct mine. She can choose to correct hers or not. I will not force her.
 
chesty said:
Shut up! There is no intricacies, you either make a commitment and stick to it or you quit. She wants to quit right now, fine. Yeah, she may dump him and ride the neck pecker in. She may come back to me and lie to me and secretly jump cock every chance she gets.

But I will have done what I believe is right. Not what you or anyone else thinks. I don't care what anyone here thinks of me.

Apparently many here do not know what it is to truly love.
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Bro, you have spoken like a man in love. You are going to give it everything you got and hope for the best. 17yrs is a long time, I respect the fact that you are still trying to make it work... When it is all said and done you will be able to say "I did everyting I could".
 
Kid walks into a whorehouse dragging a flat, dead frog on a string. The madam says "Kid, you're a little young to be in here."

Kid slaps a $100 bill on her desk.

"Well, maybe not TOO young..."

Kid says "I want a girl with active herpes."

"Huh? For $100 you can have a clean one."

"Nope, she's gotta have running sores."

"Well, okay... but why?"

"'Cause I'm gonna go home and give it to my babysitter."

"What?!"

"Yep. I figure she'll give it to my dad when he drives her home."

"Good lord, kid --"

"And then he'll give it to my mom..."

"WHAT? Wait a minute--"

"...and she'll give it to the milkman."

"But, but -- why?"

"'Cause he's the son of a bitch who ran over my frog."
 
Big Rick Rock said:
Bro, you have spoken like a man in love. You are going to give it everything you got and hope for the best. 17yrs is a long time, I respect the fact that you are still trying to make it work... When it is all said and done you will be able to say "I did everyting I could".
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Nice................. :)


Good Luck, Chesty... be happy
 
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