hurting bad and dont know what to think help

[mytime]

hi was wandering if i could get some advice from a lady.
ive been seeing this girl for the last yr come this friday . we are great together well up untill this past monday.
she emails me and tells me that she doesnt want any type of contact from me at all .i email her and ask why ,she mails me back and says she doesnt have anough time for me right now,
we email back and fourth and she tells me she has to care for her kids right now.
the best part of this all is ,,,,,she has hubbie who wont let go. they have a house together and they jest listed it a few days ago . this past saturday i was baby sitting for her and the kids got really upset about it.
then after a bit they came around . the kids have knowned me for along time so i found that strange.
anyways latter when she came home she told me that her x lost it when he found out that i was watching the kids .
he ended up comeing back to her place and called me a home wrecker. i lost it on him i told him that he was a verey bad fother and grow up plus other stuff.
then monday came and all this happen . she email me in the end and said (i love you and please wait for me to work this out)but with no promice of us getting back together .........what am i to think .please help me cause im crushed right now

 

[mytime]

ahhhhhggggggg

buy the way hubbie and her are seperated shes jest at the house now for it to sell

 

[manny78]

euhhhhh I'm kindda confused, so in other words, whats going on ?

 

[mytime]

i dont know

i dont know .did i get the boot or should i wait ,does she still want to be with me .
i guess im as stumped as anyone i dont know

 

[manny78]

Give yourself some time to think about it and chill. Then you may have a different look at the situation. For the moment (just like any other human being) you're acting according to your feelings. She probably wants to come back but it ain't that obvious in this case.

 

[Heavy Weight Champ]

Sorry to say this bro, but if she has all that going on in her life right now, she truly may not have time for you. Still having her "x" hanging around and wanting her back would also lead one to believe they still have something going or she wants things to work out with him in some way, and when kids are involved it makes things even tougher. As hard as it may be, just drop it. You will have a much better relationship with someone with less baggage and more time for YOU.

Good luck

 

[danielson]

agreed leave her

im not sure if she is still with hubby, but she expects you to wait for her?!?

so in other words he wants to try with him, and if it fails then she's got you for back up

and did she separate from the husband? or is this a trial separation

 

[Crazier]

Don't ruin their family. No ruin that man's life of spending it with his child and wife.

Go find someone else.

I mean that.

If there is an inkling of any chance that a family can remain a family if you remove yourself from the situation... do her the biggest and most loving they you can do... step aside so she can stay with her family.

Tough break bro. But, I don't see any other options.
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[dballer]

I would read everything you just typed then consider hooked on phonics.

You spelling is very bad.

 

[katz]

He's probably threatening to take the kids away. So she feels that she has to keep her distance from you until things are resolved.