How long did you date someone before you got married?

[pappad]

What?? are you serious on both accounts??

glad to hear some good stories for a change

Yep, both are true!

 

[nefertiti]

My parents dated three months before they got engaged...and waited only another eight months after that to get married....30 years later, still together, still in love.

 

[-Ariel-]

dont get married

Gonna be another decade before I do, if I do, doesn't really work out that way, but thats my stupid plan...
unsure if I'm marriage material.

 

[sardonicone]

And how long have you been married for?
Or how long until you got divorced.

~ 10 years off and on.
~ 3 years. Will be 3 years Oct. 31st.
~ hasn't happened yet. If it does, it does. If it doesn't.... then it doesn't.

I'm one of those "meh" type of people. It's not a good thing, to be sure.

 

[walliwalibus]

7 months. Moved in 3 weeks after got together for first date. Knew a year before I ever approached her I was gonna marry her. And actually 14 years later still married. Damn, I look at what I just typed and think wtf.............. (thinking) ahhhhhhhhh memories

 

[lartinos]

Man, from reading this stuff it really makes me think i could be somone at anytime and be be married quickly. Scary, but kind of cool at the same time. If i do decide to get married quickly it will be to someone special because I don't wanna be in a relationship right now.

 

[redsamurai]

My parents dated three months before they got engaged...and waited only another eight months after that to get married....30 years later, still together, still in love.

still in love or just "comfortable" with each other? My parents have been together longer than that, and by all measures people would assume they have an exceedingly successful marriage. But I know better.......I payed attention though. My sister thinks everything is just fine.........but I've know for years and years that something was "off". I dunno.....I won't begrudge them anything......but all I can say is that I would not want to be in a marriage such as my parents have. I want more out of a life partner. Way more.

 

[Cutiebaby]

I met my husband when I was 13 cause he is a rude fucker.
Lost contact for a bit, until I was 15 years old when he became a very good friend possibly a best friend that I could run to when needed and talk to on the phone constantly.
Then started dating him when I was 16
Married him 1 week after my 19 birthday.

SO I guess we dated for 3 years.

 

[redsamurai]

damn, needto got to you early didn't he?? Nigga knows his game, I'll give him that...........I most certainly will........

 

[calveless wonder]

i wouldn't get married till at least 5 years of dating or so

although if im older (late 30's and single) i will wonder if that will change