I didn't want to have a baby then or get married. I also didn't ask to be married for the sake of the baby. We didn't get married until the baby was 6 months old. I told him don't even think about asking me because it's the "right thing to do" which is why we didn't get married before the baby came. He ended up surprising me and asking me to marry him when I was 8 months pregnant. We got married when she was 6 months. The rest is history.
No puddle I am not a dumb bitch that got pregnant on purpose to try and get married.

I was not ready at that age, but I did what was best. No regrets now I love my babies more than life.