i still dont understand why people do this. so what, it is just a piece of paper. it doesnt mean we can stop lying and you are mine now. you should stay the way you are no matter what. not saying i lied, its just a lot of men seem to lie to there fiances to get them to marry them and then bam, they arent who they said they are.
i let my wife go out with her friends, shoot i encouraged her to go. i send her flowers at work for no special reason at all. i even drove all the way to her job which is about 30 minutes in traffice just to put a rose on her windshield with a shoe box card. i love those cards, they have every stuation and they always say what you want. i go to lunch with her when i have the time. when she worked at blockbuster i would hang out there and help her stock the videos at the end of the night so she could get off work faster and we can spend time with each other.
i just dont see why people must change when they get married. it saddens me to hang out with a couple and the guy is treating his wife like complete crap and is right out in the open. then when its just him and me he thinks im on the same page and tries to tell me how he has her wrapped around his finger and what not. i stopped him right there and told him that it was wrong and i didnt want to hear it. needless to say they didnt remain friends with us for very long. and he forbid his wife to talk to mine. he thought we would corupt her and make her see the light.
sorry, i treat all woman like they deserve to be treated. with the upmost respect, love, and compasion for there thoughts. my mom taught me to be the way i am and i am so proud to be her son. so is my wife....
seriously, if you ever need to vent im just a pm away. i listen well and i answer honestly. take care.