How Did It Get Decided that Women Get Half in a Divorce when the court is ran by men?

[Ffactor]

I don't think this is going anywhere.

 

[bigguns7]

I have to go because I am saddened beyond words and none of you can understand.... maybe I will put up a thread about it later when I am less tired and my head isn't pounding.

Please tell me that you are not saddened beyond words with a pounding headache because of what you've read on this board.
It's amazing to me that you've evern entertained this conversation. I've been reading your posts in amazement for the last two days.

If you post on this thread seeking to justify your actions or validate your life, you should look elsewhere. This is pathetic.

 

[Ffactor]

Please tell me that you are not saddened beyond words with a pounding headache because of what you've read on this board.
It's amazing to me that you've evern entertained this conversation. I've been reading your posts in amazement for the last two days.

If you post on this thread seeking to justify your actions or validate your life, you should look elsewhere. This is pathetic.

We all need to vent sometimes, it's harmless and very therapeutic! Nothing wrong with showing a little bit of support when someone you care for is going through a difficult time.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Mr Big guns there is NOTHING on these boards that could EVER make me saddened beyond words and make my head pound. For you to even think such a thing is absurd.

My man is a surgeon and administrator for the Red Cross that has given a large part of his life to missions to proverty stricken and war torn countries. He wants to go to Iraq if we go to war.

Would that be enough to justify sadness beyond words and a pounding headache from very little sleep since I got this news?

 

[Bikini Mod]

If you post on this thread seeking to justify your actions or validate your life, you should look elsewhere. This is pathetic.

Justify MY ACTIONS? Which ones would those be?

Validate MY LIFE? In what way?

You people (and you know exactly who you are) never cease to amaze me.

 

[Warik]

You know, I just typed a long post and my button hit a finger and it is *poof* gone.

That's usually an undisputable "shit, they got me" indicator.

-Warik

 

[Bikini Mod]

You have no idea what you are talking about.

But you can be right. It's all good darlin'.

 

[Warik]

Ahh... "you don't know what you're talking about" - the cop-out of the century.

Here's what I'm talking about:

1) I'm under the impression that you believe that faithfulness is not a requirement until engagement/the paying of bills. Two people who are "dating," regardless of the length of their relationship, are free to have sex and consort with others as much as they please.

2) I'm also under the impression that you believe there's no such thing as right and wrong. Murder is "wrong" but you can twist it to be right. Cheating is "wrong" but you can twist it to be white. There are no absolutes in life.

3) Finally, I'm under the impression that you believe that a man who lets a woman walk all over him is "secure" and that a man who demands respect from such a woman is not "secure," even though 40,000 years of human history says otherwise.

As I said before, welcome to bikinilogic. If I'm wrong at all, please let me know why because I have no idea what I'm talking about and you do.

-Warik

 

[FreakMonster]

Ahh... "you don't know what you're talking about" - the cop-out of the century.

Here's what I'm talking about:

1) I'm under the impression that you believe that faithfulness is not a requirement until engagement/the paying of bills. Two people who are "dating," regardless of the length of their relationship, are free to have sex and consort with others as much as they please.

2) I'm also under the impression that you believe there's no such thing as right and wrong. Murder is "wrong" but you can twist it to be right. Cheating is "wrong" but you can twist it to be white. There are no absolutes in life.

3) Finally, I'm under the impression that you believe that a man who lets a woman walk all over him is "secure" and that a man who demands respect from such a woman is not "secure," even though 40,000 years of human history says otherwise.

As I said before, welcome to bikinilogic. If I'm wrong at all, please let me know why because I have no idea what I'm talking about and you do.

-Warik

Warik,
I think it's pointless to argue with a woman like Bikinimom who has no logic whatsoever and is obviously insane in the membrane.

I'd like to see how she responds to your post Warik. She'll probably just cop out like every other time.

Your tearing her apart pretty good though.

 

[Warik]

I'd like to see as well FreakMonster. I have my own opinion in the matter but I choose not to express it because I'm sure a 20 page essay will follow. I think we're not hearing the whole story.

I just find it difficult to believe that a woman can be faithful to her husband for (10,12,30? I dunno) years and suddenly do a 180 say "fuck indiscriminately unless you're married. it's perfectly OK" - just like I find it difficult to believe that a man can be a great husband (or so I'm assuming, since she/he didn't leave him/her earlier) for (10,12,30? minus 1 second) years and then suddenly do a 180 and turn into a raging woman-beater psychopath.

Something is not being told here, and that's OK since it's really none of our business unless she chooses to make it our business, but I also don't like the "my way is how it is and I can't logically reason why - it just is" attitude present in this thread.

OK, you believe all the crap you just said. Why? Reason it out. Stop speaking in 1,000 word riddles and bringing in irrelevant anecdotes. Your man wants to go to Iraq and you won't try to stop him? OK... that's great, now consider how the rest of the world works. If I wanted to go write programs on the frontline in Iraq I would damn sure expect my girlfriend to object, as would probably any other man on here, and I'd be quite the asshole to ignore her.

-Warik