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pdaddyII

pdaddyII

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So I had a few(4) friends over yesterday as a last minute kind of thing. I invited one and e 3 others came with, lol. I thought it may be a good idea to invite my ex over since she was having back surgery the next day and i still felt like a dick for ending things. I love this girl to death wholeheartedly, but I was kind of looking for some late night action. The friend of mine from nursing school has been calling me and I decided to reciprocate....fuck this cliff notes

Friends over, drunk decision to call ex over, it sucked so backup booty call contacted, she came over but was too early and met by my ex in the driveway.....ex has been texting me nonstop and booty call's bf has apparently been driving around the block looking for her. wtf

I'm drinking wine and cooking steak in a kona bean paprika rub so everyone can suck it.
 
it really is best to avoid girls with a bf/husband/monkey/etc
 
gimme a hundred grand
gimme your watch
gimme your chain
that's your girl?
bitch get over here
gimme some brain
 
boats n hoes
 
"the best laid plans of mice and men......." :FRlol:

don't cha just HATE it when a booty call plan reachs out and bites ya on the ass? :whatever:
 
Why would you sweat an ex dude? The way I see it the ex has two choices, one hit tha road or two get in where she fits in, wit a lil 3way action. Either way all is well that ends wit blowing your load.
 
Strongbow said:
Why would you sweat an ex dude? The way I see it the ex has two choices, one hit tha road or two get in where she fits in, wit a lil 3way action. Either way all is well that ends wit blowing your load.
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i work with her, that's why. She has a million friends at my place of employment, all of which adore her. She has the ability to completely shut down 70% of my action tang income.
 
pdaddyII said:
i work with her, that's why. She has a million friends at my place of employment, all of which adore her. She has the ability to completely shut down 70% of my action tang income.
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Well then you my friend are a wise man for trying play nice guy, but do you think that maybe meeting your piece of ass for the nite girl as she is leaving your driveway is not gonna piss her off all the more? Most chicks with any self respect would rather be told to step off than to be let down gently than to have another chicks ass rubbed in their face. Those are the types of things that will make her start making deductions from your tang account. At least if you cut her out completely she can start slinging stuff out of both drawers legs as a desperate ploy to get back at you, completley whore her self out to disgrace you. AHHHH femanine logic as Rnch would say. Truth be known thou bro, most chicks can give away more than we can get to counter act, be sure she was not the one before kicking her completely to the curb. Was this chick not a doctor?
 
Strongbow said:
Well then you my friend are a wise man for trying play nice guy, but do you think that maybe meeting your piece of ass for the nite girl as she is leaving your driveway is not gonna piss her off all the more? Most chicks with any self respect would rather be told to step off than to be let down gently than to have another chicks ass rubbed in their face. Those are the types of things that will make her start making deductions from your tang account. At least if you cut her out completely she can start slinging stuff out of both drawers legs as a desperate ploy to get back at you, completley whore her self out to disgrace you. AHHHH femanine logic as Rnch would say. Truth be known thou bro, most chicks can give away more than we can get to counter act, be sure she was not the one before kicking her completely to the curb. Was this chick not a doctor?
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Yes ER resident, and no she is not the one. i was drunk last night and it was just me and her on the couch with her wearing a short skirt being very flirtatious....and I just wasn't having any of it. You simply cannot fit a square peg through circle hole. U just timed it all wrong, i asked the booty call if she wanted to hang out and she was in her car en route before I could even get the chance to tell her to wait. I'm simply not in the position to cut the ex off completely...she really is awesome though, not sure if i would want that.
 
female medical peeps are the WORST for having ego issues..or so i am told.
 
rnch said:
female medical peeps are the WORST for having ego issues..or so i am told.
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Yup, a little bit. She kind of has to though. She IS just under 5'5" and a female in a male driven environment. You have to be loud and a bit overbearing in order to not be overshadowed.
 
pdaddyII said:
Yup, a little bit. She kind of has to though. She IS just under 5'5" and a female in a male driven environment. You have to be loud and a bit overbearing in order to not be overshadowed.
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yes, i understand why she has to be "that way" in her profession....but being "that way" makes it rough on guys who want to date her (like you don't know this by now!).
 
pdaddyII said:
Yes ER resident, and no she is not the one. i was drunk last night and it was just me and her on the couch with her wearing a short skirt being very flirtatious....and I just wasn't having any of it. You simply cannot fit a square peg through circle hole. U just timed it all wrong, i asked the booty call if she wanted to hang out and she was in her car en route before I could even get the chance to tell her to wait. I'm simply not in the position to cut the ex off completely...she really is awesome though, not sure if i would want that.
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I can certainly see where you are coming from, question is can she live with this friendly ex's type of relationship you guys have going. If so then you are golden, being she has a busy carrer it maybe a perfect fit for her, those are generally the types of women that can thrive in that type of relationship. But if she is not, then all I can say is good luck bro. Eventually she will nail your nuts to the post wit all of your coworkers and make your life as misreable as possible. Either way bro good luck to you. Just always remember its the hunt thats the fun part not always the kill. Happy Hunting Broskie.
 
rnch said:
yeh, like you ever had the oppertunity to "do such a thing"... :rolleyes:
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Like hook up with multiple strippers at one strip club and no longer be able to go there nights that one works there?
yes, you're right I haven't. That's a friend of mine and not me. :)
 
lartinos said:
Like hook up with multiple strippers at one strip club and no longer be able to go there nights that one works there?
yes, you're right I haven't. That's a friend of mine and not me. :)
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if you say so, dood... :rolleyes:
 
Strongbow said:
I can certainly see where you are coming from, question is can she live with this friendly ex's type of relationship you guys have going. If so then you are golden, being she has a busy carrer it maybe a perfect fit for her, those are generally the types of women that can thrive in that type of relationship. But if she is not, then all I can say is good luck bro. Eventually she will nail your nuts to the post wit all of your coworkers and make your life as misreable as possible. Either way bro good luck to you. Just always remember its the hunt thats the fun part not always the kill. Happy Hunting Broskie.
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Yes, i believe so. She made a slight move on me last night when we were alone and i declined the advancement. We have since talked again today and she wasn't bitter or resentful in the least. She was actually extremely appreciative that I called to see how her surgery went. She is a very mature sensible girl.
 
ortiz34 said:
did you just tell her you are a man-whore?

how'd you break it off?
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I told her I wasn't sexually attracted to her, but that I still loved her and thought she was one of the greatest people I have ever met. By the end of the conversation we were both laughing and agreed to be just friends.
 
pdaddyII said:
So I had a few(4) friends over yesterday as a last minute kind of thing. I invited one and e 3 others came with, lol. I thought it may be a good idea to invite my ex over since she was having back surgery the next day and i still felt like a dick for ending things. I love this girl to death wholeheartedly, but I was kind of looking for some late night action. The friend of mine from nursing school has been calling me and I decided to reciprocate....fuck this cliff notes

Friends over, drunk decision to call ex over, it sucked so backup booty call contacted, she came over but was too early and met by my ex in the driveway.....ex has been texting me nonstop and booty call's bf has apparently been driving around the block looking for her. wtf

I'm drinking wine and cooking steak in a kona bean paprika rub so everyone can suck it.
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hahaha.. bf driving around the block... that's classic
 
yea, and she's been texting me to come over tonight. "When I'm with you I always feel very special." RED FLAG
 
pdaddyII said:
I told her I wasn't sexually attracted to her, but that I still loved her and thought she was one of the greatest people I have ever met. By the end of the conversation we were both laughing and agreed to be just friends.
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OK, so you mean this woman is still willing to let you nail her even though you just told her pointblank, "I AM NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU"?

Please tell me that I misunderstood.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
OK, so you mean this woman is still willing to let you nail her even though you just told her pointblank, "I AM NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU"?

Please tell me that I misunderstood.
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Yup, i imagine her sexual attraction to me has not changed. I wouldn't have a problem sleeping with someone who wasn't sexually attracted to me, as long as I was getting mine.
 
pdaddyII said:
Yup, i imagine her sexual attraction to me has not changed. I wouldn't have a problem sleeping with someone who wasn't sexually attracted to me, as long as I was getting mine.
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See this is one of the basic differences between a woman and a man... or maybe not.

I was raised that if your partner isn't TOTALLY WANTING to engage in the act, I mean even if a woman changes her mind at the last second, or even in the middle of hot and heavy - you IMMEDIATELY get up, put your clothing on and say, "Kthanxbye" and NEVER look back.

IMHO there is no greater insult to a woman than for a man to say, "I just don't find you sexually attractive, but I will fuck you 7 different ways from Sunday if:

1. I don't have to put any effort into it.
2. Won't have to cook you eggs once I get mine."

Seriously, how damaged is this female and why would you want to continue to talk to her, let alone put your dick in her? Don't you value your free time more?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
See this is one of the basic differences between a woman and a man... or maybe not.

I was raised that if your partner isn't TOTALLY WANTING to engage in the act, I mean even if a woman changes her mind at the last second, or even in the middle of hot and heavy - you IMMEDIATELY get up, put your clothing on and say, "Kthanxbye" and NEVER look back.

IMHO there is no greater insult to a woman than for a man to say, "I just don't find you sexually attractive, but I will fuck you 7 different ways from Sunday if:

1. I don't have to put any effort into it.
2. Won't have to cook you eggs once I get mine."

Seriously, how damaged is this female and why would you want to continue to talk to her, let alone put your dick in her? Don't you value your free time more?
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Jesus, where the fuck did I say I put my dick in her? I just insinuated that if I wanted to I probably could. B U T, that isn't to say that there would be an enormous discussion discussing the act.

BTW, aren't we all a little "damaged"?
 
pdaddyII said:
Jesus, where the fuck did I say I put my dick in her? I just insinuated that if I wanted to I probably could. B U T, that isn't to say that there would be an enormous discussion discussing the act.

BTW, aren't we all a little "damaged"?
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I wasn't saying anything personally bad about you so take a deep breath and relax.

Perhaps I misunderstood but wasn't the whole point of this thread that "you could fuck your ex IF you wanted to"? .... even though you already told her that you did NOT find her sexually attractive?

And yes, EVERYONE is a bit damaged, some to greater/lesser degrees MYSELF INCLUDED.

Having said that,IMHO any woman that would have sex with a man (or vice versa) even though the other person already flat out told them that there is NO REASON to lay down with them other than to scratch an itch, or get theirs is more than "just a bit damaged". Following that train of thought, why would YOU, as a discerning man WANT to be intimate with a woman like that?

If I misunderstood the initial gist of the thread (which I very well may have) then I do apologize and stand corrected.

You are obviously an extremely handsome man who is in possession of a modicum of intelligence (otherwise you could not do professionally what it is that you do). I have NO DOUBT that pussy falls all over you. My question is why do YOU THINK it seems that you seem to end up with women who just aren't as high as one would think YOUR CALIBER is?

Not talking, just hit it and quit it situations. But you seem to be *long term involved* today, moving in and *happily ever after* this week, then she was yesterday in a flash.

Not a dig, just an observation.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I wasn't saying anything personally bad about you so take a deep breath and relax.

Perhaps I misunderstood but wasn't the whole point of this thread that "you could fuck your ex IF you wanted to"? .... even though you already told her that you did NOT find her sexually attractive?

And yes, EVERYONE is a bit damaged, some to greater/lesser degrees MYSELF INCLUDED.

Having said that,IMHO any woman that would have sex with a man (or vice versa) even though the other person already flat out told them that there is NO REASON to lay down with them other than to scratch an itch, or get theirs is more than "just a bit damaged". Following that train of thought, why would YOU, as a discerning man WANT to be intimate with a woman like that?

If I misunderstood the initial gist of the thread (which I very well may have) then I do apologize and stand corrected.

You are obviously an extremely handsome man who is in possession of a modicum of intelligence (otherwise you could not do professionally what it is that you do). I have NO DOUBT that pussy falls all over you. My question is why do YOU THINK it seems that you seem to end up with women who just aren't as high as one would think YOUR CALIBER is?

Not talking, just hit it and quit it situations. But you seem to be *long term involved* today, moving in and *happily ever after* this week, then she was yesterday in a flash.

Not a dig, just an observation.
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Hmmm, well i respect that observation. Maybe you interpreted the nature of my response incorrectly, no offense taken.

My explanation really isn't as complicated as one might think though. i get into relationships when I see that there is long term potential, true wife material. If at any time I feel like that potential is no longer there, whatever the reason may be, I end it. I don't see the point in sticking around just to see if things may clear up, or that I should stick around and attempt to change or repair someone. I have fallen into this scenario far too many times due to my nurturing demeanor and it has only come back to hurt me.

When my ex came over I got the impression that I could have slept with her if I had advanced the act, however I did not; so in retrospect it is mere speculation. Perhaps if I had attempted, she would have stopped me and preferred to talk about our feelings first....this is very possible seeing as she is one of the most level headed girls I have ever met.

So the reason I seem to fall in and out of relationships so quickly is becasue I refuse to settle, plain and simple. My parents set the bar pretty damn high, having never seen them even so much as argue and still act like newly weds. i refuse to become a statistic, and I refuse to accept someone that doesn't have something I'm looking for for a lifelong partner. life is far too short for settling for mediocrity. i know I will find 'the one'. I feel my odds are only increased the more I date to find her.
 
YOU SHOULD CONTINUE TO BE DEMANDING.

I am telling you honestly that you can do a better job surmizing life partner material before you get serious. Obviously, by serious I DONT mean sex. I mean investing a great block of time and feelings. I know how easy it is to get excited at the notion of FINALLY having met a strong prospect for a life partner especially when life is somewhat complicated as it is for single parents. But it CAN be done.

Good luck to you.
 
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BIKINIMOM said:
YOU SHOULD CONTINUE TO BE DEMANDING.

I am telling you honestly that you can do a better job surmizing life partner material before you get serious. Obviously, by serious I DONT mean sex. I mean investing a great block of time and feelings. I know how easy it is to get excited at the notion of FINALLY having met a strong prospect for a life partner especially when life is somewhat complicated as it is for single parents. But it CAN be done.

Good luck to you.
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Well thank you. There is a fine line between picky and hypercritical, I consciously try not to cross it.
 
pdaddyII said:
Well thank you. There is a fine line between picky and hypercritical, I consciously try not to cross it.
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I'm giving it to you straight, the only way I know how.

IMHO you should be UBER-picky. In other words if a female (or male depending on the individual) doesn't measure up, then why even bother pursuing it any further? I mean, I fully understand the desire to get your rocks off. Hell, you think that women don't feel that too? Maybe not as much as young men, but believe me when I tell you that there are many women out there who do.

The trick is to separate what will make you happy until you get your rocks of and what will make you happy whether you get your rocks off or not.

Does that make sense?
 
this tread supports my theory that guys and gals are "wired up" differently between the ears and one cannot think and rationalize like the other.
 
rnch said:
this tread supports my theory that guys and gals are "wired up" differently between the ears and one cannot think and rationalize like the other.
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100% correct. Ironically enough, when it comes down to it we both want the same things, but either don't know how to go about communicating it to one another or right people/wrong time. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS TIMING.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
100% correct. Ironically enough, when it comes down to it we both want the same things, but either don't know how to go about communicating it to one another or right people/wrong time. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS TIMING.
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or lack of.... :lmao:
 
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