Here we go again...

[slat1]

A guy threatened to kill me multiple times last night. He is a prominent member of the community.
Long story short...
He is a dick. He was wasted. He commited assault, then battery, then threatened my life. His brother also assaulted me from behind, then his son also. I never threw a punch.
He was at the police station last night filing a report.
Luckily, I had some women who watched and heard the whole thing write down their contact information. The guy is a world class dick.
I am meeting with my attorney on Monday.
If it gets ugly I am going to press charges against the guy, his brother and his son. Then I will sue the club i work at for not protecting me and over surving him.
*They sent me home right after it happened. The guy threatened my life numerous times and they were aware of it. They did not offer to escort me to my car or anything.
This should get interesting...

 

[Sub-Zero]

His brother also assaulted me from behind, .

i LOLed at this part

 

[string_bean00]

i LOLed at this part

as did I

 

[-SD-]

A guy threatened to kill me multiple times last night. He is a prominent member of the community.
Long story short...
He is a dick. He was wasted. He commited assault, then battery, then threatened my life. His brother also assaulted me from behind, then his son also. I never threw a punch.
He was at the police station last night filing a report.
Luckily, I had some women who watched and heard the whole thing write down their contact information. The guy is a world class dick.
I am meeting with my attorney on Monday.
If it gets ugly I am going to press charges against the guy, his brother and his son. Then I will sue the club i work at for not protecting me and over surving him.
*They sent me home right after it happened. The guy threatened my life numerous times and they were aware of it. They did not offer to escort me to my car or anything.
This should get interesting...

You live in new hampshire, get a concealed handgun license.

 

[slat1]

You live in new hampshire, get a concealed handgun license.

Mine expired in December.
I don't carry it unless I have a legit reason.
Right now I am more worried about dealing with the police department.
This guy is going to try and use what ever pull he has to screw me over.
The owners of the bar I work at are in his pocket too.
I am sick and tired of being in this type of drama. I would love to be able to go 6 months without someone threatening to kill me.

The funny part is I didn't evern realize the guys brother jumped me. I guess he was trying to choke me out and hit me. I figured it was just one of the other guys I work with.

I have a couple of scratches. Thats it.
I may be done bouncing. This is getting to be too much. I don't like having my charecter questioned. Everyone who I work with knows I must be provoked over and over.

Usually I let this stuff go. If I find out I can ruin this guys life I will do it.

I keep wondering what would have happened if I was some 200lb guy. They would have beat the crap out of me. There were 3 of them and they were all between 240 and 260. I am 250.

If I don't take this as far as I can they could do this again in the future to someone else.

BTW. After I wrote that one line the first time I laughed too.

 

[-SD-]

I dont know about NH but if you are jumped by 3 big guys, you are perfectly within your legal rights to brandish your handgun in self defense. They will run bor.

 

[eat big]

Damn, that sucks. All three of them attacked you and all you have is some scratches. Either they can't fight or they were just looking for trouble. If three guys wanted to push your shit in bad, they could. Press charges.

 

[velvett]

A guy threatened to kill me multiple times last night. He is a prominent member of the community.
Long story short...
He is a dick. He was wasted. He commited assault, then battery, then threatened my life. His brother also assaulted me from behind, then his son also. I never threw a punch.
He was at the police station last night filing a report.
Luckily, I had some women who watched and heard the whole thing write down their contact information. The guy is a world class dick.
I am meeting with my attorney on Monday.
If it gets ugly I am going to press charges against the guy, his brother and his son. Then I will sue the club i work at for not protecting me and over surving him.
*They sent me home right after it happened. The guy threatened my life numerous times and they were aware of it. They did not offer to escort me to my car or anything.
This should get interesting...

Have you ever filed a police report in regard to his behavior towards you in the past?

If not you're fucked - he has the the first police report a assume against you.

The first time it happened you should have filed a police report, the second time you should have file another police report and filed for a restraining order.

 

[silverbackn]

Damn, that sounds like a pretty hectic night. I was at home cooking pounds and pounds of chicken breasts

 

[Spartacus]

get out of that bouncing
I did it some and it's too damn dangerous
I spent about 12 years tending bar
unless a girl was involved I stayed behind the bar
usually doing shots while mgmt was sorting out the ruckus

 

[Spartacus]

if two girls got into I definitely stayed out of it
that's some frightening action

 

[Gambino]

damn slat is all this worth it for the $10 an hour???
are these people criminals that might actually try to murder you?
it doesn't seem worth it

 

[gotmilk]

You should go back to work in D.C., where Congress members will attack you, choke you, and threaten you.

But atleast the Georgetown area is much nicer than Manchester.

 

[PICK3]

if two girls got into I definitely stayed out of it
that's some frightening action

no shit ... I've been there. Bitches start going for the family jewels.

slat1, it's time to seek new employment bor. Life is too short to put up with that kind of fucking drama. fuck em

 

[DannoMight]

Damn slat. Thats the exact reason why I wouldnt bounce. Its always some asshole who has a knife or a couple buddies waiting for ya outside.

 

[slat1]

Damn, that sucks. All three of them attacked you and all you have is some scratches. Either they can't fight or they were just looking for trouble. If three guys wanted to push your shit in bad, they could. Press charges.

I just found out one of them was a professional football player. He is part owner of the minor league team in the town. The other was a Gold Gloves boxer. The son is just an idiot.
I guess the cops turned them away. Told them they were wasted and that they know we run a clean operation at that bar.
I am a little pissed still as I am off the schedule for a few weeks to "let thing cool down"
I am meeting with my attorney on Monday on an unrelated note. I may press charges against the three. My primary career would have been over if I made the paper for assault. I would like to give these guys a taste of their own medicine.
Its one thing for them to be embarrassed that I wouldn't take their shit. Its another that I wouldn't back down. Its another that they couldn't take me down when there was three of them and one of me.
It would be a big deal in the community for me to expose them as raging alcoholics and have them convicted of assault, battery and criminal threatening.
It should get more intersting as time passes.

 

[slat1]

Have you ever filed a police report in regard to his behavior towards you in the past?

If not you're fucked - he has the the first police report a assume against you.

The first time it happened you should have filed a police report, the second time you should have file another police report and filed for a restraining order.

It was the first time I ever saw the guy.
He is notorious for being a tough guy and a drunk.
I may file charges on Monday.

 

[Gambino]

I just found out one of them was a professional football player. He is part owner of the minor league team in the town. The other was a Gold Gloves boxer. The son is just an idiot.
I guess the cops turned them away. Told them they were wasted and that they know we run a clean operation at that bar.
I am a little pissed still as I am off the schedule for a few weeks to "let thing cool down"
I am meeting with my attorney on Monday on an unrelated note. I may press charges against the three. My primary career would have been over if I made the paper for assault. I would like to give these guys a taste of their own medicine.
Its one thing for them to be embarrassed that I wouldn't take their shit. Its another that I wouldn't back down. Its another that they couldn't take me down when there was three of them and one of me.
It would be a big deal in the community for me to expose them as raging alcoholics and have them convicted of assault, battery and criminal threatening.
It should get more intersting as time passes.

are you a cop slat?
shitty position to be in and i feel your pain. what would make me leery of filing charges is the snitch stigma that goes with that. is letting it drop an option??

 

[velvett]

It was the first time I ever saw the guy.
He is notorious for being a tough guy and a drunk.
I may file charges on Monday.

Ok.

So what you know about him is basically what others have told you.

How do you know he was filing a police report?
Were you contacted or questioned by the police?
Is this something he threatened to do?
Someone told you he did?

I'm not sure how to make this clear so I'll be blunt.

GET YOUR ASS TO THE POLICE STATION AND FILE A REPORT RIGHT NOW.
GET YOUR ASS OFF THE COMPUTER AND DO IT NOW.
DO NOT WAIT.

You should have done this the second you had the chance.
If anything the police should have been called the second it happened.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

im backing velv up 100%

file the report. get the tapes. pressure the police to get off their arses and interview witnesses (theyre lazy pricks if you let them be. getting in touch with the sargeant and getting a concrete timeframe from him speeds things up remarkably) then file against them 100%.

being a nice guy in legal situations like this inevitably leads to you getting another assault from behind (heehee i laughed at least as much as sublime ). simply put: if you do not take this 100% seriously from the beginning, the court will assume that your "niceness" "tardiness" or whatever was a result of the incident not being very serious, and you will not get a good outcome.

the more traumatised/indignant you act, the more the legal system will align with you.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Slat if all goes well and you win a big settlement. Will you buy me some boobies? I will let you play with them.









j/king kinda ... just wanted to lighten the mood.

 

[thelion2005]

slat .... you are a better man than this. Time to start a new career.

I also think this will all blow over.

 

[Spartacus]

it isn't his career
it's done for the pussy
when I bartended I had to make lists of chciks
they can come on to you because your "working" and in some sense this enables the whole "girl coming on to guy" to be avoided

 

[Spartacus]

I was a pretty slick bartender
and I didn't give away drinks to chciks either
fuck that

 

[slat1]

I just met with my attorney.
He told me if it was him he would let it pass.
The police are not filing charges against me. They know that we run a tight ship and we are very professional. I guess the police turned the guys away when they tried to file charges.
What my attorney said would happen if I filed charges was that my name and picture would be all over the front page of the newspapers. It would be unwanted attention.
He did say that if the guy pulled some strings and got a judge to pressure the cops into filing charges that at that point I should file also.
If that does occur one other guy I work with will be filing charges also. The charges would be assault, battery, and criminal threatening.
At this point I am letting it go. I also called the guy that does the schedule and told him I was done working there. No more bouncing for this guy.
I am 33 years old. I have a career that could be ruined. Too much to lose.
Now I will have to find something else to keep my busy.

 

[H_T_]

none of you bouncers is gonna listen to ole' HT. i was a bouncer for nearly 16 years. with a break or 2 here and there. i was a bouncer even after i got capped. but it's really not worth it. bottom line, BAR people = bottom of the barrel. they're all there cuz they have issues to dump on people.

 

[gotmilk]

you could return to torching buildings in downtown Manchester

 

[maccer]

good luck in whtever you do Slat you deserve more then that pathetic BS!! Its frustrating how pathetic people can be.

 

[slat1]

I just found out the police are investigating the incedent. Apparently, the guy made a bunch of phone calls. I am extremely annoyed at this point.
I also found out more details. The guy should shut his mouth. He assaulted a few people. He was extremely intoxicated also. I am not going to hold back on the details of what happened. So far they have interviewed a couple of people. I am waiting for the call at this point.

 

[heatherrae]

get a restraining order

 

[eat big]

Why haven't you done porn yet?

 

[-SD-]

Why haven't you done porn yet?

Yea rob, I thought there were some pron stars up in Boston you were going to gang bang or something. sounds like a vocational opportunity.

 

[slat1]

Slat if all goes well and you win a big settlement. Will you buy me some boobies? I will let you play with them.
j/king kinda ... just wanted to lighten the mood.

If I had the money I would buy them.
Um. Damnit. Now I am going to look at porn for a while.

 

[slat1]

Why haven't you done porn yet?

Never done porn. Just been lucky enough to have some fun with some girls who have sex on film.. LOL
Those were the good old days. A lot has changed in the last year.

 

[Tytan]

file a report as well and get those statements on record right away, there isn`t any reason to delay doing this...

 

[eat big]

Never done porn. Just been lucky enough to have some fun with some girls who have sex on film.. LOL
Those were the good old days. A lot has changed in the last year.

Sounds like you're headed down the right track. Stay on track and get a safer job.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Good luck. Keep us updated.





(on the porn girls that is)