help with my girl sitation

[Fajitas]

she's cheating on you.

 

[H_T_]

let the players play, eh?

 

[strangebrew]

Bro, she is doing one of two things

1.She has you in the pic to create drama/make her bf jealous.

2. She likes you, but she isn't going to let her ex go until she finds out if you are a step up for her on the food chain. As I look back at all my relationships when I was younger almost every girl I went out with had an ex she wanted to break up with, "just broke up" (lie), crazy ex stalker (meaning she was still fucking her)

You see...Girls are like Monkeys....(I have posted this before)

Girls swing from branch to branch. (guy to guy) However, they won't let go of the current branch until they have a good hold of the new branch. And, made sure its a strong enough branch before they swing over. If not...Well, they just swing right back to the first branch.

You had me at "girls are like monkeys."

 

[Sub-Zero]

i agree with sub

sig worthy

 

[B0ARDIN087]

you guys were being idealistic and not considering the concept of other people. if she could do that to the guy she was with, she'll do it to you. maybe you don't care. lol@ being with chicks you work with. you must not like that job.

im only giong to be at this job for 3 more weeks. then i go to college. so im not too worried about the job and have thought that thru.

 

[Y_lifter]

I had a similar situation with a beautiful girl with a crazy ass redneck boyfriend
that she said was her ex BF. We went out like 2 times. He saw me dropping her off.

He actually threatened to actually KILL me in the literal sense.

I was only 18 back then and I ran from that with a quickness.

 

[Lestat]

she needs to ditch this dude, why would she let him take her to work?

if she doesn't ditch him, you need to ditch her and play the field some more.

 

[B0ARDIN087]

ya...... i know its not the best situation. but i know that i dont wanan be iwth my ex. im positive of that.

as for the new girl. she has told him on the phone that she needs a break. i haev heard her say it more then once. he responds by saying i odnt know how im going to deal with that. then he keeps on calling and txt'ing her but she doesnt' pick up. eventually she does and he took her to work becuz she doesn't have another ride and he knows that. i have already told her that she needs to get this straightened out and until then im not commiting to anything. waht i want is jsut to have a fun rest of the summer with her, then go off to college single and happy. we are talking about like 30 days here, so its not such a big deal if it doesn't work out. i do believe that she is afriad to lose her bf but i know that they ahev major major problems. i think in time she will want to be with me and not him. but if she chooses him.......... who cares really........ i already hit it

 

[B0ARDIN087]

ok supposedly shes done with him completely now. i dont really care we are doing something tonight tho

 

[Whiskey]

Just do it like I did, walk up to him and tell him it's over. I had to do it once, but after we "talked" she was mine. If you don't think that approach is for you, hire a drunk at a bar to knock him out. I've seen it done

Whiskey