help me get my girl back

[busdriver1]

i dont know what her deal is about having a ring. Would should not have left me if she had a ring on. WTF. Both times she has done this she shuts me out and acts like she has never cared anything for me. When I got her back the first time I thought she would never pull this shit again. I thought we would be able to work anything out. Now what does she do- she runs away and will not have anything to do with me. I used to mean to girls and play em and break their hearts. Now, I finally find the girl I want and give in and fall for her and she is breaking my heart. I guess i am getting what I deserve. I wish I would have stayed my ol heartless self. You have to understand though with this girl. She brought me out of a pretty dark place that I was in. My best friend and I were in an accident and he was killed. he took his last breath with me holding him in my arms. After that I was pretty messed up. This girl changed all that. Thats why its so hard to let her go. I am so scared of losing her. She is the only one i can talk to about my experience and the only one that ever tried to help me. I have become so attached to her because of what she did for me and with her pretty much saving my life. It still effects our relationship sometimes and we both know it. I can think about what happened sometimes and it puts me in a funk to where I dont talk all day. imagine having a boyfriend that does that. right now I feel as though I cannot live without her and without her support. Damn, I gotta get her back. BTW- I am 24 and she is 21.

 

[PHATchik]

i dont know what her deal is about having a ring. Would should not have left me if she had a ring on. WTF. Both times she has done this she shuts me out and acts like she has never cared anything for me. When I got her back the first time I thought she would never pull this shit again. I thought we would be able to work anything out. Now what does she do- she runs away and will not have anything to do with me. I used to mean to girls and play em and break their hearts. Now, I finally find the girl I want and give in and fall for her and she is breaking my heart. I guess i am getting what I deserve. I wish I would have stayed my ol heartless self. You have to understand though with this girl. She brought me out of a pretty dark place that I was in. My best friend and I were in an accident and he was killed. he took his last breath with me holding him in my arms. After that I was pretty messed up. This girl changed all that. Thats why its so hard to let her go. I am so scared of losing her. She is the only one i can talk to about my experience and the only one that ever tried to help me. I have become so attached to her because of what she did for me and with her pretty much saving my life. It still effects our relationship sometimes and we both know it. I can think about what happened sometimes and it puts me in a funk to where I dont talk all day. imagine having a boyfriend that does that. right now I feel as though I cannot live without her and without her support. Damn, I gotta get her back. BTW- I am 24 and she is 21.

I realize that she has affected your life in a way that no one else has. And I know that she gave you a kind of healing that you needed. However, your life does go on whether she is in it or not. This is the second time she has left you. You have no reason to believe that it will not continue to happen, regardless of a ring on her finger or not. I think that it would be in your best interests to take a long break from her, even if she wants to come back to you. You can live without her and her support. I think we are all stronger than we give ourselves credit for, and that includes you. If after a break, you both decide that being with each other is what you want, then try again, slowly.

 

[Bikini Mod]

She may have affected your life positively but whether you realize it or not YOU brought yourself out of the "dark place", not her. You can have all the supportive family and friends in the world, but if YOU do not decide to help yourself, sorry, ain't nuthin' gonna change.

No one other person is the end all and be all of another. You did not spend the last 50 years of your life with this girl.

Phatchick's advice is right on.

Let it go...

If for some reason, you guys decide to give things ago after you have both decided to make some changes in your lives BY YOURSELVES AND FOR YOURSELVES then you might begin again.... SLOWLY.

Sound advice... I think I may just take it. LOL

 

[jwill3:16]

If its gone this far your screwed

 

[zapper]

just wanted to say that:

1. You are a dumbass for screwing it up like that.

2. Stop driving the bus, and get a car instead.

 

[OXANDRIN]

My girlfriend just left me. The other day she called me and told me she was going to call me at a certain time. She didnt call so I called her and left her a pretty ugly message. Come to find out her cell phone was dead and she couldnt call. She called me the next morning and told me that nobody talks to her like that and that I didnt respect her and it was over. A week ago we were looking at engagement rings. Damn this is hard. She will not see me because I know that it will make it harder on her if she does. If she doesnt see me I know she feels that she will be able to go through with it. I dont know what to do. She has left me before and came back to me, so maybe there is hope. I was thinking about going and buying the ring that she wanted and see if she will take it. I have to do it tonight if I am going to do it. I have to figure out a way for her to meet me. Damn, why did I get myself in this situation, me and my big mouth.

you seem pathetic bro. you must not get a lot of ass or you aren't very good looking. maybe both?

this girl seems like she sucks! you seem like the type of dude i beat the shit out of for the fun of it in middle school....anyway you have some recourses here:

1. stalk her until she falls in love with you again

2. (this list isn't done! i gotta run and i want to get this post up)

i'll finish it later

 

[Baoh]

My girlfriend just left me. The other day she called me and told me she was going to call me at a certain time. She didnt call so I called her and left her a pretty ugly message. Come to find out her cell phone was dead and she couldnt call. She called me the next morning and told me that nobody talks to her like that and that I didnt respect her and it was over. A week ago we were looking at engagement rings. Damn this is hard. She will not see me because I know that it will make it harder on her if she does. If she doesnt see me I know she feels that she will be able to go through with it. I dont know what to do. She has left me before and came back to me, so maybe there is hope. I was thinking about going and buying the ring that she wanted and see if she will take it. I have to do it tonight if I am going to do it. I have to figure out a way for her to meet me. Damn, why did I get myself in this situation, me and my big mouth.

You are both ass-faces.

Really.

 

[OXANDRIN]

................ ok i'll add to that now

you don't know how to talk to women. don't ever let them raise thier voice at you. i always hang up or smack them before they get a word out. therefore i never hear that crap. and they don't have a chance to complain

also never look at engagement rings.......girls are psycho's and they love expensive shit. she'd wear the ring just to show it off then dump when she found someone that wasn't impressed by it.

i don't really feel bad for you. happens to everyone! get over it

 

[OXANDRIN]

give us an update on your space wasting thread

 

[busdriver1]

Yall stop all the flaming, you guys are killing me. Man, yall dont know half the story so yall cant judge me or her. And no Oxandrin I can get ass. Shit, my girlfriend actually had to cuss a bitch out one night for disrespecting her. the ho gave me her number with my girl standing right beside me. No dont go there, she will tell you, I live in a small town, people know about the all the ho's the bus has been with. Like I said, I used to treat em like shit, thats what they like. Its different with this girl, I respect her, I just happened to slip up and let my fina rage take over. Anyway, she called me today, and we talked. I know this girl inside and out, she knows she should not have run off. I cant blame her though, I should not have been so ugly. We are meeting tonight for dinner, I guess we will see how it goes.