Help! Did not get kiss on first date-outing!

[wayne and zeus]

Havoc beat me to it.

I was going to say that DONT POST WHILE UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF SPECIAL K DUDE. J/K Seriously Lots of people obsess on girls they havent had yet - play it cool with her and yourself(mentally). This could become a full time mental obsession if you don't calm down. Look at things from her point of view. What would you do if a girl acted this way with you?(besides banging her anyway) you would think she is COOKOO.

Next step is call her, hope you get her machine, and leave the following message, " This is TimeWillTell, Just wanted to let you know I had a great time taking with you and meeting your family. Give me a call and take care." -(or some calm variation on the above) and don't call her again until you hear from her.

Next time you line up a piece of ass in your crosshairs, think about this idea - "You are in a pond and reaching for a leaf, the more you reach out and aggressively try to grab the leaf, the more the leaf is pushed away by the activity. Instead try to move backward and let the water bring the leaf to you."
Is that a Gay quote for if it is I am truly sorry...

 

[p0ink]

Wow, what the fuck?

You go out on a first date with a girl who you find to be conservative, and you end up telling her that you've had sex with some of the girls you lived with, plus you prosituted yourself out to another girl? LOL!!! Oink oink, my good man!

 

[Bullit]

What the flying-fuck is "kino" ????????

 

[HG Pennypacker]

Actually, I think Elmer's is odorless ...

So is carbon monoxide

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

YOu are right. And thanks for being blunt. I fucked up every which way possible that I can smell dick right under my seat which sucks.

And beforehand, I knew that girls were into a mysterious guy and that giving out all details to a girl is very stupid. It was just that I was afraid of her going back into town and hearing other people how I prostituted myself, had my past affairs..etc, thanks to my big mouth friend.

Again, you are right. WHat a surprise...I tell a conservative girl how I whored myself out and end up with dick in the end.

Thanks for the post.

Instead of telling HER about your sex past, you should've told your mountain buddies to keep their mouths shut, and BRIBED them to do just that with the money you whored from that ugly chick. Then, and only then could you have avoided the misfortune of 'scaring' this girl off.
And you should've just fucking kissed her, instead of asking to 'taste' her lips. Yeah this sucks dude, live and learn is all. Next time stay out of those mountains, they seem to be bad karma or something.

 

[timewilltell]

Well everyone, thanks for the advice once again. Me sniffing glue?? naa...just a bad case of ADD and a host of other shit that circles in my head. Doc always pushes me to try this and that medication but forget it (or maybe not?)

In all honesty, in the past, I would NEVER discuss my sexual affairs of the past or even bring the conversation up its just that I was put in awkward situation. First off the girl tells me how she hates when a guy is not honest and then there was the fucking mountain people ready to spill the beans me. I felt pressured to tell her (advice from a friend was to be honest upfront but its still my fault for following dumb advice) rather then her liking me and then finding out I was this city hustler.

As far as the prostitution thing, it was more of a joke role-play from a girl that happens to have some cash. Also I had assumed she knew beforehand that I make decent cash. But I guess in the eyes of the judge (yeah, even the norm I guess) I accepted cash.I got sex.

Anyway, new update. Came home from work, checked the answering machine and it was her reminding me that there was some kind of festival going on in the mountains this coming Sunday. I cant make since I have shit load of things going on this weekend so Ill just arrange for yet another simple date perhaps to the movies. I really get the hunch that this is *lets just be friends* type deal so maybe I should just drop it and move on. I have several female friends as it is....not to say that I dont want more but I dont want to be friends with a girl that I have a strong attraction too. I agree with most of what you are saying, after a shitty and weird display why on earth would she give me another chance?

 

[timewilltell]

Oh, speaking off the kiss...I was going to pull right off before I told her about my stupid history. I told her to close her eyes to try to imagine some things (she minors in psychology in college so I brought up the discussion on this general issue) but at first she was scared to do it. She told me that she TRUSTED me not to do anything crazy and implied the message that (I know what you are trying to do, you are trying to kiss me...bla bla) so I didnt push forward. Instead I just switched the topic around and felt it wasnt time for it.

Yes, its geeky, dorky, 3rd grade like to ask for a kiss. Ive done it before with some success in the clubs when the timing was right but unfortunately it didnt work here. Especially with the situation at being.

 

[timewilltell]

Saint808..you hit it on the nail as well. I always feel like I have to PROVE that Im having sex with girls (subconsciously) which is part of my motivation for trying to get sex with other girls. Ever since high school I was the dude that never got laid, the virgin, etc. It was embarrassing.

Everything is going good with my life...decent living, awesome family, I have one best buddy that is always there for me (have another one with a mouth as big as Rosie ODonnels eyes on a donut after a fast) but I just cant get my shit straight with girls.
Getting from point A to point B in the bed is actually EASIER for me than to meet a really nice girl who can really make you feel awesome. Yeah, it sounds like a bunch of garb especially coming from a guy but thats the truth.

As far as obsession....i guess its not surprising to say that moi´has OCD.

 

[timewilltell]

Bikinimom hit on the nail with the stuff she said. I also have this mentality that the ´normal ´ girls I meet will behave the same way in the club.

Wayne and Zeus I put her in my shoes and would run to the hills. I have dealt with psycho girls and they do scare the shit out of me. Damn...pass me some of that glue..lots to learn here.

 

[Lao Tzu]

What the flying-fuck is "kino" ????????

kinesthetics, ie touching, hugging, tapping, etc.
















You still do way better than i do with women.